FabSwingers.com forum: TALKERS AND DO'ERS

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

xx"

its prob a single guy pretending to be a cpl, i know a few, they even told me its cuz they get more interest ,....

saddo's if ya ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about increasing, but I reckon this has always been the case, in my admittedly short period on here!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

xx"

............ or there could be more couples out there who are going down the social route and being 110% sure they want to play before actually playing......

could be a double-edged sword.....

I don't think there are more or less couples that want to "play"...it just sounds like someone is having a hard time at the moment

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield

Sorry would love to stop and talk, but I'm off out to play now

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"How is others finding it ??

xx"

Yeh, we know the feeling, spend more time playing table tennis with emails than we do shagging

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

xx"

I suspect you're right. There seeems to be an increasing number who can't wait to tell us all how busy they're going to be tonight, tomorrow and the next day. Let's hope their sperm isn't as fertile as their imagination, eh?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

yep this is what we find people message us.talk talk talk.make out they are up for it.as soon as it comes to a meet nothing.there is no point talking the talk if you dont walk the walk

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Win some Lose some. We have had a couple of let downs lately. But last night was at a houseparty with 6 other couples, played from 11pm to 4-30 this morning.

Tomorrow we have an afternoon session with a couple a few miles away, then next week an evening with a single guy.

Probably into next year we will be back to having people let us down again. As we said, win some, lose some. Treat it as a game like we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell i know loads of people who do actually play, but not necessarily with everyone they keep their own circle of play friends. Most of em dont play via forum or chat but by actually meeting at the socials that way u know for deffoe the spark is there. Also such a lot of couples are really single pervy men xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many reasons why people may not want to meet others.

So just because you may get a negative response from some people doesn't mean that they don't play with others.

You have a certain preference that we and probably others would say limits your chances of a meet.

So to say that people don't play just because they don't meet you isn't really the case, it just comes down to choice.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are many reasons why people may not want to meet others.

So just because you may get a negative response from some people doesn't mean that they don't play with others.

You have a certain preference that we and probably others would say limits your chances of a meet.

So to say that people don't play just because they don't meet you isn't really the case, it just comes down to choice.

XXXX

very true

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

some times the chemistry is just not thier,but if the chemistry is not right all the time you are not swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some times the chemistry is just not thier,but if the chemistry is not right all the time you are not swingers"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we agree with all of you, there's always been timewasters and pic collector and guys pretending to been a couple,

but there seems to more peeps who just chat,nothing wrong with that in the chat room!! just gets on your tits a bit when they message you ...lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I've found an increasing number of single women are more than happy to chat for (2-12) months whilst suggesting interest to meet (but no actual progression to meeting), as soon as "one" turns up they "end up" in a relationship.

You think they use the swing scene to hunt for potential partners hence fussy?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I've found an increasing number of single women are more than happy to chat for (2-12) months whilst suggesting interest to meet (but no actual progression to meeting), as soon as "one" turns up they "end up" in a relationship.

You think they use the swing scene to hunt for potential partners hence fussy?"

In order for that to be the case, there must also be men doing exactly the same.

(Not disagreeing with you though)

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

You think they use the swing scene to hunt for potential partners hence fussy?

In order for that to be the case, there must also be men doing exactly the same.

(Not disagreeing with you though)"

I fully agree - the number of men/women that get suckered in by some of these women men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think they use the swing scene to hunt for potential partners hence fussy?

In order for that to be the case, there must also be men doing exactly the same.

(Not disagreeing with you though)

I fully agree - the number of men/women that get suckered in by some of these women men."

Hmmmm suckered? suggests a degree of deception there

Some people do find the one person they want to play, date or love with ... wouldn't agree that they set out to decieve anyone though, after all any relationship is a two person thing ... I also think many single ladies take their time getting to know people first ... I do ... mainly from a safety and trust point of view, I might express an interest in meeting but it won't be before plenty of chat, including by phone and if in the meantime I decide I don't want to take it further, then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For many single women safety is the deciding factor in any meet... therefore a rapport has to be built up first.IMHO Guys who are willing to do this are much more likely to get sex than the wham-bam lot, especially if it comes to repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seem to be having a bad time of it... although dogging is dead these days and there are a lot of timewaster couples about... but then you meet lovely genuine folks and it all seems good again.

