FabSwingers.com forum: Am i being too picky

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am i being too picky in who i want to meet? Some guys seem to not care.. But im being really fussy.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

may be ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your right to be picky.

But remember, if you pick it, it won't heal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this time yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the consensus will be as follows :

If someone wants a shag and you don't fancy it, then YES

If someone wants a shag and you are up for it too, then NO

Seriously tho, as long as you are doing it in a way that you are happy with then be as fussy as you see fit

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

You cant make a silk purse from a sows ear ( profound advice but maybe not quite in the right moment)

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my motto. quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to make your own choices in life. Don't feel pressured into meeting folks if it don't feel right.

Your not being picky at all. If your really not comfortable with a met, that will come across and may spoil a wonderful experience.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. I just happen to like kissing frogs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great feedback guys cheers

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Croak croak

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Why worry

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Whatever your standards are don't lower them - some may say you are picky, others may say you are discerning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer to that would be most certainly 42

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You stick to what you want. Its not being picky, we all have preferences, but it depends on what criteria they need to have, maybe you could relax certain things. But its your profile and your preferences, dont lower your standards for the sake of a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily , but what are you getting out of being on here ?

You say you can't answer all of your messages - rare for a single guy , so something must be right .

You won't change just to get your leg over , yet other than webcam you havnt had much success so far .

So op - what do you think is the answer to your own question ?

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I think the consensus will be as follows :

If someone wants a shag and you don't fancy it, then YES

If someone wants a shag and you are up for it too, then NO

Seriously tho, as long as you are doing it in a way that you are happy with then be as fussy as you see fit

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sensible stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussiness can lead to one or both of two things generally. Either higher standards and the fruit they bear or higher standards and cobwebs on your dick. Either way, compromise and you'll never know!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

You're over thinking it.

If you fancy the person then go for it, if not don't. Not exactly doing the people you meet any favours if you meet them because you've decided to slum it for a bit!

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