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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else find that without having some horny conversation the mental stimulation just isn't there. Gone are the days of chatrooms where you could have naughty role-playing and fun.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope I'm the opposite horny conversation online is a total turn off for me.

However mental stimulation is very much needed just not someone's wank material.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I find that online foreplay gets the mind rolling and helps with getting into the mood. Just showing up then it takes even longer to get into the roll of things

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Having any kind of conversation above a hormornally ravaged teenager is frowned upon by afew on here and marks you down as a timewaster/fake/flake/that couple or facebookswingers ???? and being mentally stimulated is high on Mrs4 list of likes !! abit of banter even ?? or even god forbid afew laughs and the standard are you wet/moist/up for it is beyond boring ..

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"Nope I'm the opposite horny conversation online is a total turn off for me.

However mental stimulation is very much needed just not someone's wank material.

Mrs "

I'm wondering how to word the answer, then you bounce in with the perfect way! Lol

I (Mr) would add, Sally also likes naughty, or cheeky banter, but it should be a small part of the communication, not the mainstay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not big fans of horny talk but we definitely think mental stimulation is a big part of attraction, it is for us at least anyway

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I definitely don't mean it all the time. Oh well seems like I'm a lost cause

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By *eastZMan
over a year ago

London

Mental stimulation is not the horny chat, it is more about mind fucking. Understanding what your potential partner desires and needs, and that is way different than just sexting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mental stimulation when someone is with me in the room and I know it's going to lead somewhere then yes.

Message someone in a chat room or by text then no. What is the point I am going to feel even more frustrated.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only if I know someone well it have met them

Any horny /dirty chat from a randomer is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so what kinda conversations do you want from a random person that's trying to spark conversation because small talk like hi how are you, how's ya day just gets met with I'm fine or nothing at all. I'm struggling to make any friends on here and it's really getting me down if I'm honest

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"OK so what kinda conversations do you want from a random person that's trying to spark conversation because small talk like hi how are you, how's ya day just gets met with I'm fine or nothing at all. I'm struggling to make any friends on here and it's really getting me down if I'm honest "

I'll be honest op ,your pics would put me off ,so the message wouldn't really matter much to me.

Most women look at a profile before they decide to delete/reply.

Do you think your pics sell you in the best way?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh. I absolutely need a mental connection first. It comes in the form of a polite conversation going through the levels of familiarity, much like maslows hierarchy of conversation before any naughtiness can occur. If the connection isn’t there then I’m not really going to get into “it”.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nope I'm the opposite horny conversation online is a total turn off for me.

However mental stimulation is very much needed just not someone's wank material.

Mrs

I'm wondering how to word the answer, then you bounce in with the perfect way! Lol

I (Mr) would add, Sally also likes naughty, or cheeky banter, but it should be a small part of the communication, not the mainstay"

Exactly a small part and flirty banter is great, the whole what you wearing, can't wait for you to suck this, wanna make you squirt, I'm going to do this and this to you and all that crap is super off-putting.

Mrs

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