Mmmmm, horny again now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some times the chemistry is just not thier,but if the chemistry is not right all the time you are not swingers"

That comment reads like.......to be a swinger you have to fancy anyone who comes along and if you don't your not genuine......Surely you can't mean that?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some times the chemistry is just not thier,but if the chemistry is not right all the time you are not swingers

That comment reads like.......to be a swinger you have to fancy anyone who comes along and if you don't your not genuine......Surely you can't mean that?

XXXX"

We picked up on that one....

We dont use msn anymore,the only reason most of people on there were after pics or just wanted to talk about what they wanted to do,as soon as we said so when you free all the excuses come out..

So now we arrange our meets on here,chat on phone before meet and actually meet lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

xx"

There may very well be loads that 'don't play' no problem to us! We still have loads and loads of fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

There may very well be loads that 'don't play' no problem to us! We still have loads and loads of fun!!"

Us too..

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

There are far too many people on here who only want to meet maybe 3 times a yr

Carnt be arsed with em meself

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"There are far too many people on here who only want to meet maybe 3 times a yr

Carnt be arsed with em meself

Well - if people only want to meet 3 times a year thats entirely up to them - we haven't got a problem with that!

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

I thought it was all about personal choice, does make me laugh when some swingers think themselves to be better than others...It's whatever you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are far too many people on here who only want to meet maybe 3 times a yr

Carnt be arsed with em meself

What does it matter if they only swing 3 times a yr or every day??

They still swingers x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"There are far too many people on here who only want to meet maybe 3 times a yr

Carnt be arsed with em meself

3 times a year with one couple, 3 times a year with another couple, etc., etc., the year soon passes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are far too many people on here who only want to meet maybe 3 times a yr

Carnt be arsed with em meself

I personally prefer quality over quantity xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"There are far too many people on here who only want to meet maybe 3 times a yr

Carnt be arsed with em meself

I personally prefer quality over quantity xxx"

Got to agree there! xx Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For many single women safety is the deciding factor in any meet... therefore a rapport has to be built up first.IMHO Guys who are willing to do this are much more likely to get sex than the wham-bam lot, especially if it comes to repeat meets."

Totally agree with this and quality over quantity too............

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Dont all be getting arsey with me

I get superb quality meets

Just carnt be bothered with someone that wants to chat and be friends for 3 months and then all you get is a kiss

I have standy up friends

I want lie down and sex friends from this site, otherwise go on facebook xxx

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"I have standy up friends

I want lie down and sex friends from this site, otherwise go on facebook xxx

Hahahaha, that's a great quote... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have standy up friends

I want lie down and sex friends from this site, otherwise go on facebook xxx

Hahahaha, that's a great quote... lol

A great quote it is and once again shows the diversity of the site, some folk like to just cut to the chase whilst others take a more softly softly approach.

Neither method is bad as both work, so chill people

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Sorry if it annoys the wild ppl out there but now we have kids we will play email tennis,our nights free are limited and we want to be sure that if we commit it is really going to happen.

As a swinging couple for 20years we also think the idea it means u shag anything is the most insulting we ever heard,on a grredy girls nite that might be the case,but at a meet we need to know there is a spark,for us weirdoes tat we are ,that is a mental thing,not physical

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

When my children were at home, I used to ONLY meet once a week as it suited me to do so then

If anyone cancelled or fantasised, and never showed, my weeks supply of sex never occured

So I've been there also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was all about personal choice, does make me laugh when some swingers think themselves to be better than others...It's whatever you want it to be"

I have to agree with that.....

If your happy who gives a stuff... Each to there own eh

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I would like to know who is this person that thinks they are better than anyone else?

All I know is I know what I am here for and yes I have MANY friends on this site who I shall never fuck but ultimately I am on here too fuck and have loads of friends on here I do fuck and plan to fuck.

I certainly think I am myself, strong sexy, funny, friendly, grumpy, and an arsey bitsh sometimes, better than some folk, worse than others.

Those that like me great

Those that dont...tough tittie

Those that are jealous of me, equally tough tittie, thats their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to know who is this person that thinks they are better than anyone else?

I certainly think I am myself, strong sexy, funny, friendly, grumpy, and an arsey bitsh sometimes, better than some folk, worse than others.

Those that like me great

Those that dont...tough tittie

Those that are jealous of me, equally tough tittie, thats their problem.

