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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Why do soooo many guys have "straight" on their profile "straight"on their status and tell me their straight in messages but they have verifications from TVs or other guys or only guys n tvs as friends its so annoying!

If your bi be honest nobody is going to judge you it just makes u look like a dick when u lie!!

Sorry for the rant I'm sick of saying straight males only lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"..................

If your bi be honest nobody is going to judge you it just makes u look like a dick when u lie!!

.............. "

Of course people, especially gay/ bi people are going to be judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I am a straight woman, and I have straight on my profile. But I also have several verifications from bisexual women and friends who are bisexual - just because we don't share a sexuality, doesn't mean we can't be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have males in my verifies...I havent played with THEM sexually at all lol

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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Judged?? How can they be being judged here of all places its a swinging website all mannor of things go on on here.... This is the place anyone least likely to b judged

And when a veri says I really enjoyed sucking his cock and fucking his ass I think I'm pretty it means they have had a meet I know the difference between social meets n sexual meets.

I just hate being lied to I want to meet straight guys not bi so wish they where honest with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judged?? How can they be being judged here of all places its a swinging website all mannor of things go on on here.... This is the place anyone least likely to b judged

And when a veri says I really enjoyed sucking his cock and fucking his ass I think I'm pretty it means they have had a meet I know the difference between social meets n sexual meets.

I just hate being lied to I want to meet straight guys not bi so wish they where honest with us "

totally understand...lovely pics on the profile...I'm straight btw...but can i suck ur hu...OOPS...lick ur pie!!!

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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"totally understand...lovely pics on the profile...I'm straight btw...but can i suck ur hu...OOPS...lick ur pie!!!"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tu-shay xxx

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By *gw1070Man
over a year ago

stourbridge

I'm a bi guy and very open about it. I do however have verifications from straight guys and I have also verified them. Knowing how difficult it is for single guys on here to get that first verification I have met quite a few socially ,generally for a few drinks at a local pub. I've always enjoyed the social as well as the sexual side of swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the amount of guys I've spoke to with very straight profiles, no veris from guys or anything, who admit to me they love sucking cock as I adore bi men is unreal! They keep their profile very straight as they want to keep that part of them very secret in general and also cos they know a lot of woman are put off by it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi men on this site are judged, not bi women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do soooo many guys have "straight" on their profile "straight"on their status and tell me their straight in messages but they have verifications from TVs or other guys or only guys n tvs as friends its so annoying!

If your bi be honest nobody is going to judge you it just makes u look like a dick when u lie!!

Sorry for the rant I'm sick of saying straight males only lol "

Sadly theres way too many i am upfront about stuff. Cant see point in all the bullshit.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Bi men on this site are judged, not bi women "

Judged to be pretty damn hot in some cases....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man like sucking cock, wanking, off its not just having sex and even if person dressed as a woman he is Bi .......... I am bi have no cock well strap on at times and have had oral with a woman that makes me Bi ...F/F No matter how thay dress this up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you see it in the chatrooms all the time "straight" guys telling other guys how much they'd love to suck their cocks etc,used to think they were just a bit confused but i think more likely the case is they think single fems/couples seeking straight guys won't entertain them if they state their openly bi or bi curious on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you see it in the chatrooms all the time "straight" guys telling other guys how much they'd love to suck their cocks etc,used to think they were just a bit confused but i think more likely the case is they think single fems/couples seeking straight guys won't entertain them if they state their openly bi or bi curious on their profiles"
yes your right in saying that ... And some think as cocks not inside only there mouth and wanking off each other that's just nothing but a bit of four play .... well us woman playing with each other doing things makes us bi and them too. Some just dont like the bi word maybe ,

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

Well I'm straight ,Angel is curious ,but if she said it turned her on if another guy sucked my cock ? I guess I'd do it for her, but with lots of trepidation ?..but it doesn't turn me on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm straight ,Angel is curious ,but if she said it turned her on if another guy sucked my cock ? I guess I'd do it for her, but with lots of trepidation ?..but it doesn't turn me on ? "
well dont do it even for her sorry but for me should work both ways .... some say well he sucked my cock i never his so not bi ............ but it can takes just two to tango .. no matter and the same with woman .. if a woman lay there other lick her out do things and she do nothing she is still bi doing it taking part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are still in Narnia....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Bi men on this site are judged, not bi women "

I agree, and ironically threads like this that occur on a weekly basis just make more of them hide the fact they are bi.

Also (puts old record on...) sexuality is a broad spectrum, not a row of neatly labelled boxes. So some men might be 'situationally bi' and touch or suck a cock occasionally when with a couple in a secually charged situation but never entertain the idea of it with a man alone.

