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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some of you arnt sods law just got to sift through n plod on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always see these posts and wonder why I haven't experienced the same problems.

I'm not the best looking guy here and neither am I hung like a Blackpool donkey however I've managed to make some good friends and have some fantastic meets just by being polite and patient.

Am I missing something or am I just one of the lucky ones?

I don't mean this to sound like I'm bragging but I'm just trying to show that not all single guys have th same problem.

Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can understand why its very hard to get a meeting with people, because there is so many on here plus lots of real wankers too. I have now found a great coulpe and we do meet often, but I was well vetted first. Just be patient and DO NOT HOUND THEM WITH LOTS OF MESSAGES. And when you do send messages, do not just do one liners, and add a wee bit of fun too. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In business terms the market is saturated I'm afraid. Question is how do you stand out from the crowd?

I would hate to be a single guy on here as I recognise how hard it would be to get a meet. That's why I don't subscribe to single guy bashing threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh goody, another one. Come on admin, please for the live of anything give us a separate 'why is it so hard for me' section of the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always see these posts and wonder why I haven't experienced the same problems.

I'm not the best looking guy here and neither am I hung like a Blackpool donkey however I've managed to make some good friends and have some fantastic meets just by being polite and patient.

Am I missing something or am I just one of the lucky ones?

I don't mean this to sound like I'm bragging but I'm just trying to show that not all single guys have th same problem.

Andy"

I'm with you on this one Andy...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

This site is what you make of it

You give, you get back

I never have any problem from day one

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine "

You get out what you put in! There's not much on your profile to start with, what can you offer someone? What are you looking for? Get some pics in public, and not a cock one lol

When sending a message, make sure it is at least half decent, which inspires someone to reply to you, It's not really that difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yet another whingy post, to be fair

Ive had more

Sucsess than half the couples on here never mind single lads, its what you make of it

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

First of all single women and couples aren't going to come knocking at your door and begging for meets.

Do some work on your profile, get some pics on there, put your age preferences in and actually put your interests instead of ticking every box. Plenty of guys have success on ths site, it can be done.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am like andy i suppose in that I subscribe to the phrase "you make of it what you make of it"...

the site does give you the tools to make it work... it is really up to you to use all of them..some of them.. or none of them

you can stand out if you really want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wise words as always from the guru that is Fabio

I bow to your wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we have mulled the single guy meet over several times and would consider it for a birthday treat coming up. But they would have to bring something to the table so to speak. We respect confidence but not cockiness and a good sense of humour. Needy messages do not do it at all!!!

As said above its exactly what you make it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its difficult, for those that dont put in the effort or those that just cant be fucked doing it for themselves

not really any different from any other group on fab

the majority group will find more problems, by being just the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its difficult, for those that dont put in the effort or those that just cant be fucked doing it for themselves

not really any different from any other group on fab

the majority group will find more problems, by being just the majority"

You're right, just wish we could have a day pass by without a thread entitled 'why is it.......' Or 'single guys'

I know I'll never be top of the sexiest males list, and more a party pack than a six pack but hey, I reckon my well constructed profile and personality wins out over whining about not getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My and my fem fb have been let down two times this week by single males on this site drove ten miles on both occasions even to them twenty mins before meet work that one ouy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine "

because half of them send an email akin to "fancy a shag?" on 1st contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine

because half of them send an email akin to "fancy a shag?" on 1st contact!"

They send that much? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we have mulled the single guy meet over several times and would consider it for a birthday treat coming up. But they would have to bring something to the table so to speak. We respect confidence but not cockiness and a good sense of humour. Needy messages do not do it at all!!!

As said above its exactly what you make it!

"

I'll bring a bottle of lambrini to the table if it's a birthday treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we have mulled the single guy meet over several times and would consider it for a birthday treat coming up. But they would have to bring something to the table so to speak. We respect confidence but not cockiness and a good sense of humour. Needy messages do not do it at all!!!

As said above its exactly what you make it!

I'll bring a bottle of lambrini to the table if it's a birthday treat "

Lambrini!!!!!!!!!!!! Fail.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we have mulled the single guy meet over several times and would consider it for a birthday treat coming up. But they would have to bring something to the table so to speak. We respect confidence but not cockiness and a good sense of humour. Needy messages do not do it at all!!!

As said above its exactly what you make it!

