FabSwingers.com forum: comfortable in your own skin

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think there is nothing sexier than a women who feels comfortable in her own skin and is more care free and relaxed not always worrying how they look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as opposed to Jame 'Buffalo Bill' Gumb ,who felt more comfortable in other peoples skin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes, that is exactly what I'm referring too, haha..

The last women I had any fun with looked a bit strange, made s weird hissing noise through her teeth and Went by the name Hannibal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more. The same applies to men. The trouble is that there are people with 'requirements', in other words they have a checklist of the 'body'. Must be shaven 'down there' etc. etc. All very unnatural to us.

Personality is the key, unless you just want to shag and nothing more, in which case you just close your eyes.

We even met a lady who could not bear to have a man on top of her!!! She told us so.... however she is one of these people who likes candles everywhere (how romantic and sensual is that ...depending on what you do with the candles of course

) and I guess that should have given us a clue about her.

That would have made an interesting evening. I expect there would have been baby wipes, cotton buds and other antiseptic wipes scattered around the place!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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Not sure I understand the comment about candles.

I'm very comfortable in my own skin Mr N is still surprised at how readily I will get naked for a guy I have only net a fee times lol. I'm also very comfortable in front of the camera as long as it's him behind it

Life experience shaped your attitude to your own body and I have been lucky to have people in my life who have been complimentary rather than critical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong I love gorgeous women for obvious reasons but I agree with u totally - personality is the sexiest tool.

If there an idiot I struggle to fancy them no matter how fit they maybe.

I work with a really good looking girl and a girl I suppose is average looking and if I was lucky enough to have the choice I would pick the latter - she turns me on to death with her personality! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure I understand the comment about candles.

Life experience shaped your attitude to your own body and I have been lucky to have people in my life who have been complimentary rather than critical."

You always have very nice constructive comments on the forums, just thought I'd point that out first... Haha.

I agree though, women who are confident in themselves are very sexy. Confidence is the key to great sex. If you go in to something half heartedly it's just going to hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get me wrong I love gorgeous women for obvious reasons but I agree with u totally - personality is the sexiest tool.

If there an idiot I struggle to fancy them no matter how fit they maybe.

I work with a really good looking girl and a girl I suppose is average looking and if I was lucky enough to have the choice I would pick the latter - she turns me on to death with her personality! !

I agree totally, they might be a perfect ten but just be stupid and just get everything wrong and just be a massive disappointment.

Although, over confidence or mis-guided confidence is also a big turn off... for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeh ur right mate - check us out taliking like we have the choice of several and we are trying to decide.. haha I wish

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've become more comfortable in my skin since I joined here and started meeting some very nice people. The fact they don't scream and chuck holy water on me helps.

It's trickled over into the rest of my life too. I'm happy to strip off in the swimming pool changing rooms, whereas my daughter thinks I should find a cubicle! Drives her crazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I definitely think meeting on here helps, I'm similar to u.. I'm always walking about naked when I get the chance - feel totally at ease !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeh ur right mate - check us out taliking like we have the choice of several and we are trying to decide.. haha I wish

You mean you don't have a choice of women throwing themselves at you on here?

I'm only joking I know what you are saying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've become more comfortable in my skin since I joined here and started meeting some very nice people. The fact they don't scream and chuck holy water on me helps.

It's trickled over into the rest of my life too. I'm happy to strip off in the swimming pool changing rooms, whereas my daughter thinks I should find a cubicle! Drives her crazy.

I was going to ask which pool it was just to see you obviously but then I realised it all sounded a bit Jimmy Saville...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"Not sure I understand the comment about candles.

Life experience shaped your attitude to your own body and I have been lucky to have people in my life who have been complimentary rather than critical.

You always have very nice constructive comments on the forums, just thought I'd point that out first... Haha.

I agree though, women who are confident in themselves are very sexy. Confidence is the key to great sex. If you go in to something half heartedly it's just going to hurt. "

Thank you and you always contribute in a good way too

I agree confidence is the key it also allows you to say no to things that you might not want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I help out with the candle question. They were known as Nuns' comforters! In spite of that I am confident that many priests also provided a "comforting" service for free.

C'est la vie.

Just trying to be helpful, have a nice day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x"

That's good because we have such a laugh taking them and a huge amount of fun afterwards lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My skin is fine its my bones that ache

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can I help out with the candle question. They were known as Nuns' comforters! In spite of that I am confident that many priests also provided a "comforting" service for free.

