FabSwingers.com forum: Who should be in control of the caging of the cuckold husband.

By *knorwichcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Looking to see who is best to control the caging of the cuckolded husband.

Is it the:-

The Alpha male / Bull.

The Cuckoldress wife.

The cuckolded husband.

A combination of all three?

The Alpha male / Bull and the Cuckoldress wife.

We prefer the Alpha male / Bull only as that way the cuck can not pester the Cuckoldress wife for release. The cuck has to deal direct with the Alpha male / Bull, who has no emotional tyes with the cuck, that the cuck can use like he can with the Cuckoldress wife.

What are your thoughts and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife as the bulls come and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that’s mean, but sounds about right!

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

The bull I think. Like you said that way the cuck has to ask him. So makes him very submissive and the bull very dominant

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

The wife/Domme... no argument

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By *knorwichcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

"The wife/Domme... no argument "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to see who is best to control the caging of the cuckolded husband.

Is it the:-

The Alpha male / Bull.

The Cuckoldress wife.

The cuckolded husband.

A combination of all three?

The Alpha male / Bull and the Cuckoldress wife.

What are your thoughts and why?

Who she chooses, I was going to say you, but then that was wrong. Her choice

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By *knorwichcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Looking to see who is best to control the caging of the cuckolded husband.

Is it the:-

The Alpha male / Bull.

The Cuckoldress wife.

The cuckolded husband.

A combination of all three?

The Alpha male / Bull and the Cuckoldress wife.

What are your thoughts and why?

Who she chooses, I was going to say you, but then that was wrong. Her choice"

Why again?

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By *ustSteve89Man
over a year ago

Chipping Campden

Personally I say it depends on all parties involved!

If the bull is long term and trusted and cuck is happy then go for it. But cuck should never control his own chastity or there is no purpose for the chastity to begin with

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"The wife/Domme... no argument

Why?"

Because chastity between a husband and wife should never be interfered with by a third party

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

me ... my life is with him the cuckolding is very much between us i 100% control my cuck ... the guy the bull the dom the assertive guy or whatever you wish to call it is not part of our relationship at most hes a friend with benefits if regular and can have some control depending on what i allow ... the 3rd guys main focus is pleasing me and me pleasing him ... we really avoid guys who claim to be bulls they rarely are ... bullshite yes but bull no very rare indeed ...

also cause its down to me to control cuck he will listen if i tell him he must do as the guy wants too ...but again the truth is there are very very few guys who meets wives that understand cuckolding or indeed want to ...

finding guy for cuckold couple is hard sometimes almost impossible theirs plenty who say they want to meet cuckold but very few are anygood

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Almost impossible you can say that again

"me ... my life is with him the cuckolding is very much between us i 100% control my cuck ... the guy the bull the dom the assertive guy or whatever you wish to call it is not part of our relationship at most hes a friend with benefits if regular and can have some control depending on what i allow ... the 3rd guys main focus is pleasing me and me pleasing him ... we really avoid guys who claim to be bulls they rarely are ... bullshite yes but bull no very rare indeed ...

finding guy for cuckold couple is hard sometimes almost impossible theirs plenty who say they want to meet cuckold but very few are anygood"

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By *knorwichcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Seems that there is a spread of opinion.

Like Bulls, many not upto scratch sadly.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Utterly Mrs!

There's the real relationship and bluntly if a cuck pesters. That should be met with consequences..

Watching you put the keys in a jiffy bag and post them second class to yourselves perhaps..

Ooooh.. I've just impressed myself!!

Mrs x

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
over a year ago

banbury

The cuck asks his wife. She then asks me, if we both agree then he can be let out. But he has to show gratitude after everything comes with a price. From going to get me a drink or a towel to mop my forehead or as far as cleaning duties. He has to pay for the privilege of freedom

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

The wife, ie me lol. I own his little cock pmsl. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say probably the cuckoldress for the main part, but each couple is individual and could work differently to suit their own needs.

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

a combination of the wife and the bull. but mostly the wife, as she deals with cucky hubby on a daily basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife administers the cage and keeps the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Utterly Mrs!

There's the real relationship and bluntly if a cuck pesters. That should be met with consequences..

Watching you put the keys in a jiffy bag and post them second class to yourselves perhaps..

Ooooh.. I've just impressed myself!!

Mrs x"

Then you both turn on the news & see an announcement of a prolonged postal strike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geoff, the landlord at The Kings Head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geoff, the landlord at The Kings Head."

Nah it should be the landlady over at the Blue Balls.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Utterly Mrs!

There's the real relationship and bluntly if a cuck pesters. That should be met with consequences..

Watching you put the keys in a jiffy bag and post them second class to yourselves perhaps..

Ooooh.. I've just impressed myself!!

Mrs x

Then you both turn on the news & see an announcement of a prolonged postal strike

Pmsl!!! Hey the kicker, We're not even a cuck couple.. I'm just a little sadistic.. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Utterly Mrs!

There's the real relationship and bluntly if a cuck pesters. That should be met with consequences..

Watching you put the keys in a jiffy bag and post them second class to yourselves perhaps..

Ooooh.. I've just impressed myself!!

Mrs x

Then you both turn on the news & see an announcement of a prolonged postal strike

Pmsl!!! Hey the kicker, We're not even a cuck couple.. I'm just a little sadistic.. Mrs

lol

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By *knorwichcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

No body really seems to know the answer to this question.

