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By *osh bloke OP   Man
over a year ago

hereford

So a rather contentious issue I feel.

What are peoples thoughts on engaging in sexual activity with someone who has a partner that doesn't know? I've always classed it as cheating and as such told myself it was bad and shouldn't happen. But, sometimes there's a reason or multiple reasons beyond wanting their cake and eating it, could be partner has a medical condition the prevents sexual relations, partner isn't interested in sex anymore but they love them still...there's a plethora of reasons I imagine.

Am I and I assume quite a few others being wrongly judgmental or are we sticking to traditional moral values?

What are everyone else's thoughts?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not for me op ,

I'm half a couple and I'd hate it done to me.

Yes people may have their reasons to be looking for sex behind a partners back,but we only hear one side of any story on here

Many people cheating do throw out the don't judge line,but we all have our own codes that we live by & others may be different to mine.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

Similar to MissMorgan we too won't meet those with partners.

Whatever is going on in their life, is their business, they can deal with it as they see fit. However, we would feel guilty if we were part of it. This lifestyle is just a bit of escapism for us. We remove ourselves from our day to day lives and forget the stresses. We don't want to create different stresses by thinking we might be harming another party.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Just because someone isn't interested in sex isn't a green light for their partner to cheat. What happened to communication and finding a way forward?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think people should do what they need to do to get through life. I don't want to be involved in it but it's not my business

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd rather be thought of as judgemental than actively choose to be a part of hurting someone else

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's a big no from me... I wouldn't want to be the reason for someone else's heartbreak.

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