I'll bring a bottle of lambrini to the table if it's a birthday treat

Lambrini!!!!!!!!!!!! Fail....."

buckfast ok???- might have some alchy slabbers over it after Ive prised it from his cold dead hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we have mulled the single guy meet over several times and would consider it for a birthday treat coming up. But they would have to bring something to the table so to speak. We respect confidence but not cockiness and a good sense of humour. Needy messages do not do it at all!!!

As said above its exactly what you make it!

I'll bring a bottle of lambrini to the table if it's a birthday treat

Lambrini!!!!!!!!!!!! Fail.....

buckfast ok???- might have some alchy slabbers over it after Ive prised it from his cold dead hands"

Bucky now your talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always see these posts and wonder why I haven't experienced the same problems.

I'm not the best looking guy here and neither am I hung like a Blackpool donkey however I've managed to make some good friends and have some fantastic meets just by being polite and patient.

Am I missing something or am I just one of the lucky ones?

I don't mean this to sound like I'm bragging but I'm just trying to show that not all single guys have th same problem.

Andy

I'm with you on this one Andy..."

It's not easy to see why you two both do well. You both have decent profiles. You can both accommodate (and having swung as a single that at various times could and couldn't this makes a huge difference), one of you has great pics the other a face pic as an avatar, you both have verifications that aren't crassly telling us what an amazing fuck you are but stating that you are dent reliable blokes.

Now let's compare that to the OP's profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*decent not dent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always see these posts and wonder why I haven't experienced the same problems.

I'm not the best looking guy here and neither am I hung like a Blackpool donkey however I've managed to make some good friends and have some fantastic meets just by being polite and patient.

Am I missing something or am I just one of the lucky ones?

I don't mean this to sound like I'm bragging but I'm just trying to show that not all single guys have th same problem.

Andy

I'm with you on this one Andy...

It's not easy to see why you two both do well. You both have decent profiles. You can both accommodate (and having swung as a single that at various times could and couldn't this makes a huge difference), one of you has great pics the other a face pic as an avatar, you both have verifications that aren't crassly telling us what an amazing fuck you are but stating that you are dent reliable blokes.

Now let's compare that to the OP's profile..."

I'm already wanking at the thought of crystal perving my profile...dammit and I've came!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you claim to have broad shoulders then start this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not fair! I wanna be perved lol that's it I'm stomping off in a huff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not fair! I wanna be perved lol that's it I'm stomping off in a huff. "

usernolongeronsite..Ya big baby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not fair! I wanna be perved lol that's it I'm stomping off in a huff. "

I't not fair! I wanted to perv but no pics.

...stomps off in a huff

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine "

I don't know about all single guys but for you here's what I think..

You've been here 9 weeks. That's no time at all. If you're despondent after that time your gonna have issues.

Your profile isn't very appealing and tells us very little about you.

You have no public pics on display so anyone browsing will probably pass you by.

You cannot accom which people generally take to mean you are married and playing away, if you are fair do but be honest and if not if suggest a quick 'I can't accom because I flat share/live in a dustbin/have children living at home with me/don't want strangers coming to my house etc.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not fair! I wanna be perved lol that's it I'm stomping off in a huff.

I't not fair! I wanted to perv but no pics.

...stomps off in a huff"

You're not missing much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have done the long really nice and sincere messages. Just think it would be polite for a thank you but no thanks instead of no reply or blocked. I wasn't really complaining just wondering if it was just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have done the long really nice and sincere messages. Just think it would be polite for a thank you but no thanks instead of no reply or blocked. I wasn't really complaining just wondering if it was just me"

its not just u of course...but thats why u gotta stand out- as suggested above, by making ur profile better at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it to heart, it happens to everyone. Deleted and blocked just means not interested and don't wanna be pestered anymore by the same people.

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We have had a meet posting on site for 3 days for a singel male for tonight now taken it off now we know that some guys carmt amd will not travel a long way but only 4 guys replyed but did not match what we wanted how menny times have we seen in the forems a singel guy saying knowone meets singel guys if we have never not showem for a meet but a few guys have let us down there the ones to blame for us picky cpls

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"We have had a meet posting on site for 3 days for a singel male for tonight now taken it off now we know that some guys carmt amd will not travel a long way but only 4 guys replyed but did not match what we wanted how menny times have we seen in the forems a singel guy saying knowone meets singel guys if we have never not showem for a meet but a few guys have let us down there the ones to blame for us picky cpls "

Maybe you didn't match what the other single males wanted? They can be picky too if they want to be!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We have had a meet posting on site for 3 days for a singel male for tonight now taken it off now we know that some guys carmt amd will not travel a long way but only 4 guys replyed but did not match what we wanted how menny times have we seen in the forems a singel guy saying knowone meets singel guys if we have never not showem for a meet but a few guys have let us down there the ones to blame for us picky cpls

Maybe you didn't match what the other single males wanted? They can be picky too if they want to be!"

