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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so I know single guys don't get very far with messages. But it honestly feels so rude when your so polite and you get deleted or ignored.

It's honestly getting me down that I can even have a conversation because it's always deleted or ignored.

What's the best tips to get a reply??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's another thread for this actually however what I'm asking is, any tips to get a reply back??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I'd recommend changing your mindset. You're not entitled to a reply whatsoever. Whether you think this is rude or not.

That's why your getting the wrong vibe from not receiving replys.

Secondly, just because they're your cup of tea doesn't mean your theirs.

Lastly, and this isn't guaranteed to work. Read their profile, if you have similar interests. Then craft a thoughtful message introducing yourself, explaining why you messaged them, what your looking for and leave it at that.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A lot of people will be looking at a profile before even opening a message. Do you think yours portrays you in an appealing enough light to warrant a response from someone that has 50 other 'polite' messages in their inbox? Particularly when even a no thanks just leads to more messages?

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

Visit a couple of websites selling specialist items. Maybe the first one is in car entertainment, then the second website is retirement homes. Would the websites have the same 'look' about them?

The best advice we can give is, think of yourself as something being sold, and then sell yourself - TO YOUR TARGET AUDIENCE.

Consider these questions. Who are you trying to attract? Are you what THEY look for?

It would be pointless for a retirement home to target boy racers, and likewise my 90 year old gran, isn't going to be a regular visitor to an in car entertainment website.

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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

If you were to message us we would look at your profile first and the your message would either be ignored or deleted.

You profile is very basic with only a couple of cock pics on you have to think couples and woman get lots of messages and you need to stand out.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames


"Firstly I'd recommend changing your mindset. You're not entitled to a reply whatsoever. Whether you think this is rude or not.

That's why your getting the wrong vibe from not receiving replys.

Secondly, just because they're your cup of tea doesn't mean your theirs.

Lastly, and this isn't guaranteed to work. Read their profile, if you have similar interests. Then craft a thoughtful message introducing yourself, explaining why you messaged them, what your looking for and leave it at that. "

this!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Have a good profile ,with some inviting pics and write about what you can offer meets.

Always read a profile & only message that person if you feel you fit what they're looking for.

At the end of the day if you send a message and that person looks at your profile & doesn't like it,they probably won't respond(I don't anyway ).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the feedback and it has helped massively.

Appreciate the time taken as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site FAQs cover this OP. It is not considered rude to not reply.

Do you phone up all the takeaways that drop menus through your door that you didn't ask for?

Of course you don't.

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