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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

What made you tell them? How did they react?

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

A girl I'm really good friends with i have told her im bi and go to clubs and meet couples etc.

She laughed and asked how i had the guts to go to a club alone.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

4 of our mates no we on here

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

No, like to keep things separate

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Some and they don’t mind they are curious and a few of them joined

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

No, because we keep our normal life and our swinging life very separate. That said, some of our friends wouldn’t be surprised if they found us on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some of our friends know the ones we want to know and one couple joined

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

A male friend of ours discovered we were on fab. We had a really in depth discussion about the swinging lifestyle. I ended up in bed with him. Ive known him all my life. I discovered he is very very well endowed. It was a fantastic experience.

I'm glad he discovered us x

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do not advertise this lifestyle choice to our friends!

It is possible that we have been recognised here, but if that is the case, they haven't said anything.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

My close friends know. It's just my sex life so no big deal for me really.

Can imagine it's different for many people where discretion is required.

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

All of them , no one is suprised. Tbh most my friends are swingers and/or kinksters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any friends so no issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No friends know but my dad does. He thinks it’s great we’re open to exploring more while we’re “young”

Mr

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By *r.MorningstarMan
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

I've always been very open and honest about the life style I lead, all of my friends know what i get up to and what its all about, most don't understand it but are curious about it

Seeing friends on here isn't the problem/worry however, I saw my cousin on here although even most my family are aware of the lifestyle I lead now, I'm too honest for my own good haha!

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We told our few closest friends as it's an important part of our life and our friends are important too and deserve to know. They didn't make a big fuss about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends don't know I'm on Fab. My daughter does though and she doesn't really bat an eye

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

No idea if any of them know. I doubt any of them would be surprised though.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Yes some of our friends know the ones we want to know and one couple joined "

Same the ones I want to know do know

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By *M_darksideCouple
over a year ago

Worksop

We have one friend that knows who we talk to about our meets. She was intrigued and nearly joined the scene as a unicorn before she got into a relationship.

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By *lotjockeyMan
over a year ago

Wellington

i was wayching a cam once and realised it was a former neighbour

we started chatting and soon after met up, he knew where to come

It turned out we both thought each others wives were hot!

That was 15 yrs ago, me and him meet to chat and play from time to time

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

While we generally keep our vanilla and swinging lives totally separate we were having dinner with a very attractive female friend when the subject of swinging came up. Within an hour we were naked in her bedroom and she and I had some beautiful girl on girl sex (photos on our profile). Still waiting in anticipation for a repeat session, but unfortunately she lives a long way away.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a select few friends who know and my dad, they we're shocked but kind of like it and always want to hear about it.

It's nice to have people to chat to about swinging, my dad only knew after trying to join a group on social media we used to admin on and he saw us there he's chilled and thinks it's great though.

Mrs

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Only one of Bens friends know and he’s on here with his wife too.

I have a few friends who know my lifestyle, I have loose lips after a night out drinking. Lol

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

God no!

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My manager knows, he’s on and off here himself too

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

My 2 closest friends know. In fact I’ve corrupted both of them and they’ve both been to a local club

The one friend is now really into it and so is her hubby.

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"My 2 closest friends know. In fact I’ve corrupted both of them and they’ve both been to a local club

The one friend is now really into it and so is her hubby. "

Have you or would you play with your friend and her hubby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think so. But if it came up in conversation I wouldn’t lie. Is sex really that taboo a subject these days? I suppose for couples it might be something to keep private now I think about it. Pineapple anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to explain why I didn’t know the name of a woman I was meeting up with and why I wanted him to know I was at a hotel miles from knowhere and if I wasn’t home safe on Monday, call the cops!!!

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"My 2 closest friends know. In fact I’ve corrupted both of them and they’ve both been to a local club

The one friend is now really into it and so is her hubby.

Have you or would you play with your friend and her hubby? "

No I wouldn’t. But we have all been to club together. Sat around in lingerie. The next day we went to our local lol

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"My 2 closest friends know. In fact I’ve corrupted both of them and they’ve both been to a local club

The one friend is now really into it and so is her hubby.

Have you or would you play with your friend and her hubby?

No I wouldn’t. But we have all been to club together. Sat around in lingerie. The next day we went to our local lol "

That’s pretty cool!

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan
over a year ago

London

Nope!!!!!

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

It was friends of our that got us into this lifestyle, shame they moved away for work...

