FabSwingers.com forum: "Message on my behalf"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone ever received a message on behalf of someone else as a way to bypass your filters?

One of my M Fab friends asked me to message a woman he knows from here because she was unable to message me due to being outside my age range but she really wanted to meet me

Surely you would just see you can't message the person and move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

Had someone recently not take no for an answer, multiple messages sent so I blocked him. And then he popped up on his couples profile.. and then he logged into his girlfriends profile to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are there for a reason, and I’m sure, but correct me if I’m wrong but if the person with the filter messages first the other can reply …

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Filters are there for a reason, and I’m sure, but correct me if I’m wrong but if the person with the filter messages first the other can reply …"

Yeah the person with the filters would need to make the first move other wise they can't make contact

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By *iko34Man
over a year ago

long eaton

"Has anyone ever received a message on behalf of someone else as a way to bypass your filters?

One of my M Fab friends asked me to message a woman he knows from here because she was unable to message me due to being outside my age range but she really wanted to meet me

Surely you would just see you can't message the person and move on?"

Some people just don't know boundaries and this is what gives us all a bad rep

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By *nly4fun76Man
over a year ago

cardiff

"Filters are there for a reason, and I’m sure, but correct me if I’m wrong but if the person with the filter messages first the other can reply …"

Can you then reply to the message or will the filter prevent the reply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever received a message on behalf of someone else as a way to bypass your filters?

One of my M Fab friends asked me to message a woman he knows from here because she was unable to message me due to being outside my age range but she really wanted to meet me

Surely you would just see you can't message the person and move on?

Some people just don't know boundaries and this is what gives us all a bad rep "

Tbh it was a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filters are there for a reason, and I’m sure, but correct me if I’m wrong but if the person with the filter messages first the other can reply …

Can you then reply to the message or will the filter prevent the reply?"

I’m pretty sure if the person with the filters messages the other can reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the point of setting filters if you’re going to allow people to bypass them?

Is it just some kind of determination test?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s the point of setting filters if you’re going to allow people to bypass them?

Is it just some kind of determination test? "

Not allowing anyone to bypass anything

I think maybe you've misread my post?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Have I understood this correctly.

A guy you know asked you to message a woman because she really wanted to meet him but filters prevented him messaging?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I've read it again. He massaged you on her behalf?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My opinion is that trying to help someone bypass a filter is not a great idea. And yes I agree if filters prevent you messaging you should just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have I understood this correctly.

A guy you know asked you to message a woman because she really wanted to meet him but filters prevented him messaging?"

No she wanted to meet me but my filters prevented her from messaging me

The guy is our mutual friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I've read it again. He massaged you on her behalf?"

I see him regularly, so he mentioned it on one of the times I saw him

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yrs I get this weekly from woken messaging on behalf of men

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Sorry some folks including the ones that agreed to send the DM on someone elses behalf,don't realize they're also being a waste of time

That's probably one of many reasons some folks have given up on this site

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

100%, respect filters. We have them for a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish our filters were working properly but we still get older messaging us, sent error message on the contact us page, still nothing

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Yep, they message this account talking about my wife cos they’re out of our filter range on our couples account!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I've had it in the past where someone messaged me saying that their friend wanted to meet me and would I message them as they were way under my age range. I didn't.

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Yes a couple with singles profiles. The husband had messaged me from the couples then moved to his own account which his wife obviously couldn’t see. He was openly bi however she did not like me getting compliments from him lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry some folks including the ones that agreed to send the DM on someone elses behalf,don't realize they're also being a waste of time

That's probably one of many reasons some folks have given up on this site "

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes a few times, once I also had a 'woman' message me on behalf of a guy I decided wasn't for me to try and convince me otherwise.

It's completely pointless!

"Has anyone ever received a message on behalf of someone else as a way to bypass your filters?

One of my M Fab friends asked me to message a woman he knows from here because she was unable to message me due to being outside my age range but she really wanted to meet me

Surely you would just see you can't message the person and move on?"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A woman who was below my lower age filter contacted someone I had verified and asked them to contact me on her behalf.

They refused so she took it to the next level and started a thread asking me to get in touch.

I didn't and I didn't comment on the thread either but others told her it was inappropriate and she should respect my filters.

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