FabSwingers.com forum: How Long Had You Been A Member On Here Before Your First Meet?

By *alleyDave OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I am just about to hit my 1st anniversary on Fab and I was wondering how long others had been a member before they had their first meet.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am just about to hit my 1st anniversary on Fab and I was wondering how long others had been a member before they had their first meet.? "

On my first profile I had a meet with guys within a couple of weeks my my first gal on here after a couple of months we actually ended up dating for 2 years or so

This time round haven't had a new meet since rejoining but hoping to change that soon

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

2 months. But it was solo for me. Does that count?

Beth x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As a single, a couple of days. As a couple, a couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago it was an hour after chatting in the cam rooms

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

About 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pretty lucky the first time round when joining fab accidentally put me back in touch with a girl I’d had a lot of fun with years before. I made a few other friends through her and that seemed far easier.

I’ve only actually met six or seven people directly via fab over the two times I’ve been a member. It’s always seemed more useful for finding out about events and meets than actually for arranging 1:1 meets, at least for most men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks! But I have been here before

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Can't remember was so long ago but think about 3 or 4 months .

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

About 5 months... But that was as we were coming out of lockdown, so it wasn't really possible to "meet".

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

About 3 months, bloody Covid lol. Once we could socialise a few weeks for drinks, once we could mix properly, family commitments a couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still patiently waiting

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

About 2 weeks.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I rejoined in January and didn't use it til maybe April. First meet was about 2-3 weeks later?

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I’ve been on and off the sites for a good few years under different profiles. I officially got my first meet within a month of joining the site. A couple who was seeking a meet was let down and I happened to be in the right place at the right time. They were only young like myself and joined that day.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I think... 18 months?

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

99 years n still waiting

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By *orny and SincereMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Met a couple after several days , Then a few weeks pasted before i met a single lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was over a year but it was during covid and also working overseas didnt help either.. i then had a few meets in quick succession after that and now have a fwb so its all looking a bit brighter.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The first time I was on here about a week.

This time was about a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time on here was within a couple of weeks - that was years ago.

This time around I've lost interest in competing for attention, so only really come here for the forums.

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By *and12Couple
over a year ago

flint

We where on a meet with a couple and join the site to cam they liked to play on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was around a month after I joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around about 6 months, but that was ten years ago and long before Covid

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"2 months. But it was solo for me. Does that count?

Beth x"

To be honesty it was less than a week. We are still in touch with the couple today.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

3 years.

We were members of another site before this one. We signed up in 2014, then had our first meet 3 years later.

This and other sites can be a daunting place for couples who want to explore at their own (slow) pace. Lots of people say they aren't hardened swingers, but it was nearly impossible arranging a meet with another couple without them wanting us to commit to playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time round...within a month or so

Second time round (this time) it was within a few days.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Probably 4 or 5 days

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1st day

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By *unnybunny1000Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hubby set profile up in afternoon and I had a meet that night..

Never do that now, far more selective.

Social first

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Few months we were both busy and couldn't fit in the time but kept chat going daily think we were both focused on each other

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

What you have to understand is most people on this site are not actually fucking. A lot of guys get tired of waiting and simply lose interest. The small number that stick around have to get creative to entertain themselves. It took me months to meet someone and even then it was a party setting and that lead to other stuff. I made friends at a party that had nothing to do with Fabs and from there my luck has turned.

Meeting single ladies is like cracking the Hadron Collider. Most are not actually serious about a meet. As for couples, there's a better chance but if you're not bi or ok with filming then its another tall order.

I use this site mainly to organise parties with friends and meet at clubs and private events. 1v1 meets are actually an alien concept at this point. Good luck.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"What you have to understand is most people on this site are not actually fucking. A lot of guys get tired of waiting and simply lose interest. The small number that stick around have to get creative to entertain themselves. It took me months to meet someone and even then it was a party setting and that lead to other stuff. I made friends at a party that had nothing to do with Fabs and from there my luck has turned.

I use this site mainly to organise parties with friends and meet at clubs and private events. 1v1 meets are actually an alien concept at this point. Good luck. "

* This may or may not be reflective of everyone’s experiences on fab

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Bloody ages! But our first meet for fun turned out to be a collegue anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several months, close to a year in the end

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

A day, which was a one off meet and pure luck just simply being in the right place at the right time

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

About two months. Which was about right.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A few weeks for us.

Mrs

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By *illyandjamesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Less than 24 hours

we arranged our first meet Fotr the next day and it got us absolutely hooked on the lifestyle

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

A couple of days

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

About 2 days.

We mentioned it and Mrs agreed to give it a go, then decided she wanted to do something ASAP before she changed her mind, so about 48 hours later we were at a club.

Wasn't the best experience or night, probably set us back a few years in getting into this.

Much more considered second time around and much more fun!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

The first time I was on, a couple of weeks. This time longer, but then I'm in and out.

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By *eGingeMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Bizarrely my first meet from here was accidental. I was in before and a woman I knew met me for a night and turned out she was on here too! I’d winked and she’d ignored me on here!! That was a few months.

Been a long time since a meet this time around. So many single guys it’s hard to stand out

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

I was very lucky.

About 2 weeks

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"I was very lucky.

About 2 weeks"

Technically though, 0 days.

I hadn't even heard of Fab but visited a nearby porn cinema. A couple came in and it rapidly became a bukkake! Talking to them afterwards, they asked for my Fab username so we could verify each other. So they introduced me to Fab!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About 12 weeks

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By *am and johnCouple
over a year ago

york

Ours was before we joined Fab

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By *rowneyes38444Man
over a year ago

purfleet

I met quite quickly on here.

Then it slowed down.

Sad thing is my first 2 proper MMF meets left fab since & I lost the veri's

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Been on here nearly four years and haven't had a physical meet. I enjoy chatting to like minded people so if nothing actually happens then it's nothing lost.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

About a month x

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