How very dare they!

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"We have had a meet posting on site for 3 days for a singel male for tonight now taken it off now we know that some guys carmt amd will not travel a long way but only 4 guys replyed but did not match what we wanted how menny times have we seen in the forems a singel guy saying knowone meets singel guys if we have never not showem for a meet but a few guys have let us down there the ones to blame for us picky cpls

Maybe you didn't match what the other single males wanted? They can be picky too if they want to be!"

Yes this os true bit dont lnow if you dont try

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"We have had a meet posting on site for 3 days for a singel male for tonight now taken it off now we know that some guys carmt amd will not travel a long way but only 4 guys replyed but did not match what we wanted how menny times have we seen in the forems a singel guy saying knowone meets singel guys if we have never not showem for a meet but a few guys have let us down there the ones to blame for us picky cpls

Maybe you didn't match what the other single males wanted? They can be picky too if they want to be!

Yes this os true bit dont lnow if you dont try "

So why didn't you try one of the four that did reply then?

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By *layboy101Man
over a year ago

brum

dont worry mate im shit at it too

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine "

Yes you are and I would be seriously shagless if ALL of you were idiots. I've met some lovely guys.

However, there are those who can be a tad irritating to say the least. Had to say no thanks to one recently no fewer than 5 times (aren't I patient?).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine

Yes you are and I would be seriously shagless if ALL of you were idiots. I've met some lovely guys.

However, there are those who can be a tad irritating to say the least. Had to say no thanks to one recently no fewer than 5 times (aren't I patient?)."

selftimewaster!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine

Yes you are and I would be seriously shagless if ALL of you were idiots. I've met some lovely guys.

However, there are those who can be a tad irritating to say the least. Had to say no thanks to one recently no fewer than 5 times (aren't I patient?).

selftimewaster! "

It's my time, I can waste it all I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it an attitude of the fellas that are moaning that's at fault? Having read numerous whining threads, some of which are from pretty good looking fellas (btw I'm 100% straight but can acknowledge a good looking guy) I can only assume it is. I refer to my earlier observation about myself, not blessed in all departments but many good friends and fun times have been had on many occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest we have mulled the single guy meet over several times and would consider it for a birthday treat coming up. But they would have to bring something to the table so to speak. We respect confidence but not cockiness and a good sense of humour. Needy messages do not do it at all!!!

As said above its exactly what you make it!

I'll bring a bottle of lambrini to the table if it's a birthday treat

Lambrini!!!!!!!!!!!! Fail....."

Ok I'll push the boat out and bring some Asti Spumante...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult for us single guys ? Some of us are reliable , sincere and genuine

I don't know about all single guys but for you here's what I think..

You've been here 9 weeks. That's no time at all. If you're despondent after that time your gonna have issues.

Your profile isn't very appealing and tells us very little about you.

You have no public pics on display so anyone browsing will probably pass you by.

You cannot accom which people generally take to mean you are married and playing away, if you are fair do but be honest and if not if suggest a quick 'I can't accom because I flat share/live in a dustbin/have children living at home with me/don't want strangers coming to my house etc.

X"

A dustbin???

Have you been stalking me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always see these posts and wonder why I haven't experienced the same problems.

I'm not the best looking guy here and neither am I hung like a Blackpool donkey however I've managed to make some good friends and have some fantastic meets just by being polite and patient.

Am I missing something or am I just one of the lucky ones?

I don't mean this to sound like I'm bragging but I'm just trying to show that not all single guys have th same problem.

Andy

I'm with you on this one Andy...

It's not easy to see why you two both do well. You both have decent profiles. You can both accommodate (and having swung as a single that at various times could and couldn't this makes a huge difference), one of you has great pics the other a face pic as an avatar, you both have verifications that aren't crassly telling us what an amazing fuck you are but stating that you are dent reliable blokes.

Now let's compare that to the OP's profile..."

Thanks you 2

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