FabSwingers.com forum: Not a fan of blow jobs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me alone in this?

Obviously I've had plenty but it's not a massive turn on for me. I feel very awkward about it and can't seem to really enjoy it.

Truth be told the wee guy gets all sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that giving or recieving. As ive never had a guy say he dont like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like different things...it would be boring if we all liked the same.

However, I will say that I used to find oral on me deeply unsatisfying - until Mr, that is. Not sure what it is but it's a really horny experience with him

Mrs

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"People like different things...it would be boring if we all liked the same.

However, I will say that I used to find oral on me deeply unsatisfying - until Mr, that is. Not sure what it is but it's a really horny experience with him

Mrs"

The exact same happened with me and Mr Fox

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to be like this receiving oral, it was with me a mind thing I just couldn't relax enough to enjoy it. It felt wierd without other interaction, kissing for example. I would stop anyone even trying as it killed my desire instantly. The older I got though the more I thought give it another go, I still don't know if I love it but I am enjoying it much more now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I found them a bit weird love them now. Probably not had as much as you though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is that giving or recieving. As ive never had a guy say he dont like it. "

Receiving, I just find that it doesn't do nothing for me I've had people tell me they are the best in the area but still......

Not like I can't get hard or anything I just can't seem to get into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them . She knows how I like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was younger I found them a bit weird love them now. Probably not had as much as you though "

Lol why do you say that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you don't really enjoy them, you don't. I (f) don't enjoy receiving oral. We're all individuals and that's a very good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was younger I found them a bit weird love them now. Probably not had as much as you though

Lol why do you say that

Ah just cos you said "obviously I've had plenty"

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Good blowjobs are hard to come by so maybe you just haven’t had a good one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was younger I found them a bit weird love them now. Probably not had as much as you though

Lol why do you say that

Ah just cos you said "obviously I've had plenty""

Sorry haha I've had a few

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is it just me alone in this?

Obviously I've had plenty but it's not a massive turn on for me. I feel very awkward about it and can't seem to really enjoy it.

Truth be told the wee guy gets all sensitive."

Can I have yours then if you don't want them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it just me alone in this?

Obviously I've had plenty but it's not a massive turn on for me. I feel very awkward about it and can't seem to really enjoy it.

Truth be told the wee guy gets all sensitive.

Can I have yours then if you don't want them?

Feel free 1 condition though

I get to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's OK not to like something. Even when it feels like you're the only one.

What I would say is that enthusiasm and seeing your partner enjoying giving you pleasure goes along way. I was convinced receiving oral sex wasn't for me until I was with someone who really got off on the experience and it allowed me to relax.

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

A blowjob can be extremely erotic and satisfying but that does not mean it is for everyone.

Take the pressure off yourself and concentrate on what you do enjoy.

It really does not matter a fuck what others think it is your dick put it where you get off.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Different people like different things I've had 2 men in past relationships that didn't like a bj so we just never did it.

Mrs

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By *onkeyman72Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Got to agree with OP, much rather give, my mind starts wandering and I lose interest...go on, someone say it...you ain't had a good one ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a good handjob but unlikely to say no to either

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By *hovskolMan
16 weeks ago

South Manchester

Find it's hard to get the right sensation, either too much and it's painful, or not enough to be enjoyable. I need a bit of shaft stimulation as well as the head.

Will keep trying though!

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