FabSwingers.com forum: Why do we love slutty females?*

By *moothLeanBod OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

* slutty isn't used as a derogatory term here. Please dont be offended if you dont like it.

Genuine question.

Why do they appeal so much?

For me it's the fact they're in control of and embracing their sexuality.

Your thoughts please.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Pretty similar to you, OP, but I'll add that I was brought up to believe that women tolerate sex rather than enjoying it. So it's a major turn-on when women show clearly that they're just as keen as you are. But it's a fine line for me, if they're too overtly sexual, and missing the social/flirty stuff, it can be a turn-off. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a 'slut' is a woman who loves sex and knows what she likes and can really let herself go and not feel like it's something dirty and something they are expected to endure rather than enjoy.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I love being called a slut. I love sex with lots of guys and I love being naughty

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By *moothLeanBod OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I love being called a slut. I love sex with lots of guys and I love being naughty "

And we love you for that!

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

I like the word slut and feel it's a fair description of myself but don't feel it's anything to be ashamed of.

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By *ice_genuine_guyMan
over a year ago

lincoln

I like the confidence a “slut” shows. I find it a huge turn on for any woman to embrace her sexuality and go out and get what she wants. Different people have different needs and wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasted my teens and entire twenties with a woman who influenced me to believe most women didn’t enjoy sex, it was duty for their partners. It was 100% an emotionally abusive relationship. I was made to feel like a creep or abuser for desiring to explore sex.

Since escaping I crave ‘slutty’ women, those who embrace their sexuality and chase pleasure while pushing societal boundaries.

I admire and lust over all the amazing girls on this site no matter the shapes and sizes, I love them all and I’m extremely grateful to have discovered this lifestyle.

Next stop; my own slutty woman to explore life with.

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By *moothLeanBod OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I'm after the same thing: a slutty female partner to join on their journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of being a submissive slut with very little limits and eagerness to push boundaries and serve

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?

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By *ewbfbcplCouple
over a year ago

Reading

No problem here with it. C fully embraces her slutty side, and actually wants all our meets to be that way. It turns her on more being called a slut and dressing in a revealling way

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Slut is the term that we use just between ourselves, been an instant red flag when other guys have said it to Mrs CT.

One of my favorite roleplays to do with her, messaging mid week to book a “slut” for the evening and she’ll tell me what she’s willing to do/try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're are naughty and hot

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

For me I love watching the woman enjoying herself so why should she be called a slut just because she is enjoying herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty similar to you, OP, but I'll add that I was brought up to believe that women tolerate sex rather than enjoying it. So it's a major turn-on when women show clearly that they're just as keen as you are. But it's a fine line for me, if they're too overtly sexual, and missing the social/flirty stuff, it can be a turn-off. Mr"

Very similar for me, I was brought up predominantly surrounded by women, good women, and so have strong respect for women.

I think I need to know how sure that the lady I'm about to get intimate with, wants that, and not necessarily me, but the moment, the situation we are in.

A sexually liberated, open minded, honest woman is what I need, for myself to match their sexual openness.

There's nothing more exciting than Mrs A expressing she's got the urge, the need, whether that be a more private setting between the two of us, or the craving for another.

It's open, it's honest, it's strong (standing against societies norms), it's very exciting.

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I think its seeing them enjoying it and knowing that you can be more open about what you'd like to do with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me I love watching the woman enjoying herself so why should she be called a slut just because she is enjoying herself. "

I see the term slut being used this way, to stand up against societies expectations, using the term similar to the way some black people may use another certain derogatory term with one another.

Stronger, more positive words are needed, for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bonnie like to refer to herself as a slut. For me I love this, but think the words, greedy and confident are very well suited to a lady that like lots of sex.

I love that Bonnie is like this and the fact that we both get to enjoy her having sex with other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My French lover calls me his petite saloppe..

We love some slutty play..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Katie too would consider herself to have been a slutty teenager

She doesn’t see it as a derogatory thing

Once she had the cock

She realised just how much she loved it!!

And continued to do so

The term greedy girl is probably the way most people think of it now

N xx

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

It means a woman who has lots of sex with different partners and no emotional connection, so yes..most swingers would be sluts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My French lover calls me his petite saloppe..

We love some slutty play..

Slutty play is fun

Nxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It certainly is

Can’t tell you on your profile

But you have lots of great pictures

N xx

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?"

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It certainly is

Can’t tell you on your profile

But you have lots of great pictures

N xx"

You have amazing pics may I say

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Mrs A has fully embraced being a slut over the last few years. She loves being told she’s one while playing too.

I’ve (Mr) always been turned on by slutty women, and this makes us a perfect match.

