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"Is the couple / male you are meeting bi ?" Yes, they are | |||
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"It can be really enjoyable, just relax, take your time and lube up.... Hopefully the reality is as good as the fantasy for you... I love a bi couple, fun for everyone x " Thank you for that. I appreciate it | |||
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"Lube… lots of decent lube, not the cheap stuff but some decent lube..!! I enjoy anal but struggle with andy as he’s a bit big but patience and GOOD LUBE definitely help x" Good lube. Got it. Any certain recommendations at all? Thank you also | |||
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"Hey guys. So, I've been orally bi, once during a meet with a couple which wasn't planned. I'm considering myself as bi after the conversations me and Mrs J have had together. I've never penetrated or been penetrated with/by a male before. As basic as this may seem, anyone got any advice for the first time because that's coming up soon " As someone who has met a few bi guy newbies its all about trusting the person your going to meet with discussing limits and taking things really slowly, making sure to use some toys on yourself before the meet so you can get used to the feeling of being penetrated and make sure you douche, maybe stay off eating big the day before etc Lube lube and more lube, and for many guys a relaxing room aroma helps too! | |||
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"Lube… lots of decent lube, not the cheap stuff but some decent lube..!! I enjoy anal but struggle with andy as he’s a bit big but patience and GOOD LUBE definitely help x Good lube. Got it. Any certain recommendations at all? Thank you also " We used liquid silk and now use Pur back door lube.. any good adult store or even Amazon sell it.. also try a small vibe or butt plug to start with.. and maybe some aromas x | |||
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" As someone who has met a few bi guy newbies its all about trusting the person your going to meet with discussing limits and taking things really slowly, making sure to use some toys on yourself before the meet so you can get used to the feeling of being penetrated and make sure you douche, maybe stay off eating big the day before etc Lube lube and more lube, and for many guys a relaxing room aroma helps too! " Thanks for this! Again, it's appreciated. Very excited but nervous at the same time. Room aromas help? | |||
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"Try relax. Don't rush. And don't put pressure on yourself. Just go with the flow. There's no point working yourself up about it first as you'll be tense and won't enjoy it then. Have fun! " Thanks! I'm definitely looking forward to it. I think maybe overthinking it slightly at the moment. Just trying to make sure that everything is smooth sailing throughout | |||
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" We used liquid silk and now use Pur back door lube.. any good adult store or even Amazon sell it.. also try a small vibe or butt plug to start with.. and maybe some aromas x" I didn't know aromas help? I'll have to have a look. But thanks for the recommendations, I'll definitely get one of them | |||
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"Echoing all mentioned above: - trusted experienced bi guy is a key - lots of foreplay - good lube (I suggest pjur) - more lube - room aroma could help for newbie " I'm really going to have to have a look into these Aromas! | |||
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"Not talking from any experience, but I’d expect that toy’s would help to loosen you up " We've started, only just. We've git a wide range of them to play with | |||
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