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"What should or could be done OP? " Just like suspicious profiles are flagged it should be the same for conflicting profiles. The sites are run by the same crowd and probably all kept in the same system. I'm not concerned about us here but other unsuspecting couples. I feel some individuals are being deceptive and lying about the level of risk they take. In the world of litigation and blaming someone else, could Fab be held responsible for knowinly allowing people to be deceptive? | |||
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"What should or could be done OP? Just like suspicious profiles are flagged it should be the same for conflicting profiles. The sites are run by the same crowd and probably all kept in the same system. I'm not concerned about us here but other unsuspecting couples. I feel some individuals are being deceptive and lying about the level of risk they take. In the world of litigation and blaming someone else, could Fab be held responsible for knowinly allowing people to be deceptive? " what make them suspicious , and how do you decide or the site decide they are suspicious? so more or less you want the site to flag people for potentially having a STD because they put bareback on their sister site as preference, would you be happy if they flagged your profile with something like this when you do not have a STD would love to see how you react to this. pretty much treated like leppers in the old day. if you are not concerned for yourself why even raise the question, peoples are grown up on here and can make their own decision on to what they consider soafe or not. | |||
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"I’d personally like to see this site have a bareback option so you can identify the people who will play both bare and with a condom. " yes that would make sense no idea why they haven't got it. saying that you would be surprised how many guys on fabguys put safe and do actually play bare again its just a tick in the box and doesn't mean much. | |||
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"What I hate to see is when someone straight on fabswingers forums has a go and makes jokes at the expense of bi or gay men Then has the same profile name and pics on fabguys " Lol very true, many are straight here and many contact me not even looking for TV's on their profile. the fact this thread also only imply bi-gay men have STD does infuriate me. women are as guilty as men. EVERYBODY LIE IT'S A FACT, EVEN MORE WHEN IT COME TO SEX. | |||
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"I’d personally like to see this site have a bareback option so you can identify the people who will play both bare and with a condom. yes that would make sense no idea why they haven't got it. saying that you would be surprised how many guys on fabguys put safe and do actually play bare again its just a tick in the box and doesn't mean much." It's not a babysitting service. | |||
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"Whilst we practice safe sex there is still always some level of risk when playing with other people. You have to have a certain level of trust and take them at their word. I have come across a few men on here who have selected the safe sex option. For those that don't know, there is a sister site called FabGuys for bi and gay men. The very same people have profiles on there and have selected the bareback option. I'm on both sites so know to avoid these people. Couples on here don't have that info and may be exposing themselves to a risk they are not prepared for. Should Fab take steps to out people whom I feel are being dishonest about their level of sexual safety?" OP in parts I agree with you. I will state clearly we are a bareback couple, we know the risks so do not need to told about them. We are 100% honest about how we play, it’s clear on our profile. We think being upfront about it is only fair to others, they can then decide if they want to explore things with us or not. However some are not comfortable to admit it on their profile as they get abuse, not just on forums, but private messages too. We have had some of them it does not bother us. | |||
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"The whole concept of "safe sex" is and oxymoron and it should be relabelled as "using condoms during penetration". Why is it people seem to forget the interest list is just that; a list of interests not a pre-flight checklist. It is perfectly valid for someone to be interested in using condoms for one meet and not using them on another. If both options were available to select they do not have to exclusively select one or the other. People select Anal and Watersports and Soft Swing and Same Room Swapping and Separate Room Swapping and whatever else all on the one profile. Just because they ticked the box does not mean they are going to do every one of those interests on every meet or with every play-partner." | |||
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"Definately generated some discussion here and can see some people clearly have some strong views about the matter. Also aome valid questions raised. Every person on here is interested in the same thing in whatever form that takes. I guess the question I am asking is it acceptable for a person to say one thing but in practice actually be doing something else? " Ethically? Perhaps not... But then again I don't tend to believe everything that complete strangers on the Internet tell me anyways As others have said the responsibility lies solely with you to keep yourself as safe as you can. It is not anybody else's, especially the website | |||
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"Hardly anyone tells the truth. So many guys on here with straight profiles, but anything but, so people that dont meet bi guys, you wouldn't know either way. It's up to your own intuition/discretion what to do or how you play. " Sadly very true when it comes to a lot of guys on here (and sure plenty of women too) have a lot more respect for guys who are honest about their sexuality so we can all make our own decisions whether bare or safe rather than hiding the truth and potentially increasing any risks further. the honest ones are more likely to have a conscience and be more careful than those who sneak around | |||
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