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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how do you respond to winks...do you just wink back or chat....i have had winks and tried to send a message only to find they are not looking for single guys or age is wrong....suppose a wink is nice to get though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a wink this morning (that is not a typo btw)

Sent a wink and an email back.

What do I get back in return.....not a sausage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest most of my winks seem to come from people that have looked at my profile and don't match what I'm looking for but I think send them as a way of saying I'm still interested without sending a message, which I prefer if they don't match what I'm looking for that way I still get a nice compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they are sexy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understand why people get so anal about winks, we wink if we like the look of people, if they wink back then we send a message. We are also happy to receive winks.

It's a bit like people who say send a face pic with a message but don't have face pics on their profile.

Winking is fun and light hearted, some people take things too seriously.

We have sent people messages who say on their profile that they don't like winks and want people to make an effort, yet they don't even respond. How hypocritical is that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some of my best meets from winks I've received or sent.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I look at the profile. If I like I message. I tend to leave unwanted winks and friend requests without deleting now as, apparently, they cannot wink/request again if you leave it in your inbox. Saves deleting the same ones over and over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try to always send a message back to say thanks for the wink and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do members ignore,or even delete winks,from people who match there criteria.If they don't like or want winks,why not say so on there profile.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will be totally honest, I never have and never will look at who has winked at me, sure it's a compliment, but it doesn't really mean anything, it's just one function of fab I don't use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Och foxi n I thought you were ignoring me too lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Och foxi n I thought you were ignoring me too lol "

Lol And foxy now wonders what else she may have missed out on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Och foxi n I thought you were ignoring me too lol

Lol And foxy now wonders what else she may have missed out on "

Lol should o looked lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I usually send a message back saying thanks for the wink. If i don't meet their criteria via a read of their profile, i also acknowledge this in the message to save people some members getting annoyed.

That being said, some great meets on here have come off the back of winks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Och foxi n I thought you were ignoring me too lol

Lol And foxy now wonders what else she may have missed out on

Lol should o looked lol "

Too late now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Lol "

Some how I never equate a with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wink from over a week ago sent, opened a dialogue,met last nite

pretty fucking useful tool in my book...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely ignore them as they are lazy ways for people who cannot make an effort to express an interest.

Well, I expect people who are interested to make an effort - I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I completely ignore them as they are lazy ways for people who cannot make an effort to express an interest.

Well, I expect people who are interested to make an effort - I do."

shame...but ur choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

Some how I never equate a with you "

Eh lol whit you saying lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always wink back even if they are miles away nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I completely ignore them as they are lazy ways for people who cannot make an effort to express an interest.

Well, I expect people who are interested to make an effort - I do."

the wink really just says look at me...wink back if u like..

then open a dialogue...the wink becomes irrelevant, but the communication becomes the focal point...after that decide on a meet

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Lol

Some how I never equate a with you

Eh lol whit you saying lol x"

Well, I wasn't speaking about Lucy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

Some how I never equate a with you

Eh lol whit you saying lol x

Well, I wasn't speaking about Lucy lol x"

Haha mmm I figured that lol. N oi oi I have a halo , ask eh mmmm ok forget it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sometimes wink or send a message back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us a wink is a compliment and if we think the people who have winked us are atttactive and nearby then we wink back. If not then we just ignore and delete.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Interested, we wink back

Not interested, we send a polite message saying so.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Generally i will wink back if there is a mutual attraction, but some people just seem to wink without really reading profiles which is annoying at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the wink fuction is a waste of time

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