FabSwingers.com forum: Straight men

By *ryton 123 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Chatham

Very surprised how many straight men want to be wanked and sucked off by another man. Does any other bi guy argee or disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not surprised ,bi guys suck better than wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree yes but it's whatever feels good I say

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m a bi guy and I’m married. Me and my wife have met loads of straight guys and by the end of the night they are more than happy with a guy sucking them off. One guy came back a few times and he preferred me sucking him off

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's these sort of myths that put us off playing with bi guys. Too many believe that a straight guy is there for turning and are unable to accept that most straight guys are just that - straight. We've had a few evenings spoiled by bi guys agreeing to play straight then trying it on with my totally straight husband..

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By *ornyHunk80Man
over a year ago

Watford

I'm a straight man who wants to suck a cock and also get fucked by a cock at the same time

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By *itty HoodooCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"It's these sort of myths that put us off playing with bi guys. Too many believe that a straight guy is there for turning and are unable to accept that most straight guys are just that - straight. We've had a few evenings spoiled by bi guys agreeing to play straight then trying it on with my totally straight husband.."

Head in the clouds. Most guys on here just want to get “ their rocks off baby, their rocks off baby” they’ll say straight, they’ll say dom they’ll even say the biggest turn on for them is seeing a couple enjoy their fantasies and are blessed to have helped them lol. They just want to cum and their standards and sexuality will fluctuate depending on how horny they are feeling at the time. But thank goodness they all read your profile and understand what you as a couple are looking for before messaging

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

See I get the reverse with couples that claim to want to meet and watch me with the woman / spit roast woman. 90% of the time the straight male half all of sudden wants his manhole fucking or sucking / kissing etc.

I just view it now most people on here will say anything to get the meet and then hope you will go along with it once in person

Got up and walked out of a few meets because of this over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately we have had the same even though we were very clear my husband is straight.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Very surprised how many straight men want to be wanked and sucked off by another man. Does any other bi guy argee or disagree. "

I’ve had guys with straight on their profile want to suck and be sucked. I’m not sure what the issue is on here as all the ladies I’ve had sex with want bi guys.

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
over a year ago

nearby

Not really a myth. My inbox on here is more than 50% “straight” identifying men who have messaged me. I’ll fab a pic or maybe occasionally wink a straight guy but never message first, but so many of them love to chat…

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

I’m straight …. NOT

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By *ornyOAPMan
over a year ago

Fethiye

"I'm a straight man who wants to suck a cock and also get fucked by a cock at the same time

Love it

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over a year ago

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By *ingle_docMan
over a year ago

Oxford

On the other hand, some people (not directing this at you) think that a bi guy cannot possibly keep their hands to themselves, and lots of couple profiles specifically say ‘No bi men’.

IMO it’s all about consent and no different to any other interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bi guy and I’m married. Me and my wife have met loads of straight guys and by the end of the night they are more than happy with a guy sucking them off. One guy came back a few times and he preferred me sucking him off "

That doesn't make them "Straight", it merely means that they were in that Egyptian River (denial).

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

On the other hand, some people (not directing this at you) think that a bi guy cannot possibly keep their hands to themselves, and lots of couple profiles specifically say ‘No bi men’.

IMO it’s all about consent and no different to any other interaction"

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

On the other hand, some people (not directing this at you) think that a bi guy cannot possibly keep their hands to themselves, and lots of couple profiles specifically say ‘No bi men’.

IMO it’s all about consent and no different to any other interaction"

Totally agree. My hubby is bi. We have met straight cpls and played. At no time did my john eye the guys tackle up. Try to touch him. Suggest anything. But most cpls are very happy i am bi which is a double standard on here and always has been and always will be. Bi guys are scorned whilst bi women are loved

. We just stick to bi cpls/women these days.

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By *mallButHard72Man
over a year ago

London

I think everyone defines bisexual differently. Some would say you have to be attracted to men which I'm not in order to be bisexual. I consider myself bi as I enjoy sucking cock. I've had messages from people in the same boat as me but consider themselves straight. I think it's just what you're comfortable with.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think some men genuinely don't think they're bi unless they fancy or have a relationship with a man.

I've seen so many threads where men and women claim they're straight yet regularly play with the same sex.

Some men just write straight so they don't reduce their chances of meets with women/couples .

As said above some will just write whatever suits so they get a meet & hope people go with it.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

On the other hand, some people (not directing this at you) think that a bi guy cannot possibly keep their hands to themselves, and lots of couple profiles specifically say ‘No bi men’.

IMO it’s all about consent and no different to any other interaction

. We just stick to bi cpls/women these days. "

We have played straight with bi guys who are happy to stay within agreed boundaries. The point is that they are let down by those that don't. Also in our opinion it is nothing to do with either scorning bi men or double standards with respect to bi women. It is entirely related to people's sexual preferences and enjoyment. I am bi but would never attempt to play with a straight woman however attractive I might find her. It's about respecting others' boundaries, and unfortunately there are those of all sexual orientations that do not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I can only speak for myself but this is something I am most cettainly NOT interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a lot of men are curious. I want to try something different perhaps.

