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No going back after swinging

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Once you start to swing, as we did seven years ago there’s one thing you realise as a couple - there’s no going back. After the first time you see your wife kiss another man passionately or energetically suck cock or see another man’s cock inside your wife, the fate of your sex life is sealed - things will never be the same again. Thoughts from couples and singles please on this?

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick


"Once you start to swing, as we did seven years ago there’s one thing you realise as a couple - there’s no going back. After the first time you see your wife kiss another man passionately or energetically suck cock or see another man’s cock inside your wife, the fate of your sex life is sealed - things will never be the same again. Thoughts from couples and singles please on this?"

Is like a drug - You just can't get enough after the first time

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Couldn’t agree more. We were both really nervous, but the second I saw Vixen take another guy in her mouth (and when she started egging me on to put my cock in another woman’s mouth), we both knew it was the right move. We’ve never looked back, because we’re closer, have a new level of honesty and are having the best sex of our lives.

We’re lucky because we have an amazing relationship, but completed understand why it could be a homewrecker if those foundations aren’t there.

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It’s a true mind opener x

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By *eastZMan
over a year ago

London

It is about realising what's out there.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It's taking the red pill... one can never go back.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We have gone back! We've not played with another couple since last August, we've managed, and we're still horny for each other. We still go to clubs, if we connect and play then great, if not we'll still have a fun night (and put on a show in the voyeur room).

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By *itty HoodooCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Op I can understand your excitement at you watching your wife with others. However is this really swinging? I know people on this site call it swinging but please hear me out. A Swing, Swings both ways, it goes forwards and backwards. What you have described is only a one way motion which by definition (controversial) isn’t swinging in terms of physics. No judgment but it sounds more Cuck or sub than Swinging. As said Swinging is a two way motion with equal force applied to each direction.

Looking forward to the response we’ve already got our popcorn ready

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Terminology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op I can understand your excitement at you watching your wife with others. However is this really swinging? I know people on this site call it swinging but please hear me out. A Swing, Swings both ways, it goes forwards and backwards. What you have described is only a one way motion which by definition (controversial) isn’t swinging in terms of physics. No judgment but it sounds more Cuck or sub than Swinging. As said Swinging is a two way motion with equal force applied to each direction.

Looking forward to the response we’ve already got our popcorn ready "

Is what you have described technically oscillation? Being a devout pedant myself I fully appreciate the pedantry but think maybe you are more concerned with the semantics and forgetting the way English messes around with words such as lead - base metal with chemical symbol of PB and lead - to guide someone or a strap attached to a dog.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I disagree, if there's ever a point one of us isn't interested anymore we stop no questions asked, we have an amazing sex life this is an addition & not our lifestyle it's just a fun part, when th fun stops we stop, it's not a need it's a want.

Mrs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Not at all for me I could switch this off on a second with no remorse It’s just an aspect applicable currently and that could change if I met someone for a relationship

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"Op I can understand your excitement at you watching your wife with others. However is this really swinging? I know people on this site call it swinging but please hear me out. A Swing, Swings both ways, it goes forwards and backwards. What you have described is only a one way motion which by definition (controversial) isn’t swinging in terms of physics. No judgment but it sounds more Cuck or sub than Swinging. As said Swinging is a two way motion with equal force applied to each direction.

Looking forward to the response we’ve already got our popcorn ready

Is what you have described technically oscillation? Being a devout pedant myself I fully appreciate the pedantry but think maybe you are more concerned with the semantics and forgetting the way English messes around with words such as lead - base metal with chemical symbol of PB and lead - to guide someone or a strap attached to a dog."

Pb … sorry but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op I can understand your excitement at you watching your wife with others. However is this really swinging? I know people on this site call it swinging but please hear me out. A Swing, Swings both ways, it goes forwards and backwards. What you have described is only a one way motion which by definition (controversial) isn’t swinging in terms of physics. No judgment but it sounds more Cuck or sub than Swinging. As said Swinging is a two way motion with equal force applied to each direction.

Looking forward to the response we’ve already got our popcorn ready

Is what you have described technically oscillation? Being a devout pedant myself I fully appreciate the pedantry but think maybe you are more concerned with the semantics and forgetting the way English messes around with words such as lead - base metal with chemical symbol of PB and lead - to guide someone or a strap attached to a dog.

Pb … sorry but "

Haha! Love it, yes keep up with us pedants!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op I can understand your excitement at you watching your wife with others. However is this really swinging? I know people on this site call it swinging but please hear me out. A Swing, Swings both ways, it goes forwards and backwards. What you have described is only a one way motion which by definition (controversial) isn’t swinging in terms of physics. No judgment but it sounds more Cuck or sub than Swinging. As said Swinging is a two way motion with equal force applied to each direction.

Looking forward to the response we’ve already got our popcorn ready "

To continue the pedantry. What is decsribe here could be oscillation or reciprocation. Only one direction of motion is known at linear unless it continues in a circular motion then it is rotary. Does any if this actually apply to swinging in the fab sense??

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

No don’t agree.

If a partner didn’t want to swing, as I don’t with most relationships, I wouldn’t miss it at all.

I feel really sad for those couples and singles who’s lives revolve around swinging x

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By *otty BikerMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"Couldn’t agree more. We were both really nervous, but the second I saw Vixen take another guy in her mouth (and when she started egging me on to put my cock in another woman’s mouth), we both knew it was the right move. We’ve never looked back, because we’re closer, have a new level of honesty and are having the best sex of our lives.

We’re lucky because we have an amazing relationship, but completed understand why it could be a homewrecker if those foundations aren’t there."

Yeah this

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