There are very bi-sexual blokes who hide the fact due to the judgemental nature of swinging... and swinging is one of the most judgemental and bitchy environments I've ever been in to be honest

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do think it is unfair where someone asks for 'No Bi Guys' and people try and hoodwink by contacting them if they have played sexually in a giving or receiving capacity in the past. ( with someone of the same sex )

Over the years, I have seen so many profiles with this on and some of the verifications are from bi guys I know.

I personally don't think that is nice, this world should be about honesty & trust.

But hey, others will see it differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys are still in Narnia.... "

Think you mean de Nile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a big deal to take on a new sexual orientation label and many people will feel in the beginning stages or maybe never feel ready to.

Many people are only attracted to the same sex sexually and would not have a romantic relationship with same sex, for their life in general they are straight and changing there tick box is more of a serious thing to get bogged down in than they came to swinging to experience.

All that said we don't need lairs here, people need to be honest for choice and safety about things like sexual health screens, who they have had unprotected sex with etc...I mean this for everyone not just bi people of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys are still in Narnia.... "

exactly and there have the right to stay there if thats what they need to do. Taking on any of the LGBT tags can be way too much of a head fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys are still in Narnia....

exactly and there have the right to stay there if thats what they need to do. Taking on any of the LGBT tags can be way too much of a head fuck. "
yes head fuck and cant take it. like that head fuck ,... word of the Day ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by a friend that if you give anal and receive oral that doesn't make you gay/bi.

There the rules apparently, I didn't make them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told by a friend that if you give anal and receive oral that doesn't make you gay/bi.

There the rules apparently, I didn't make them up. "
SO if woman lick each other out dont make them bi ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I just hate being lied to I want to meet straight guys not bi so wish they where honest with us "

If they are showing their veris then at least you are being given the choice. There are many more men that will be hiding their veris (and sexuality) because bisexual men are STILL discriminated against.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people didn't attach such a stigma to male bisexuality, many wouldn't feel the need to hide it.

Sadly, it happens, nothing proactive is happening to change it, so people hide it. Or have more than one profile. Its hard enough for single guys to prove they are genuine and when they automatically make themselves a pariah by being honest, what do you expect?

Reap & sow, ladies and gentlemen. Reap & sow.

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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


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So some men might be 'situationally bi' and touch or suck a cock occasionally when with a couple in a secually charged situation but never entertain the idea of it with a man alone"

I'm sure people make up new sexual names each day that is bi havin sexual activities with someone of the same sex be it ff or mm is BI it dont matter if its occasional when d*unk or once a month or everyday if you do it ... You do it theirs not special names for it,

I do not want to meet bi guys I wish they would respect that instead of trying to dupe me in to meeting them its not fair and I highly irresponsible in my opinion. And even tho i dont want to meet bi guys I'm sure theirs heaps that do n some that prefer it so this all "judged" n "situation bi" is ridiculous tbh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair, I am a straight woman, and I have straight on my profile. But I also have several verifications from bisexual women and friends who are bisexual - just because we don't share a sexuality, doesn't mean we can't be friends "

very true but its the veris that say this guy sucks cock good on a persons profile who did the veri Im nosy and check lol always makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuz half the guys onhere will seemingly fuck anything that resembles a woman

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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I don't understand how theirs a stigma or they how they are discriminated against?? Bi guys like bi guys, gay guys like bi guys, straight women who like bi guys like them, TVs n Tgs like bi guys, it's hardly like its a incest fetish its perfectly Normal to be bi we live in 2013

I think ppl need to drop all these discriminated against words , you don't see skinny girls moaning when a profile says bbw only! And you don't see skinny girls messaging pretending to be bbw all we need is some honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do soooo many guys have "straight" on their profile "straight"on their status and tell me their straight in messages but they have verifications from TVs or other guys or only guys n tvs as friends its so annoying!

If your bi be honest nobody is going to judge you it just makes u look like a dick when u lie!!

Sorry for the rant I'm sick of saying straight males only lol "

I totally agree!

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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I don't understand how theirs a stigma or they how they are discriminated against?? Bi guys like bi guys, gay guys like bi guys, straight women who like bi guys like them, TVs n Tgs like bi guys, it's hardly like its a incest fetish its perfectly Normal to be bi we live in 2013

I think ppl need to drop all these discriminated against words , you don't see skinny girls moaning when a profile says bbw only! And you don't see skinny girls messaging pretending to be bbw all we need is some honesty

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why do soooo many guys have "straight" on their profile "straight"on their status and tell me their straight in messages but they have verifications from TVs or other guys or only guys n tvs as friends its so annoying!