It seems to be split every way evenly.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

From my experience of a bull ‘ it’s always been the lady who holds the key

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"No body really seems to know the answer to this question.

It seems to be split every way evenly."

Been on your mind a lot recently has it?

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

Sandford Police

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

I, cuckold, am never allowed the key always mrs but would love it to be her lover

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By *ee and AitchCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Aitch, my wife, decides when I am caged.

It is usually when she is going to meet her fuck buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do wives let their friends know their husbands/partners are caged? My girlfriends friends all know I’m caged.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

In both my relationships it was the cuckoldress who held the key , the length of time caged/uncaged was written into our cuckold agreement we both signed

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By *ynamites wowsMan
over a year ago

Plymouth and South west

Wife should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye defo the Mrs surely

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

I totally agree

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Bull for definite x less chance of being released/allowed to cum makes it a much much more hornier affair x if he starts nagging at her, then simply dress up with stockings, heels, short skirt and go out to bulls and have a wild time. If he behaves, then invite him to watch

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

I’d like to think we are fairly well versed in all things cuckolding, for us it should be the hotwife that controls the cuck and his cage because that what cuckolding is all about the relationship between the cuck and the hotwife.

Bulls are just there to provide a service to the hotwife, giving her the fucking that she needs, bulls should not be controlling the cuck, that’s not their job !

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By *wguy100Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"a combination of the wife and the bull. but mostly the wife, as she deals with cucky hubby on a daily basis. "

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By *nmkinkCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I’d like to think we are fairly well versed in all things cuckolding, for us it should be the hotwife that controls the cuck and his cage because that what cuckolding is all about the relationship between the cuck and the hotwife.

Bulls are just there to provide a service to the hotwife, giving her the fucking that she needs, bulls should not be controlling the cuck, that’s not their job !"

I think this is right. There's other ways for the bull to dominate the cuck if necessary

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

The dynamic of power can vary depending upon those involved however personal would say the wife.

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By *illnortonCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Id say depends on the dynamic

If a long term bull then both wife and bull

If not then the wife

But never the cuck

Defeats the object if the cuck has it

But all ways what works for your relationship

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By *llstar999Man
over a year ago

manchester

The wife.

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

have to agree with this approach

"The wife as the bulls come and go. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wife as the bulls come and go. "

Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a combination of the wife and the bull. but mostly the wife, as she deals with cucky hubby on a daily basis. "

Definitely this for me, add submission to the cuck

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By *ansduoCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Combination of Wife and Bull. Depends on timeframes and experience.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Looking to see who is best to control the caging of the cuckolded husband.

Is it the:-

The Alpha male / Bull.

The Cuckoldress wife.

The cuckolded husband.

A combination of all three?

The Alpha male / Bull and the Cuckoldress wife.

What are your thoughts and why?

The wife, I always expected the cuck to be caged when I arrived, he answered the front door naked bar his cage. Then hang my coat up & go make drinks, we'd be in the sitting room her on her knees with cock in hand or mouth as he brought the drinks in.

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By *pringbok95Couple
51 weeks ago

Limavady

The wife as she controls the cuckold husband and only allows the Bull say if she so desires.

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By *icentiousCouple
51 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

A third party that is unknown to the cuck.

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By *elrose57Couple
51 weeks ago

reading

i would say the wife has full control over her cuckold, after all without her he is not a cuckold , once she has full control she is then able to please herself and her lover , and knowing that her cuckold husband is beholden on her, so this frees up time to be able to give more time to her lover and his impressive sexual needs, and his sexual prowess is the focused on her, and all the while her cuckold waits for his just rewards

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By *erry bull1Man
51 weeks ago

doncaster

The cockoldress

As she gets him ready for the bull arriving

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By *elrose57Couple
51 weeks ago

reading

"The cockoldress

As she gets him ready for the bull arriving "

the cuckold has to wait at the door and be ready after all the bull should not have to ring the door bell

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By *ittleJohn5Man
51 weeks ago

Wickham Market

I would personally prefer the wife

She can wear the key ?? on a necklace etc

The Bull having the key/control I can understand, but that so humiliating I don’t think I could cope

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I have been bull to a couple for about 15 months. Hubby is not allowed to fuck his wife unless I give permission even then he has to use a condom. Fucked the Mrs in there marital bed overnight whilst hubby slept in spare room

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Totally agree

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By *ellinever70Woman
51 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Isn't it always ultimately the husband that decides?

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By *ayd100Man
51 weeks ago

clitheroe

Have to do as the bull says obviously, not fucked her for ages but she's had plenty

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By *pringbok95Couple
51 weeks ago

Limavady

"i would say the wife has full control over her cuckold, after all without her he is not a cuckold , once she has full control she is then able to please herself and her lover , and knowing that her cuckold husband is beholden on her, so this frees up time to be able to give more time to her lover and his impressive sexual needs, and his sexual prowess is the focused on her, and all the while her cuckold waits for his just rewards "

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By *ickinNottsMan
51 weeks ago

Hucknall

Not a fan of caging the cuckold. I prefer that he is allowed erections but is NOT allowed to cum or play with his erections, on pain of punishment. He might be allowed to cum, in exceptional circumstances, but never by contact with his wife.

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