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Schrödinger’s women/couple

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

I find it immensely amusing that sometimes when we turn down a man (sometimes a couple but never a women) we instantly get subjected to a reply of ‘yea well I wouldn’t want to as you’re a fat/ugly slag’

So right up to the point we turn them down, Kitty is ‘amazing’ ‘sexy’ or ‘gorgeous’. Hence Schrödinger’s women!

I actually laugh out loud at this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ego is a fragile thing but I'm grateful as it confirms I was right to reject them in the first place.

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Absolutely!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Do you reply in a message to turn them down or just ignore their message?

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Do you reply in a message to turn them down or just ignore their message?"

Occasionally we’ll turn down in a message. Normally if it’s asked a question or mentioned something else.

But yes we ignore now mostly.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"The ego is a fragile thing but I'm grateful as it confirms I was right to reject them in the first place."
Eactly, it shows their true colours.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

But the big question is, does Kitty disappear when you leave the room……??? (Corny physics based joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it immensely amusing that sometimes when we turn down a man (sometimes a couple but never a women) we instantly get subjected to a reply of ‘yea well I wouldn’t want to as you’re a fat/ugly slag’

So right up to the point we turn them down, Kitty is ‘amazing’ ‘sexy’ or ‘gorgeous’. Hence Schrödinger’s women!

I actually laugh out loud at this! "
We have not had this yet ... but can imagine it happening ... respect and acceptance of choice are easy to talk and some find it hard to achieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you have personal preferences OP

For shame, shame!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Do you reply in a message to turn them down or just ignore their message?

Occasionally we’ll turn down in a message. Normally if it’s asked a question or mentioned something else.

But yes we ignore now mostly. "

Yes, it's best not to reply to a profile you're not interested in. Also if they send a 2nd message after you haven't even replied to the first one, block. Hope you only get nice messages from now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon


"I find it immensely amusing that sometimes when we turn down a man (sometimes a couple but never a women) we instantly get subjected to a reply of ‘yea well I wouldn’t want to as you’re a fat/ugly slag’

So right up to the point we turn them down, Kitty is ‘amazing’ ‘sexy’ or ‘gorgeous’. Hence Schrödinger’s women!

I actually laugh out loud at this! "

I really don’t understand why on earth someone would reply with that . You win some you lose some is the best way to look at it

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Fragile ego is going to Fragile ego.

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Every time, it’s hilarious

Had this recently from a guy I expressed interest in a while back who has basically not left my inbox since and when I finally had enough and told him to leave me alone and stop trying to pressure me, he told me to “look at him then look at me” and said he’d be doing me a favour you’ve been in my inbox every other day for weeks but yes I’m definitely the one who needs a bone thrown…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its even funny if they don't block you and come back around in a week or so and try and be nice

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Some people just can’t accept rejection , I’m sure some people on here , realise the person on the profile is an actual person and not a avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its even funny if they don't block you and come back around in a week or so and try and be nice "

Had one kept doing that so my last reply was ‘unsubscribe’ funnily enough they understood

Worked a treat

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

Around here

I hear this happens a lot. It totally validates your decision to turn them down in the first place.

Plus it goes without saying but we all know kitty is gorgeous.

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