I agree that if you’ve agreed no touching in a couple scenario then no touching is the rule. But on occasions I have been asked if it was okay.

I think as long as people are honest And truthful, then they shouldn’t be a problem

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I get more messages from "straight" guys than anyone else.

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By *ogan2099Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I’m a bi man. Lots of men are curious but a lot are not in the slightest . I sometimes think bi/gay/whatever people can’t accept this at all.

You can be bicurious with being bi. You can actually try something and find it’s not for you so I wouldn’t think you’re bi

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

The wife and I have had that same issue too in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So stupid. If a guy wants his cock suck by another man then he’s not straight. He’s bi.

I’m straight and it would be disgusting for me to be touch or touch another man. No offence please just saying how some straight people feels.

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Most of my messages (for oral and more) come from ‘Straight’ guys. I never meet them, to be honest. The one time I got close to caving in (he was seriously hot) I asked if he had a regent neg test. He LOL-ed & replied: “I don’t test.” Insta-block, hahaha.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There’s straight and there is fab straight, which basically covers everything else

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Fab “straight”

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i had a message from a straight guy this morning,, he wants to give me a blow job

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

A major majority of my messages seem to come from "straight" men

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Nah straight is straight.

Getting wanked off sucked by a guy is quite gay

If I went to see a couple I'd talk beforehand understand situation

And fuck the woman while the other guy joins in with the woman

As straight is as straight does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a message from a straight guy this morning,, he wants to give me a blow job"

Sorry Dave

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"i had a message from a straight guy this morning,, he wants to give me a blow job

Sorry Dave

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,, no probs

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

We have opposite problem. We like to meet bi guys but after fun with me they suddenly decide that their not bi anymore. We would, and have, respected guys that say their not bi but at least be honest beforehand!

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

End of the day its called lieing if your straight you dont want ya cock sucked or suck another cock! Personally I'm not attracted to men but love sucking and fucking them it's just a sexual thing to me.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve said it before and I will say it again “most men would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping long enough”

I only get winks from guys even though it says I’m straight, not interested in men, but they can take a seat as I fuck their wife, might even buy them a beer after if she was extra naughty

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By *ream of Sum Yung Gai2Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Any hole a goal, for the straighties.

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By *lkShaftMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"Very surprised how many straight men want to be wanked and sucked off by another man. Does any other bi guy argee or disagree.

I’ve had guys with straight on their profile want to suck and be sucked. I’m not sure what the issue is on here as all the ladies I’ve had sex with want bi guys. "

Really the profiles I see always say no Bi Guys

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By *lkShaftMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Majority of these guys,may well be curious. We know a lot will be Bi-curious, because they still want to meet,Straight Women and Couples.

So they just put Straight on there Profiles,which allows them to contact Bi guys and Couples. As many say they are not physically attracted to men, but they still enjoy sucking cock and being fucked by one.

I love everything about genetic women,and live my life as a Straight man. But I also admire Cd/Tv's/ and would love to meet a Trans woman, even though I know it's doubtful.

As mentioned above about Labels, because I have met Cds I am regarded as Bi, even though like a lot, I my self am not physically attracted to men.

A lot of guys do have nice bottoms and nice cocks too,does not mean you want to fuck em or suck em. If you did would that make you, Curious, Bi Curious Bi or just Gay?. Now I know some will say just by me saying this makes me Bi, as I have read a few topic's like this.

Question I'd like to ask, is if I saw a nice piece of Jewelly in a shop window that I admired, but clearly could'nt afford would that make me Thief?

Like a lot of Straight,Curious or Bi Curious guys, majority of my messages also come from Straight guys,I have had to Block some

Before someone asks no I have not sucked a Cock. Lol don't ask

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m quite surprised about this ? As a straight guy I would never contact a bi guy ? Don’t get me wrong I’ve had guys fab my pictures which I take it as it is and as I don’t get many thank them for the fab ?

But it must be hard for couples who have agreed with a guy what the dos and don’t things are then to have someone spoil the night ? Not saying it doesn’t happen with couple and guys but I’m either naive or just too honest ?

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By *linky1Couple
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

I think that a lot of women on here are not bi as in wanting a relationship with another woman but are happy to have a bit of fun in the swing of things.

Same with the guys not being uncomfortable with something happening in the moment but it is very much about having your partner there and her being a part of the whole thing.

Do not at all fancy guys but hey if the scenario is hot then go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get tonnes of messages off straight guys even though it states we are looking for Bi guys only.... to then tell us they would try with a guy.... note like they want a bit of the Mrs!

Makes it very hard to find genuine people tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get tonnes of messages off straight guys even though it states we are looking for Bi guys only.... to then tell us they would try with a guy.... note like they want a bit of the Mrs!

Makes it very hard to find genuine people tbh. "

More like they want.... ***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about labels, stigma and ofcourse self denial.

It’s 2023, those who are not straight should feel safe to admit it to themselves and to others, it’s actually a real shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

while weve not had this issue when playing (yes weve met bi guys before) we do get approached by men and women assuming that straight doesn't mean straight. if we ever had that situation it probably would end all play and spoil the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all about labels, stigma and ofcourse self denial.

