FabSwingers.com forum: Are ‘nice’ women sexy

By *igeress66 OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxford

I’m told I’m a really nice person but is ‘nice’ sexy?

This isn’t a complaint, I’m just putting the topic out for discussion.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Yes, very much so. Particularly when they turn out to be very horny (and nice).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can read too much into words sometimes, a compliments a compliment. Nice is a good quality which adds to being attractive to someone, so yes a nice person is sexy in my eyes.

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By *_new_memberMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Absolutely nice is sexy, they're not mutually exclusive. Nobody wants to spend too much time with the alternative. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can read too much into words sometimes, a compliments a compliment. Nice is a good quality which adds to being attractive to someone, so yes a nice person is sexy in my eyes."

Agree with this!!

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By *oc09Man
over a year ago

near u

Just cause ur nice doesn't mean ur not sexy I have met plenty of nice girls and my god there sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice is a bit of a middle of the road word. It's now really sexy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nice isn't really descript I wouldn't say it was sexy or not sexy, the person makes themselves sexy or not sexy.

Mrs

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

You can be really nice and as hot and sexy as hell.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I bloomin hope so or I'm definitely doomed

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I’m told I’m a really nice person but is ‘nice’ sexy?

This isn’t a complaint, I’m just putting the topic out for discussion.

Whilst I guess it’s in the eye or desire of the beholder, I would also put out there it’s how you portray “nice”.

I’m sure there are many nice people out there that also carry it in such a way that it’s very much sexy.

Using a polar opposite of nasty, I would say the above would ring true also.

Personal preference. I like nice.

For me, there’s something sexy about the brigade that say rules are there to be followed.

Mind you, rules are to be broken…

…perhaps sexy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely. Beautiful does not always equal sexy btw. In fact, in my experience the two don’t correlate. But beauty isn’t important anyway…that’s something I used to THINK was important when I was 20.

What’s important is attractiveness, which does equal sexy. Or sexy equals attractiveness. (Which comes first I wonder

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Anyway, a look, a smile, a cheeky over the shoulder laugh a fine, confident sashay or a kind word are some things that build sexiness and attractiveness.

There have been many occasions where I have taken another glance at a woman based on these qualities and not because of what she looks like or how she is dressed.

My (deep) thoughts on the subject.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My wife is one of the nicest people you could ever know and hope to meet.

Down right sexy as hell too!

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

"I’m told I’m a really nice person but is ‘nice’ sexy?

This isn’t a complaint, I’m just putting the topic out for discussion.

Yep, nice is sexy and who wants to spend time with someone who isn’t nice. Xx

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

The 2 are not intrinsically linked, there are plenty of nice people that are boring and firecrackers. Same, people that are utter cunts that are boring, or fill the room with atmosphere. If I had to choose, I would go for the nice people first, regardless of how boring they are because an interesting horrible person would just be far worse.

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By *ipsforlipsMan
over a year ago

Midlands

It's "an eye of the beholder" thing to me. Nice is seperate to being sexy, some people are both, some get to be one without the other.

That said 'nice' can lead to 'attractive' and 'attractive' to 'sexy'.

So imho 'nice' is definitely good, start there and see where you go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think confident women are sexy. A 'nice' woman I'd see more as a mate

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Absolutely.

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

In all honesty I love the ‘girl next door’ vibe.. as sexy as ultra confident women are due to my own rapidly aging features and declining confidence I prefer someone with a hint of niceness..

Also nothing sexier than someone who looks as if butter wouldn’t melt.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Felicity Kendal...says it all really.

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By *ockDuoCouple
over a year ago

Essex / Oxford

There are some fantastic comments here everyone and the overall consensus is it is a positive attribute and maybe the sexiness is yet to be discovered……..

It’s uplifting to know there are some thoughtful and decent people on fab xx

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

God yes! Being nice only increases the attraction. Being able to share an experience with someone you like, feel relaxed with and makes you smile is the perfect moment.

If you're described as nice take it as a major compliment and a huge advantage on here

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By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

I totally agree that being nice is really hot and sexy I think being nasty and obnoxious is a real turn off everybody has got feelings and being nice goes a long way in the minds of men and women I would like to think.

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