I wish you luck,hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy your time on FAB. I do xxxx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"I would like to know who is this person that thinks they are better than anyone else?

I certainly think I am myself, strong sexy, funny, friendly, grumpy, and an arsey bitsh sometimes, better than some folk, worse than others.

Those that like me great

Those that dont...tough tittie

Those that are jealous of me, equally tough tittie, thats their problem.

I wish you luck,hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy your time on FAB. I do xxxx"

Likewise lady xx

I dont understand those comments about quality over quantity

I'm a clever lady, I can and do get both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*creating facebook account*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to know who is this person that thinks they are better than anyone else?

I certainly think I am myself, strong sexy, funny, friendly, grumpy, and an arsey bitsh sometimes, better than some folk, worse than others.

Those that like me great

Those that dont...tough tittie

Those that are jealous of me, equally tough tittie, thats their problem.

I wish you luck,hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy your time on FAB. I do xxxx

Likewise lady xx

I dont understand those comments about quality over quantity

I'm a clever lady, I can and do get both.

relax she aint saying ur wrong, she just saying she rather have a good shag then ;any shag will do'

be nice to laine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tend to agree with a lot of the points made here....once was in a club when they got on about chat rooms and the owner said "cant be doing with them you see the same people in morning noon and night, when do they get time to swing" lol. Made us think we do spend a fair amount of time in chat rooms and talk to people we count as friends and never will swing with them. But allso like a lot of people we cant swing every weekend as much as we might like to

Allso bare in mind they are "chat room,s chat can lead anywere maybe same night/day or next month

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"I would like to know who is this person that thinks they are better than anyone else?

I certainly think I am myself, strong sexy, funny, friendly, grumpy, and an arsey bitsh sometimes, better than some folk, worse than others.

Those that like me great

Those that dont...tough tittie

Those that are jealous of me, equally tough tittie, thats their problem.

I wish you luck,hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy your time on FAB. I do xxxx

Likewise lady xx

I dont understand those comments about quality over quantity

I'm a clever lady, I can and do get both.

relax she aint saying ur wrong, she just saying she rather have a good shag then ;any shag will do'

be nice to laine lol"

I am nice and I only shag guys I like

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

We are free for a good shag on friday night lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"some times the chemistry is just not thier,but if the chemistry is not right all the time you are not swingers

That comment reads like.......to be a swinger you have to fancy anyone who comes along and if you don't your not genuine......Surely you can't mean that?

you definitly cant fancy everyone.but if sooner or later,sex is not involved.you are not a swinger. swinger,a person who indulges in promiscuous sex a person who engages in the exchanging of partners for sexual activities.

XXXX"

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"We are free for a good shag on friday night lol

I'm free for a crap shag any day this week....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to know who is this person that thinks they are better than anyone else?

I certainly think I am myself, strong sexy, funny, friendly, grumpy, and an arsey bitsh sometimes, better than some folk, worse than others.

Those that like me great

Those that dont...tough tittie

Those that are jealous of me, equally tough tittie, thats their problem.

I wish you luck,hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy your time on FAB. I do xxxx

Likewise lady xx

I dont understand those comments about quality over quantity

I'm a clever lady, I can and do get both.

relax she aint saying ur wrong, she just saying she rather have a good shag then ;any shag will do'

be nice to laine lol"

fekk me Kitty... you being nice???? you after a christmas present?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally prefer quality over quantity xxx"

See this phrase regularly, but do they have to be separate entities?

I've certainly been enjoying a good quantity of quality recently, thanks very much!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

As I said before, we don't care how many here who have never got any intentions of ever meeting - doesn't affect us so why bother?! There are still plenty of people who meet and play! xxx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"As I said before, we don't care how many here who have never got any intentions of ever meeting - doesn't affect us so why bother?! There are still plenty of people who meet and play! xxx"

can we play rugby tomorrow or is it just ruff n tumble?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"As I said before, we don't care how many here who have never got any intentions of ever meeting - doesn't affect us so why bother?! There are still plenty of people who meet and play! xxx

can we play rugby tomorrow or is it just ruff n tumble? "

Well, i'm sure there'll be some odd shaped balls knocking about but a bit of ruff and tumble's a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont know about other peeps who like to play on this site, but there seems to be an increasing number of couples who dont play really and just talk about it,

How is others finding it ??

xx"

its no just cpls..singles do it 2

its no nice but hey ho it happens xx

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