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

A lot of our friends we met on the scene, so it's easy to have conversations about it and not worry about tippy-toeing around the subject

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Yes, friends and colleagues, some are here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, only my fab friends know

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

A couple of male friends yes, mostly as I have recommended them joining when they've been moaning about being single and partly because I like to shock them with tales about my antics

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only friends who used to be on here and left for various reasons but then again I've never had a conversation with anyone about my sex life or theirs so it's not really a topic for discussion.

Being here is a very small part of my life and not high on my list of priorities either.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

No this is my private life

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

No one. They would probably faint.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

One- from my hockey team.

Only because he's on here too and spotted me.

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Yes a few close friends know we are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour mentioned it to me super casually … I didn’t tell her I am also on here at first but once I did we have some great chats about stuff now

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

One of my friend knows but she don't which site

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By *urious KittenWoman
over a year ago

Neverland

Two of my closest friends know, I’m glad they do as it helps not having to think of excuses why I can’t go to certain things in real life if I have other plans

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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

None of mine do or they just haven’t mentioned it lol think men are probably more likely to tell each other

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Quite a few of my friends know,Some have joined fab after I suggested it.

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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham


"Quite a few of my friends know,Some have joined fab after I suggested it. "

You done a mfm together yet? Ha

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Not Far From Doncaster

Have encountered some on here, and my boss has seen my profile too x

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton


"Quite a few of my friends know,Some have joined fab after I suggested it.

You done a mfm together yet? Ha "

One of them posted on a d0gging FB group (it was a public one) So I told her to join here,Have watched her play with a few men.But I have never played with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Never felt the need Wm tell them, and it's never come up in conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One close girlfriend! I admitted after a few drinks how my then husband and I met!

I've totally corrupted her, she's on here now and loving life! Lol

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

One of my friends even have suggested to her friends to meet me , i didn't know about this till few months ago when i found out she was ghosting me here . I never spoke with her again , not because the meetings i had but because her narcissistic disgusting behaviour

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"What made you tell them? How did they react? "

Nope private life private

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

No, this is our little secret x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Not that anyone would believe me anyway, I'm an innocent looking babyface

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By *ensualAsiansCouple
over a year ago

London

Neither of us have told any friends, but get a feeling a few have an idea. Perhaps all the sexual innuendos and our openness gives it away! Remember the shock on some of the wives faces when Rani mentioned she enjoyed a strip tease!

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

north

One mate knows I swing but doesn’t know about fab

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By *en ukMan
over a year ago

harrow London

Two of my friends are on fab, they have profiles without a picture to view my profile, one of them showed his wife my profile and my dick. My friend's wife was very surprised by my dick and all the time we meet she smiles and amuses me

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Don't exactly give out exact details but my friends, family, work colleagues know about my lifestyle. Due to my job I have to disclose everything

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By *ersuasion22Couple
over a year ago

Herts

Nope. Although we have made some fab friends here

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By *ingerbeardman-Man
over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

None of mine do! They know I'm not monogamous though!

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By *mmaAndDavidHornyFuckersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

A few do and are kind of curious about it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have told a couple of friends they seemed to like the idea

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By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Yes a select few know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the one that introduced me to it

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By *rettygoodMan
over a year ago

Whitwick

Only ever told an ex

But have been messaged my name by a blank profile

Which was scary, but if you know me feel free to say hello aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking to an ex one d*unken night as you do she told me about fab, I said was already on so we did cam to cam - she was having F2F so invited me over. A one off and still an ex even if we do perv at each others pics n vids now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend knows but besides that, this side of things is kept quiet.

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By *ittyDaggerWoman
over a year ago

Near Taunton

Almost everyone in my life knows.

Not quite everyone, but almost. Even work know.

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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

None of mine do (not that I know of anyway)

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Yes a few

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By *dswingersCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

yeh a few close friends do and some family members all asking questions lol x

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

All my friends know I live an alternative lifestyle, I don't go into details.

It's not impacted on them one bit.

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By *in and bare itCouple
over a year ago

kent

No we try and keep both sides separate

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

A few friends know that I’m a swinger, I wouldn’t deny it if asked outright.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"None of mine do (not that I know of anyway) "

This ^^^

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By *rowley616Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

Some do. They were hardly surprised. I have never conformed to the cultural programming of our society.

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T

No none of mine do, mind you not got many!

But they wouldn’t understand why I’m on here anyway

Also it’s not like I get any meets so nothing to tell really

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

No but it could be exciting to be found. By the right person of course

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By *oppy CheeksWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Several of my friends know & they are extremely judgemental about it. Sometimes wish I never told them in the first place.