Neither of us see the word as derogatory and as with all words it’s the context in which it is said and the directed tone, that could make it perceived offensive to some. But, as a couple of others have said, the literal meaning of the word is to describe someone, often a woman who is sexually promiscuous and or has multiple sexual partners.

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"Katie too would consider herself to have been a slutty teenager

She doesn’t see it as a derogatory thing

Once she had the cock

She realised just how much she loved it!!

And continued to do so

The term greedy girl is probably the way most people think of it now

N xx"

Katie is stunning

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By *ounghungandfullMan
over a year ago

north lincolnshire

Wel all LOVE a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love women who have had a lot of cock. You could call them slags. Promiscuous. Nothing derogatory meant here. I’d fucking love to marry one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love women who have had a lot of cock. You could call them slags. Promiscuous. Nothing derogatory meant here. I’d fucking love to marry one off. "

This is where language gets messy and people ate up about words, if we all read a different context into them.

For me, the term slut (in the right moment) is a way to express a sexually liberated woman in a way to say fuck you to societies expectations.

The term slag is something completely different to me, and more derogatory.

I see that as not sexually liberated, but careless with their actions, with no consideration of consequences or the hurt it can bring loved ones.

It's fitting for all genders, in my opinion.

I think a term better than those initially considered derogatory is needed tov be agreed upon.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?"

Because the word slut is better in bed and shorter and rolls off of the tongue better.

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By *uckyFarmersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wow so many Slut...

My Wife is one and has bin for many years.

With me standing right by her side..

Just need to find more around Somerset to get a group together for lots of monthly fun....

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"Katie too would consider herself to have been a slutty teenager

She doesn’t see it as a derogatory thing

Once she had the cock

She realised just how much she loved it!!

And continued to do so

The term greedy girl is probably the way most people think of it now

N xx"

Dee is the same, she always enjoyed lots of cock and the attention that goes with it from guys to try and get into her knickers.

Like you I’d say she was a greedy girl more than a slut but it probably amounts to the same thing.

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By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?

Because the word slut is better in bed and shorter and rolls off of the tongue better."

And because, until we are better disposed to the concept of a woman who likes a lot of sex, *whatever* word we use will become attached to that concept and become a slur. In our earliest recorded use of the word slut (Chaucer) it meant a (male) vagabond, after all.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

love a slutty female,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find slutty women very attractive

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By *moothLeanBod OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I'm not surprised that there are so many responses celebrating womens' agency in sexuality and sex.

It's always been there, but for many generations authority has attempted to suppress, or vilify it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably an age thing but I'd be instantly turned off by a man calling me a slut. I'm just a woman enjoying sex.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"It's probably an age thing but I'd be instantly turned off by a man calling me a slut. I'm just a woman enjoying sex."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the kind of woman I’ve ever come across in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will always have a stigma attached to it, no matter how much it’s embraced

Imagine the first thing you ever say to someone you just met randomly ( hi I’m a slut )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's definitely a perception of that but I love people who say they are, not because it's derogatory but because of the confidence it exudes and it's usually someone who knows what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex, and my previous dominant kept calling me a slut and I grew to love the term.

I enjoy feeling wanted and used. So sex gives me that need.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

"NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?"

Thats too long to catch on but "slut, bitch, whore" are all used on here and I find uncomfortable.

Hot/Horny/Randy or just loves sex surely says the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?

Thats too long to catch on but "slut, bitch, whore" are all used on here and I find uncomfortable.

Hot/Horny/Randy or just loves sex surely says the same. "

Agree, I received some messages that call me a slut they don’t sit well

Of course I’m horny

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By *rive u crazyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love women that like sex, that choose who to have sex with. I don’t like the negative judgements, so I don’t like slut, whore. Unless it’s just a role play where I can be your slut, you can be mine

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By *omething about BunnyCouple
over a year ago

Fantacy Island

Empowered Slut here, and I love the term “Slut”. For me Its a totally appropriate word to describe my behaviour and out look on seeking sexual pleasure with hubbies blessing or more accurately encouragement he finds sexually confident woman a massive turn on so it’s a win win for us both. I’m not a slag I don’t fuck just any one, there is a difference, but if I’m in the mood and attracted then let the fun begin

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

"NB *I am not offended*

Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?"

Wouldn't that be "SAUW" not sure that acronym would catch on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love sex, and my previous dominant kept calling me a slut and I grew to love the term.

I enjoy feeling wanted and used. So sex gives me that need. "

Haha same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably an age thing but I'd be instantly turned off by a man calling me a slut. I'm just a woman enjoying sex."

Seconded

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I love being a slut, hence my profile name. I love the fact my Mr encourages me to be a slut. They say oppersits attact, but we bring out my slut between us. He's so proud to show me off and share me.

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