C'est la vie.

Just trying to be helpful, have a nice day."

Thank you I hope you have a nice day too. What I didn't understand was the correlation between liking to have candles about and not being able to bear a man on top of you or the reference to candles not being sensual. Probably I just missed the point

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've become more comfortable in my skin since I joined here and started meeting some very nice people. The fact they don't scream and chuck holy water on me helps.

It's trickled over into the rest of my life too. I'm happy to strip off in the swimming pool changing rooms, whereas my daughter thinks I should find a cubicle! Drives her crazy.

I was going to ask which pool it was just to see you obviously but then I realised it all sounded a bit Jimmy Saville... "

And funnily enough it still has segregated changing rooms so you'd be a bit obvious.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My skin is fine its my bones that ache

Lol. Reminds me of the joke my dad always tells when he gets back from the dentist "my teeth are fine but I got to have my gums out" he laughs like a drain every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a woman's confidence incredibly sexy, but there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance, which isn't sexy at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am comfortable in my own skin

After all, there's plenty of it to get comfy in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've become more comfortable in my skin since I joined here and started meeting some very nice people. The fact they don't scream and chuck holy water on me helps.

It's trickled over into the rest of my life too. I'm happy to strip off in the swimming pool changing rooms, whereas my daughter thinks I should find a cubicle! Drives her crazy.

I was going to ask which pool it was just to see you obviously but then I realised it all sounded a bit Jimmy Saville...

And funnily enough it still has segregated changing rooms so you'd be a bit obvious."

I suppose I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x

That's good because we have such a laugh taking them and a huge amount of fun afterwards lol.

I'd like to take photos of the fun happening after haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i admire anyone thats truely comfortable in their own skin. must be such a load off

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x

That's good because we have such a laugh taking them and a huge amount of fun afterwards lol.

I'd like to take photos of the fun happening after haha

Xx"

Lol the lens is inclined to steam up resulting in fuzzy photos

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"i admire anyone thats truely comfortable in their own skin. must be such a load off"

You look pretty good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x

That's good because we have such a laugh taking them and a huge amount of fun afterwards lol.

I'd like to take photos of the fun happening after haha

Lol the lens is inclined to steam up resulting in fuzzy photos

I think I should try though, I mean you have to at least try haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ta very much

always room for improvement tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel comfortable, but i often think what will people say about slightly hairy back, or my little belly after all im 51 so im entitled to a bit of aging looks, if peole arent happy with the way i look maybe its them that have the problem , not me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x

That's good because we have such a laugh taking them and a huge amount of fun afterwards lol.

I'd like to take photos of the fun happening after haha

Lol the lens is inclined to steam up resulting in fuzzy photos

I think I should try though, I mean you have to at least try haha "

And God loves a tryer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.there is.nothing more attractive that someone who is comfortable with who they are I think this shines through when you meet or just see someone in the street, some people just have a glow sounds silly but they do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we are all born with what we have.. if someone doesnt like what i have then i dont care! why would i wanna know someone like that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the way i look and feel,if people dont like that dont meet us xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes Curvylady ur right there us some kind of natural glow which makes that person ultra attractive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wished i had more confidance, i try and put it on when i meet people as i know women who lack self confidance puts people off

I worry all the time about how i look, id change so much about me if i could and i think my inperfection stand out to others as they do to me, when in reality i'm sure they dont, we are our own worse ctitics after all, im sure my attitude towards my looks put more people off me than my look themself, if that makes any sence, i cant take a compliment at all i feel like people are mocking me if they say anything nice about me and act accordingly, then i could kick myself after, as im sure more guys run off because of things like that than the fact i have stratch marks and wrinkles lol

Pity i only see it as a after thought tho

Guess we all have out little crosses to bear

But i agree, i think self confidance is very sexy and i envy people who have it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

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"I think there is nothing sexier than a women who feels comfortable in her own skin and is more care free and relaxed not always worrying how they look.

WOW ... your profile is nearly mine!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nicecouple - you can see in your pics how comfortable you are, it's a huge turn on seeing how sexy a women feels in herself x

That's good because we have such a laugh taking them and a huge amount of fun afterwards lol.

I'd like to take photos of the fun happening after haha

Lol the lens is inclined to steam up resulting in fuzzy photos

I think I should try though, I mean you have to at least try haha

And God loves a tryer

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