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By *arparkquickyMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

My job is public facing so I need to keep it to myself

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By *ellaboo400Couple
over a year ago

Gorebridge

Ill tell anyone lol if my parents asked I'd tell them

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yeah, most know as it's been something I've done for near 20 years. Was easier to tell them than the million questions as to why we can't come on this night out or that night out. We have also introduced some friends to it who got curious and are now members on here and enjoying the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve told a few people but it’s not something that I bring up in random conversation. I’ve discovered people on here that I know ha!

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By *lueyes69Man
over a year ago

coventry

Hell no . Nobody knows I’m on here

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By *mpeyeMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Oh god no lol

Most of my friends are straighter than a straight thing..... I think

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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

Wish we could all be more open with our friends what a fun world that would be

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Yup, two of mine are on here. One winkedcat C without realising we were on here and the other one, i introduced her to it.

C has found a couple of people she knows too.

S

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

And a few others know of stuff but not anything particular

S

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Only a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of friends know I am on here ( I met 1 friend on here) but we are quite discreet so most don't

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple
over a year ago

B’stoke

No reason for them to know even if they were in to this lifestyle. Also if they were , we wouldn’t play with friends.

We follow the ideology of Don’t shit at your doorstep and keep the lifestyles separate

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they wouldn't be surprised if they did

But no nobody I don't think . .

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I don't think anyone does, say hello if that's not the case though.

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By *esire in SheffieldMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes yesterday I old to my ex

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By *ickie76XXXMan
over a year ago

dartford

The only friends that know are like minded friends that I’ve met via here or other ways.

I like the shared like mindedness and it’s not just the fact that most don’t get it at all it’s also the fact that it’s a shared ideal that only us get. If that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish we could all be more open with our friends what a fun world that would be"

Being open and transparent with people in general is always good, no doubt about that but relationships is a sensitive area of life to interact with and some relationships are good to have without the intimate stuff involved.

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By *pinningfasterWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I do. I screenshot the ridiculous messages and send them to friends

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

Cali here... originally I got outed... now to be fair, most of my friends are on here or I met on here.

I have a very narrow circle of none swinging friends but all know I am in the lifestyle.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Told the dog. He’s never gonna grass me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my best female friend

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Yeah quite a few of my friends know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my sons ex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One she told me about it lol

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"One she told me about it lol "

Only one , the person that told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it the same person lol kidding

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"Was it the same person lol kidding"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes every one of them. That one was surprised and intrigued when I told her, but ultimately felt more comfortable talking about sex in general with me as a result. Unlike a lot of other Muggle friends who found out over the years, she doesn't judge and hasn't made incorrect assumptions.

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

My ex wife's neice is on here, she's 33 and I came across her profile by accident, although she hides most of her face I know 100% it's her and she's 5ft11.

I messgqd her without saying who I was, she replied weeks later and asked my friends pics,. So ì did but my face is hidden.

She asked for a face pic, which I sent lol

So yes, she knows I'm.on here

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Only my friend who's also on Fab knows I'm here, but none of my other friends know.

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Yes lots of ours know, and saras family members. As long as its safe and consenting who cares. And we wouldn't be bothered if nobody liked it. It's our thing

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By *isubandyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I have friends know I'm on here and the other site. They were very surprised, especially about the bi side of me but they are also very discreet.

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By *ikos81Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Have encountered some on here, and my boss has seen my profile too x"

Did u shag your boss??

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By *aughtycandyCouple
over a year ago

chams west Midlands

Yes a work colleague and she wants to try the club with me and my man ,xx

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By *aytie0 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Seaham


"My ex wife's neice is on here, she's 33 and I came across her profile by accident, although she hides most of her face I know 100% it's her and she's 5ft11.

I messgqd her without saying who I was, she replied weeks later and asked my friends pics,. So ì did but my face is hidden.

She asked for a face pic, which I sent lol

So yes, she knows I'm.on here "

Are you going to fuck ?

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My two best friends (a couple) know Im on here and I let them know when I've found someone I think I will have fun with.. they celebrate and commiserate when things dont work out.. no judging of me or the lifestyle I have chosen.. they found each other early but know I have not found that person yet so in the mean time fab is my outlet for fun.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

A good work colleague knows I'm on here, he's known for a few years that ive photographed naked women, which often asked about.. he got a new girlfriend about a year ago, she is quite the kinky woman. we talked of me photographing her nude, one thing lead to another and i confessed to being on here, which his girlfriend found very horny.

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

My friends don't, but my sister does. She even considered going to a club with me, playing separately obviously.