It’s 2023, those who are not straight should feel safe to admit it to themselves and to others, it’s actually a real shame."

agreed, while labels are useful on a site like this to be used as a preference basis for what your looking for, there is too much social stigma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not surprised ,bi guys suck better than wife "

My wife and I once competed sucking a man and he said we where equal and I know she was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sort of person is a twat, and not because they're bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately we have had the same even though we were very clear my husband is straight. "

Conversely I have had women make me suck a guys cock when he said he's straight, what do you do? Luckily he loved it.

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I'm bi but have no intrest in sucking cock!

I do get a few messages from straight guy's offering to suck my cock, also the bi room is flooded with straight men wanking off.

someone saying they are straight is just.... well what's the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting read so far. Great thread.

Here’s where I’m at... I define myself as straight. I don’t find men attractive and they don’t turn my head in the same way that a lady can turn my head. I’ve never got an erection from looking at vids or photos of a bloke clothed or naked, nor got a stiff from looking at cocks. However, the actual act of witnessing an ejaculation is a turn-on for me.

I would say that I’m cock-curious, I guess. I’ve never blown or been blown by a bloke and don’t really want to. Yet, I’m open to the possibility of being in the heat of passion in an MMF where if I found myself being sucked off by the F and then the M took over, then who knows? If I was near completion, I would probably shoot a load. However, ‘rules is rules’ so whatever boundaries were set before the meet would have to be kept to by all. In the cold light of day, I wouldn’t preempt any MM action at all within the MMF.

Yet, I’m still cock-curious enough to want to ‘pop my cherry’ with a cock. Just not really with a blokey bloke. This is why I would happily meet with a fem pre-op TS or an extremely fem looking TV/CD. Anal is anal with your eyes closed and if I was looking at a skirt hooked up in front of me and long-hair was flowing, then I would cum. Likewise if a soft-skimmed fem looking person was blowing me off, I would enjoy that and explode too. I would be in the zone because of their femininity which is something that arouses me.

So there’s a cock in their pants? Well, this is the ‘curious’ side that I mentioned. I have never blown a cock and I would like to one time. I’ve never tasted spunk and I would like to, one time. But to be able to do this, I would need the female form to get me sexually excited.

Does that make me Bi or Bi Curious? Who knows?

I know that I would prefer a play date with an F 1-2-1 most of all, and I would happily go MMF, along with a straight or bi M, if we were sharing the F or if we took turns or did cuck-stag/vix.

Would I do a one-off MFF if the either of the Fs were TS or fem TV, yup, I would. Do I still want to give a TS or fem TV a BJ the one time, yes I do. I’m curious.

Whether this means I’m Bi Bi-curious is still out for jury deliberation. I don’t think I am, but hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get messages from straight profiles saying they r really bi lol

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

On the other hand, some people (not directing this at you) think that a bi guy cannot possibly keep their hands to themselves, and lots of couple profiles specifically say ‘No bi men’.

IMO it’s all about consent and no different to any other interaction

. We just stick to bi cpls/women these days. "

This is the same as us, really now only look for Bi guys or genuine bi couples but if we do play with a straight couple I will not go near the guy with any intention of "turning" him as I want any type of play reciprocal not forced...but also fed up with straight guys responding to requests for Bi guys with an answer of "yes I'm straight but willing to try it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight guy here

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By *ave38ukMan
over a year ago

haverhill

On the other hand, some people (not directing this at you) think that a bi guy cannot possibly keep their hands to themselves, and lots of couple profiles specifically say ‘No bi men’.

IMO it’s all about consent and no different to any other interaction

. We just stick to bi cpls/women these days.

i was always curious but it took a very special and understanding couple for my first Bi experience, i do enjoy bi play in a threesome and have tried 1to1 but would never push for Bi play but if it feels right then it enhances a threesome experience

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

There's several different "straight"

There's actual straight.

Fab Straight.

Spaghetti Straight.

Amazing how many "straight" guys, when invited to join you for a 3some, are happy to suck a dick so long as they can fuck the missus.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Very interesting read so far. Great thread.

Does that make me Bi or Bi Curious? Who knows?

I know that I would prefer a play date with an F 1-2-1 most of all, and I would happily go MMF, along with a straight or bi M, if we were sharing the F or if we took turns or did cuck-stag/vix.

Would I do a one-off MFF if the either of the Fs were TS or fem TV, yup, I would. Do I still want to give a TS or fem TV a BJ the one time, yes I do. I’m curious.

Whether this means I’m Bi Bi-curious is still out for jury deliberation. I don’t think I am, but hey

Androsexual - sexual orientation describing sexual attraction to men, males or masculinity, regardless of gender identity. The exact opposite to gynsexuality which is attracted to femininity regardless of gender identity.

Hopefully this helps you understand your own sexuality, it reads to me that you’re gynsexual

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Finding a good bi couple is a rare thing, an attraction between 2 people is one thing, between 3 is harder, 4 is very difficult. But, when we do spark with people, fire isn't far behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few in my inbox. Totally dont mind we're both getting what we want at the end of it. And these guys are typically pretty good in the sack

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