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By *illagaz OP   Man
over a year ago

yeovil

Who ask and talk about phone or cam sex??? Ladies do not seem to like or enjoy this form of cybersex. So is this the consensus of opinion. Ladies tell me I am wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK, you're wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't tell you if you're right or wrong because I can't speak for all women. Personally I can think of very few more boring sexual type things to do than cyber or phone sex with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this, together, with nobody else.

It's not her thing, to talk naughty, as such, though as we've been together for some time, I know what does it for her, and it can be thrilling, her and I.

However, any time another guy has attempted to get her to talk naughty, he's simply not managed to catch her attention.

I guess it's the connection we have that makes it exciting, and listening to a stranger's fantasies does nothing for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally as its just getting interesting there is a grunt and the line goes dead.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London


"Normally as its just getting interesting there is a grunt and the line goes dead."

Ha ha this!

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I can't speak for all women but personally I would get absolutely nothing out of either I would be bored and irritated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't tell you if you're right or wrong because I can't speak for all women. Personally I can think of very few more boring sexual type things to do than cyber or phone sex with a stranger. "

Yup.

Think I'd rather do the ironing

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By *otwifingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Northants


"I can't speak for all women but personally I would get absolutely nothing out of either I would be bored and irritated "

Yep this for me too!

And as for going onto cam, I would be worried that someone could screen record without my knowledge and I like to be fairly careful with privacy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I enjoy it with friends. With strangers I couldn't imagine much worse

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Speaking for both of us. We would find it boring to the extent we'd get more enjoyment from pulling each others teath our lol

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Hate the idea of phone or cam and haven't done either. Think would just be bored and end up turning it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it is a good thing that we are not all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't talk one on one with anyone on the phone or cam.

I have used the cam feature on here a few times. I have been in the directing room but no one ever direct so I get bored and leave after 5/6 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy texts with someone im cool/familiar with -yes certainly. Not so cool with strangers. Phone sex does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't tell you if you're right or wrong because I can't speak for all women. Personally I can think of very few more boring sexual type things to do than cyber or phone sex with a stranger. "

Couldn't agree more.

I have tried both a couple of times but it really doesn't work for me,much prefer to feel skin on skin

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I can't tell you if you're right or wrong because I can't speak for all women. Personally I can think of very few more boring sexual type things to do than cyber or phone sex with a stranger.

Couldn't agree more.

I have tried both a couple of times but it really doesn't work for me,much prefer to feel skin on skin "

It's a decent substitute when skin on skin isn't possible. With people I know and plan to meet

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I can't speak for all women but personally I would get absolutely nothing out of either I would be bored and irritated

Yep this for me too!

And as for going onto cam, I would be worried that someone could screen record without my knowledge and I like to be fairly careful with privacy. "

As above. Some record it for wank bank material without your permission!

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Who ask and talk about phone or cam sex??? Ladies do not seem to like or enjoy this form of cybersex. So is this the consensus of opinion. Ladies tell me I am wrong."

Ladies are too busy doing the real sex. Phone sex with a random ... would rather watch paint dry

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not a woman and I have zero interest in anything phone or cam related.

I find it completely shallow and pointless.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It does absolutely nothing for me, phone, sexting etc unless in really into the person and there's some connection then listening to a guy grunt will do nothing but turn me off.

Mrs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You're right it is pretty boring, i just end up laughing but some women not many love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the brain is the biggest sex organ in the body. I guess some have small brains and miss out. But it does take a certain something to be able to do it well. There are a talented few on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the brain is the biggest sex organ in the body. I guess some have small brains and miss out. But it does take a certain something to be able to do it well. There are a talented few on here."

Sexually charged messaging can be lots of fun if you have established some kind of mutual connection

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

for me and hub with the couples account ... we simply have zero interest in phone sex and zero interest in cam sex or cams at all ... same goes for chats via apps / cams

sex for me is in the flesh thats when i get turned on with the goods in front of me

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