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Not that we know of but that’s not to say they know and say nothing lol

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By *heYorkshireGentMan
over a year ago

Leeds

My dad and one friend does. Pub chat lead to me telling them when I was on here as part of a couple and they thought it was great

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes and they find it amusing

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

Didsbury

I have a few friends who have full disclosure.

Occasionally one of them will be curious to know what I’m up to.

They find it titillating.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Yes quite a few, and some work colleagues including my line manager. I'm allowed to have sex, I can't see that it matters?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

only one or two..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friends don't, but my sister does. She even considered going to a club with me, playing separately obviously. "

Woah! That is borderline mental!

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Most of our so called " Normal" friends know we are in a "Open Relationship" and all that might entail plus most know that Mrs4 is Bi sexual or rather more pan sexual nowadays but then a fair few of our normal friend have had or attempted to have affairs ?? and yet here we are 30 years together and most of our friends have split up/divorced afew times now ?? and afew know we are on here and think we are having shaggaphons/orgies every week going

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

I have told a few people one has then came to a swinging club and one other like to ask how my swinging life is going

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By *otYourKind666Man
over a year ago

Horsham

Yup...old school friend I hadnt seen in 15 or so years....we met, we filmed, we had a whale of a time!

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By *entGirl24Woman
over a year ago

South East

Yes one of my friends know and she’s even been to Pleasures with me because she was so intrigued!

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Yes one of my friends know and she’s even been to Pleasures with me because she was so intrigued! "

Nice gallery

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By *andwellcoupleCouple
over a year ago

warley

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By *andwellcoupleCouple
over a year ago

warley

Yes we had the brother of one of my wives friends find our profile and message us

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford


"Yes quite a few, and some work colleagues including my line manager. I'm allowed to have sex, I can't see that it matters?

"

Exactly, it's 2024

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this stage, pretty much all of my friends

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

1 of my female friends knows, she’s intrigued by the scene , no one else as I like to keep swinging separate from my vanilla life , do love getting naked and having fun with liberated minds

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

No never told friends the cuckold contract we used in both my relationships specifically mentioned she couldn't have sex with or tell family,friends or colleagues about our lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend, my daughter knows. She’s on here too. She was curious as to why all the women I brought home never came to anything, so I told her. We’ve always been very open and honest with each other. It’s the best way to beM

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Cammy’s family and some if her friends know.

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Not freinds we had before fab no,but made a few freinds on here so suppose thats a yes

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Leicester

A few, yes, not close friends - more FB friends but now I know they’re on here too.. had a mixed reception so far.

One single fem I still see for meets, another couple were really embarrassed.

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

If any friends have recognised us they havent said anything. Yet.

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

3 friends know about what we do

Had to involve them to keep them quiet haha

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Yeah, anyone I’m reasonably close to. Most of my friends know I’m a swinger, all of them know I’m non-monogamous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was one of my good friends who told me about fab and then I made friends on here too so I’d say quite a few friends know I’m here lol.

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By *ce cream poke man 2Man
over a year ago

Leeds & Belfast

Yep. Get to a point in life where other people opinion of it’s not agreeable doesn’t matter. I post even on fb about it lol. Most are jealous and wish they had the balls (so to speak)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep a few know

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By *urge72Man
over a year ago

oxfordshire & Hull

Dont think they do -apart from those I have made through this lifestyle.

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By *llyandhimCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

A few of our friends know and a few have had a spy on us and admitted it later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a lesbian couple we know, who now want to go with us to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of people who know me have realised who we are but we try to remain discreet x

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By *uffhandymanMan
over a year ago

selby/peterborough

I’ve made lots of friends here on fab, they all mingle with my old friends as we’re all game for the naughtiness fab brings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not told any of mine, don’t know of any of them on here

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Oh yes, because all our friends are on Fab too x

Our naughty hobby x

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By *idsgoonerMan
over a year ago

lincoln


"Oh yes, because all our friends are on Fab too x

Our naughty hobby x"

You are easily the naughtiest couple on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but i do occasionally drop hints to see if i get any nibbles

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Yeah mine do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err my uni friendship group know, some of my none mum friends know.... That's it really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Err my uni friendship group know, some of my none mum friends know.... That's it really x"

Apologies 'none mum' friends. Ie friends I have made that are NOT from the kids' school.

Just to clarify - I'm not being anal, I got msg asking what I meant.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

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Still no but fab have got a link now to invite your friends to fab as if you would though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some close friends are aware...

The thing is some people can't be trusted ... unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no but fab have got a link now to invite your friends to fab as if you would though "

Omg i saw that.. How long until they affiliate with fb

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Few of my friends are on here.. other people I know very well as well but leave that there! Doesn't fuss me

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