If your bi be honest nobody is going to judge you it just makes u look like a dick when u lie!!

Sorry for the rant I'm sick of saying straight males only lol "

Could have been an experimental phase or, as in my case, just visiting a friend who is a TV. Life is never what it seems -which is why I try never to judge or pre-judge

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

I've never had so many straight guys contacting me or wanting to have sex with me, I just put it down to Tgirls being the new black at the moment.

Jenny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how the fuck can you call it discrimination?

its called choice..pmsl..ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i put this yesterday exact same thing lol

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By *ndyforfunMan
over a year ago

dudley/tipton

Given up being surprised by the number of "straight" guys who look at my profile, send winks or messages. Some of them seem to have far more experience with guys than I do.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Why is it such a big deal?

Sexuality????

Have fun, enjoy, play, touch, suck and fuck, be happy and trust no-one 100%.

Most important is - stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do soooo many guys have "straight" on their profile "straight"on their status and tell me their straight in messages but they have verifications from TVs or other guys or only guys n tvs as friends its so annoying!

If your bi be honest nobody is going to judge you it just makes u look like a dick when u lie!!

Sorry for the rant I'm sick of saying straight males only lol "

That made us smile as see it so often.

however like you we appreciate honesty and saying your streight when you are demonstratably not is not honest.

our favorite is the Im bi but say streight on my profile because i dont want my wife friends family to find out line lol

amazing how many lose interest when we say ok your a secret bi thats cool let cherry come over and suck his cock then we will meet as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm straight ,Angel is curious ,but if she said it turned her on if another guy sucked my cock ? I guess I'd do it for her, but with lots of trepidation ?..but it doesn't turn me on ? "

Lol that's what we do, mrs watches and I get a blow job, she gets a great buzz n I fire a load , all happy, yes I'm straight.

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Some guys are still in Narnia....

Think you mean de Nile lol "

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield


"Well I'm straight ,Angel is curious ,but if she said it turned her on if another guy sucked my cock ? I guess I'd do it for her, but with lots of trepidation ?..but it doesn't turn me on ?

Lol that's what we do, mrs watches and I get a blow job, she gets a great buzz n I fire a load , all happy, yes I'm straight. "

mmmm fire a load my way yer cock looks yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol although I agree with what your saying it makes me laugh on your profile that u say 'he is 100% straight so no bi males' are u both that conceited or deluded that you think if someone is bi they will automatically pounce on the male?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm straight ,Angel is curious ,but if she said it turned her on if another guy sucked my cock ? I guess I'd do it for her, but with lots of trepidation ?..but it doesn't turn me on ?

Lol that's what we do, mrs watches and I get a blow job, she gets a great buzz n I fire a load , all happy, yes I'm straight.

mmmm fire a load my way yer cock looks yummy"

It is lol

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By *bcpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Lol although I agree with what your saying it makes me laugh on your profile that u say 'he is 100% straight so no bi males' are u both that conceited or deluded that you think if someone is bi they will automatically pounce on the male?! "

No that was added to the profile due to so many bi guys messaging asking if they could play with mr aswel so u can politely drop the condescending tone

I'm not stupid and clearly added it for a reason,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a shame that they feel they can't open up and be themselves. I've had men judge me after I've played with them, instead of treating me like a slut during sex, they make comments afterwards saying things like" I couldn't be married to a girl that behaves like your missus". I think it's awful how swingers can judge other swingers for behaving the same way they do. Also I've had people get in touch with me purely to give me abuse, so yes there are a few that ruin things for other people. It is liberating once you decide to be yourself and ignore peoples nasty comments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think condescending is more about the reader than the messages, personally I would have put mr will not play with bi guys but maybe that's just me lol.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive got no veris from men of any discription. Ive not looked at guys profiles on purpose but I dont understand why anyone wants/needs to lie about anything. Quite a few cpls profiles Ive looked at says the guys straight but they want to meet a bi guy I was chatting to the female part of a couple and her partner was bi or bi curious I was a little concerned I said if we meet who will be in the middle. She said me coz Im greedy after lots n lots of messages she just stopped so I didnt pursue her/them.

I always say honesties the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how the fuck can you call it discrimination?

its called choice..pmsl..ffs"

Exactly

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Why do people get stressed by this? Each to their own

I'm straight, I've never had a gay experience and don't fancy blokes. I've got some male friends on here, most who I've just got chatting to and are decent blokes who have offered good advice and one who I think's got a nice arse!

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