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Experience of first MFM threesome

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

Hi, we are looking and hoping to introduce a male into a NSA threesome but would like to hear other couples experience of their 1st time involving a male.

We are currently finding it difficult to get the ball rolling with someone we both agree would suit us and like to know how other couples went through the process and how long you took to take the plunge on your 1st time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a single guy, before you take the plunge in the bedroom, meet them in public for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do is not over think it, just go for it.

The first time is not going to go as planned, but it does mean you will have a better idea of what you really looking for the second and third time.

Enjoy what is a fun experience and go with the flow. Xx

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By *ob357Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

Hot tub or similar. All get naked. Rest will happen I can assure you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

following

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By *ob357Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

You two would definitely be easy

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Had two meets so far. Both have involved a fair bit of flirty chat on here first, discussing boundaries etc. The first guy we met at a pub for a drink, the second came round to ours for a coffee. Both times allowed us to have a chat first to see if we all wanted to take things further or not.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Had two meets so far. Both have involved a fair bit of flirty chat on here first, discussing boundaries etc. The first guy we met at a pub for a drink, the second came round to ours for a coffee. Both times allowed us to have a chat first to see if we all wanted to take things further or not. "

That’s exactly how I enjoyed my first two MFMs. A chat and a drink before that glorious question was asked ‘shall we take these upstairs’

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By *ob357Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

Just for the couples. It is equally as daunting for the singles. Possibly worse. We worry about letting you both down plus panic that as you are a couple you will know each other but we as an outsider know nothing. Relax chill we are all nervous

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By *NV14INV OP   Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

And did you take things further.

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By *ob357Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirty messages to start but don’t leave it go too long before arranging a social meet for a coffee or a drink and then take it from there. Don’t expect fireworks from the get go but if the vibe is good then go for it and from there just do what makes everyone comfortable and less inhibitions the better. Also communication is the ultimate key to a good mfm, once each person is comfortable to be open and say if they don’t want x or do want y etc. If there is boundaries to be set then make them clear from the get go so there can be no confusion and most of all enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are currently finding it difficult to get the ball rolling with someone we both agree would suit us and like to know how other couples went through the process and how long you took to take the plunge on your 1st time. "

Don't overthink and definitely don't over-plan. Meet lots of people in a public social settings without any expectation of it being more. If the social vibe for some is good, take it to a more private social setting at a subsequent meet. Don't pick a specific person and knock the others out of play. Let it happen as you both feel it natural. Remember you do not "owe" the guy anything and you'll probably surprise yourself how far things progress with each different meet.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

As a single guy ..ive hosted the odd couple for play..ice can be broke by playing strip poker..or dares..ect..but most of all have fun and enjoy..

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

We found going to a club was the easiest for us. Just relax, chat and see what happens. Had some amazing times.

Have had some private meets and are hit and miss. Read verifications on here.

Above all just enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've tried to arrange this but so far haven't managed due to us being picky and also being let down. We are both looking forward to it & have role played it many times. We are just going to go for it, full mfm session with me watching at times and then chat about it after. If we don't like it, then we won't do it again. So advice would be to just go for it and see what happens! Enjoy!

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We are hoping to try this too, its just about finding the right man who ticks those boxes.

We are off to a club soon where we hope to maybe find a man to move on with.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Just start with a social and see where it leads to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think meeting for a social is always the best option, gives all parties the chance to walk away if it's not quote right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time I just met them at night and we kind of got right to it and fucked in the woods.

Second time we met in a club and got talking in a hot tub. Then took it to a private room.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's a good idea to go to a club. There most of the guys are keen to join a threesome and you can see what they're like before committing to playing. Plus a club is safer.

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