FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to get noticed on this site

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age will be a major factor.

You have to consider that many on this site have children your age or older and the majority of those simply won't go there.

The vagueness of your location on your profile will also be a factor.

By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

There's plenty of advice in the forums about how to improve a profile, and get noticed, etc.

However, a little perspective might be useful here. You're a 22 year old, straight, male, smoker, who cannot accommodate.

You're too young for many couples as they have children your age.

Many couples prefer guys to have a degree of bisexuality about them. Probably because, like us, they have in the past, met straight guys who get 'stage fright' in a MFM situation.

Many couples cannot accommodate because of family, so arrange a babysitter, then visit elsewhere.

Many couples don't like the smell of cigarette smoke.

Despite all this, you've had 3 meets. Your first picture seems to have been uploaded just over 6 months ago, so I'm assuming you've only been active on here for that long. 3 meets over 6 months is good going! In your 2 published verifications, you've met couples in back to back months.

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"There's plenty of advice in the forums about how to improve a profile, and get noticed, etc.

However, a little perspective might be useful here. You're a 22 year old, straight, male, smoker, who cannot accommodate.

You're too young for many couples as they have children your age.

Many couples prefer guys to have a degree of bisexuality about them. Probably because, like us, they have in the past, met straight guys who get 'stage fright' in a MFM situation.

Many couples cannot accommodate because of family, so arrange a babysitter, then visit elsewhere.

Many couples don't like the smell of cigarette smoke.

Yep this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought my age would be the main problem, I’ll come back in couple years and see how the sites looking