FabSwingers.com forum: Public pics and friend pics

By *heekyDemand OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

When we created our couples profile, we deliberated whether to put some pics behind a friend wall and eventually opted to leave everything open. The best stuff we reserve for face to face. I understand why some people do have 2 tier, such as hiding face pics, but tell me what your other reasoning is for making some of your pics friend exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone wants to see the graphic content of my friends-only or private photos.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

To add a little intrigue

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Don’t want to give everything away too early a bit of mystery is attractive

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of my friends pics are just older ones and every so often I make some of those private or delete.

There's no reason apart from that.

I've never divided them based on content and prefer to have a broad mix of public pics.

I don't accept random friend requests so only people I'm chatting to for a while will get to see the older pics.

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
over a year ago

Waterloo, Liverpool

I'm happy to have everything available apart from face pics. These are set as private and will only be sent if needed to set up a meet.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Most out friends pics are either face pics, more graphic ones or previous forum photo challenges.

Mrs

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By *heekyDemand OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Most out friends pics are either face pics, more graphic ones or previous forum photo challenges.

Mrs "

Glad to hear from you again btw, forum royalty

This is my couples profile, backbydemand was the singles

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

For me it's because I don't want everyone to see the riskier pics (not that they're that risky lol).

I don't get much out in my public pics ,there's a bit more flesh in my friends so I'm choosy about who I want to see them.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

They tend to be older ones with public ones being more recent

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!

"For me it's because I don't want everyone to see the riskier pics (not that they're that risky lol).

I don't get much out in my public pics ,there's a bit more flesh in my friends so I'm choosy about who I want to see them."

this seems to hit this particular nail on the head!

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"When we created our couples profile, we deliberated whether to put some pics behind a friend wall and eventually opted to leave everything open. The best stuff we reserve for face to face. I understand why some people do have 2 tier, such as hiding face pics, but tell me what your other reasoning is for making some of your pics friend exclusive. "

A few of ours show claires tattoos that are very distinctive, hence we keep them as private. We also have our faces in private for obvious reasons. It's rare we share them due to my past profession and claires current.

I'm going to contradict everything now an say we normally only share with ppl we've met.

So now your saying what's the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex pics are for friends

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We don't have face pictures in our public gallery or stuff that's too much of a dead give away. Obviously nothings fool proof and it is risk assessed. We were stricker about our public gallery after an unpleasant incident with a guy who claimed to know our daughter. Did it in a very creepy, letchy way.

The freinds only pictures are obviously for the benifit of our freinds. Mostly non-sexual pictures of us and our face. Some XXX content that we have to worry about the identity thing. Why? Well partly because we like to show off but some content we only like to show off to people we can trust to some extent. Also we sometimes make new freinds at clubs and swap fab details and freinds requests. It nice that they get to remember what we look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we started the profile we initially wanted to keep the graphic pics for friends only. However as our confidence grew we have been braver with what we share. It's kinda horny knowing people enjoy our pics

Mrs

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By *damOutdoorMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

As pansexual panda said. Not sure everyone wants to see the graphic content of my friends-only pics

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"We don't have face pictures in our public gallery or stuff that's too much of a dead give away. Obviously nothings fool proof and it is risk assessed. We were stricker about our public gallery after an unpleasant incident with a guy who claimed to know our daughter. Did it in a very creepy, letchy way.

This... Perfectly said.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"When we started the profile we initially wanted to keep the graphic pics for friends only. However as our confidence grew we have been braver with what we share. It's kinda horny knowing people enjoy our pics

Mrs"

This is by no means a critique. But do you have kids.. High profile profession. There's always someone that thinks they can black mail you into doing something....

That's usually when they find out what I used to do for a living and thier computer or phone suddenly stops doing what they want. It's only happened once & I always give a warning.

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By *k98765Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

More recognisable pics on friends only and the most explicit ones xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

This is by no means a critique. But do you have kids.. High profile profession. There's always someone that thinks they can black mail you into doing something....

That's usually when they find out what I used to do for a living and thier computer or phone suddenly stops doing what they want. It's only happened once & I always give a warning. "

Doing anything on the Internet these days involves an element of calculated risk...whether we have kids or not, what we do for a living, even what part of the world we live - all of that is vague and non-specific until we really get to know people. But I appreciate what you're saying, I've heard some horror stories about what people have been subjected to when they are outed as a swinger etc

Mrs

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

My face pics are on Private. More graphic stuff in my Friends.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any graphic photos on fab, I keep those for private use with the women in them when we are chatting between ourselves. Consent and respect for privacy plays a huge part but I also don’t think women particularly want to see me active with others.

My friend photos tend to be the face pics. There’s also one or two of me with the trendy glasses on and dressed kinda smart’ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t have any graphic photos on fab, I keep those for private use with the women in them when we are chatting between ourselves. Consent and respect for privacy plays a huge part but I also don’t think women particularly want to see me active with others.

My friend photos tend to be the face pics. There’s also one or two of me with the trendy glasses on and dressed kinda smart’ish

Running off topic here a wee bit...I'll be perfectly honest - and I know I'm in the minority - but I love to see guys post "action pics" with other women

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Running off topic here a wee bit...I'll be perfectly honest - and I know I'm in the minority - but I love to see guys post "action pics" with other women

Mrs"

I mean….I would be happy to create some action pics

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