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Strange unexpected turn offs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all know the usual, graphic sex talk in the first message, asking favours, toilet seat cock selfies….but my question is what can turn you off someone that they may not be aware of or you find out when you meet? Unintentional on their part?

Mine, men with high pitched voices!

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Bad manners. The obnoxious slob image doesn't do it for me.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Skid marks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men.

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By *laymate321Woman
over a year ago

Angus

Bad breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap footwear, especially crocs or Jesus creepers.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

Looking like and having mannerisms very similar to a close family member. It just makes anything else weird!

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!"

Actually if you get to the point of no return and the protagonist has his socks on then you are really not in the groove!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reaching for the mobile to check social media or even worse load the camera app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace "

5705 but there no reply.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace "

I knew you wouldn’t call me either

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace

I knew you wouldn’t call me either "

Don't worry, you weren't the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reaching for the mobile to check social media or even worse load the camera app."

No that’s not a real occurrence is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace

I knew you wouldn’t call me either

Don't worry, you weren't the only one "

Just rude

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace

I knew you wouldn’t call me either

Don't worry, you weren't the only one

Just rude "

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones who are so egotistical that think cos they have a self perceived confidence to be amazing in bed just cos they think they have a big dick, yet aren't able to hold any sort of intelligent conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ones who are so egotistical that think cos they have a self perceived confidence to be amazing in bed just cos they think they have a big dick, yet aren't able to hold any sort of intelligent conversation "

On fab being able to hold an intelligent conversation a prerequisite?

Is a big dick the most important factor ?

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Guys who define themselves entirely by the size of their cock. Their first message being "Do you like BBC" or "Do you like BWC", like that's the only thing I need to know about them.

5 paragraphs of horrendously written cut and pasted "erotica" sent by random guys telling me what they want to do to me, and anyone else they cut and pasted it to

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Lynx Africa

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Nothing strange or unexpected really, but women who feel the need to heavily modify their pictures to the extent they look nothing like what they look like when you actually meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reaching for the mobile to check social media or even worse load the camera app.

No that’s not a real occurrence is it?"

Very real for both

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Guys who don't really do much, expecting us to do the work, without being affectionate, seductive etc.

The worst, resembles them going to a sex worker, for relief

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Guys who don't really do much, expecting us to do the work, without being affectionate, seductive etc.

The worst, resembles them going to a sex worker, for relief "

Oh yes.

Here's my cock... off you go.

WTAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that brings gifts Eg flowers

Men that want to buy me things like toys,lingerie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing strange or unexpected really, but women who feel the need to heavily modify their pictures to the extent they look nothing like what they look like when you actually meet them."

I never understand why people do that. Men do it too. Filters with butterflies seriously why? What you see is what you get with me.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Guys who define themselves entirely by the size of their cock. Their first message being "Do you like BBC" or "Do you like BWC", like that's the only thing I need to know about them.

5 paragraphs of horrendously written cut and pasted "erotica" sent by random guys telling me what they want to do to me, and anyone else they cut and pasted it to "

I can imagine why guys might send you quite explicit messages but with a profile like that, literally and metaphorically, you deserve so much more. I’m sure you’re doing ok despite the crude one line intros you seem to have engendered. Ps. My cock isn’t big enough to define me either!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Men in general

Accents

Poor manners

Lateness

No effort in appearance

Mrs

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By *ornyHunk80Man
over a year ago

Watford

Those who say no to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock rings

Mrs C

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By *akes coupleCouple
over a year ago

Ambleside


"The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!"

We met with a couple a while back and they told us about a guy they had recently met who refused to take his socks off, turned out he was trying to hide his electronic leg tag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a couples house once and after going to the toilet, we made our excuses and left. Apart from the house being a complete tip, there were skids on toilet. Utter turn off.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!

We met with a couple a while back and they told us about a guy they had recently met who refused to take his socks off, turned out he was trying to hide his electronic leg tag. "

This is the sort of comment I come here for. Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending me their number in the first message saying call me

I usually put them on marketplace

I knew you wouldn’t call me either

Don't worry, you weren't the only one

Just rude

Very "

Scottish weirdo

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Crap tattoos by that I mean blurry or one’s done by non professional artists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yellow teeth, make me gag.

Hairy top lip, really big dingle dangle flaps and….

the already looked out 45’ Mr Dick dildo

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hair down there.( I mean ya inlike a little but)

If its everywhere like full on and all down the legs ect massive turn off

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Bad teeth, rudeness to serving/bar staff when out, no effort in their appearance/wearing dirty old clothes, incessant and constant messaging because you don't immediately reply

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have a weird thing about certain phrases. Specifically, but not exhaustively; "End of" "Do one" and worst of all: "Simples"

It's completely irrational, I know, but if I see those phrases bandied about on a profile I just can't get past it.

(Yes, I know you're going to reply to this using those exact phrases, and yes I realise I've brought it on myself)

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Protruding nasal hair. Ewww, don't you look in a mirror?

Frank

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!"

This!!! Leave your socks on, expect to be kicked out of our bed!

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Cock rings

Mrs C "

Yes! Cock rings are a real turn off.

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Unclean bathrooms and smelly houses, dogs running around the house!

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!

We met with a couple a while back and they told us about a guy they had recently met who refused to take his socks off, turned out he was trying to hide his electronic leg tag. "

Omg!!!! See socks are suspicious!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who talk in 'text speak'. You know the ones. 'Innit' 'lol' 'bruv' etc. A massive turn-off!

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth


"The guy that leaves his socks on for sex!!! .. please for the love of god take of the socks!!

Instant turn off!"

Oh yes! They are suck a passion killer.

If it’s a lady and an unplanned quickie with her in trainer socks then okay (not that we’ve ever done that - )

But anything outside of that and it was just a Noooooo!!

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