FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swap

By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?

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By *ickylouCouple
over a year ago

b71

Plenty of people would. We have only had penetration on one of our meets on this profile and our previous one.

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Plenty of people would. We have only had penetration on one of our meets on this profile and our previous one. "

Would be put off? X

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No I think soft swap boundaries are fine ...

I've had the scenario twice and been really good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're soft swap too. The thing is it doesn't matter who's put off by what you want because you wouldn't want to meet each other anyway.

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"We're soft swap too. The thing is it doesn't matter who's put off by what you want because you wouldn't want to meet each other anyway. "

Good point!! X

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"No I think soft swap boundaries are fine ...

I've had the scenario twice and been really good "

Good to know, thanks x

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Each to thier own. Go your own way. If that's comfortable for you guys, that's it.

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No problem at all ...

Wonderful pics n vids by the way

I'm single but on the forums nice to chat to folk

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Each to thier own. Go your own way. If that's comfortable for you guys, that's it.

Thanks lovely

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"No problem at all ...

Wonderful pics n vids by the way

I'm single but on the forums nice to chat to folk "

Ooh thanks!!

I do enjoy a little forum time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more how you all get on we have done both soft and full it makes no difference we have great nights

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

Nope we’re a soft swap couple

We’ve had some great fun

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"It's more how you all get on we have done both soft and full it makes no difference we have great nights "

Connection is key for sure! Thank you xx

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Soft swap can be fun

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Each to thier own. Go your own way. If that's comfortable for you guys, that's it.

Things can always build b change over time ...

But boundaries are good then everyone knows where they are

Plus no expectations and no disappointments ...

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Soft swap can be fun"

I agree!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

Get to a club and hit the couples only room, it's pretty much soft swap if there is couples cross play and fuck your own partner. Nobody will try to full swap without full permission asked.

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"No problem at all ...

Wonderful pics n vids by the way

I'm single but on the forums nice to chat to folk

Ooh thanks!!

I do enjoy a little forum time!! "

Oh yes so do I haha

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?

Get to a club and hit the couples only room, it's pretty much soft swap if there is couples cross play and fuck your own partner. Nobody will try to full swap without full permission asked."

Thanks lovely x

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?

Get to a club and hit the couples only room, it's pretty much soft swap if there is couples cross play and fuck your own partner. Nobody will try to full swap without full permission asked."

Oh and this. You'd be surprised how soon soft swap can change

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

OP....

Sounds like it is all systems go for you both now

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap with couples for the win. Love it

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"OP....

Sounds like it is all systems go for you both now

Have fun x "

Thanks lovely!! Good to know that it doesn't close doors!! X

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By *onythebigbullMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Any swap would do for me

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We're turned on by soft swap, not turned off. More than one full swap couple has told us their best experiences have been soft swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its what we are looking for so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t be put off as soft play can be as good full play if not better in the right mood with the right play

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Nope we’re a soft swap couple

We’ve had some great fun

This is good news!!

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"I wouldn’t be put off as soft play can be as good full play if not better in the right mood with the right play "

Completely agree!

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"its what we are looking for so no"

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By *endricks321 OP Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"We're turned on by soft swap, not turned off. More than one full swap couple has told us their best experiences have been soft swap."

Amazing. Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as your comfortable with soft swap then it can't be wrng.

We only do soft swop and it suits us. It doesn't always suit everyone however so long as there is mutual respect with prospective swappers then it can never be wrong

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Wouldn't put us off at all, as long as everyone is having fun thats all that matters

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By *izzyrascalsCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

Not at all! Any sign of disrespect of your wish to stick at soft swap from another couple would be a red flag for us xx

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By *inkyAddamsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Most people want to go full, but soft can be just as exciting especially if you’re fucking your own partners in front of each other x

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By *he massage manMan
over a year ago

filey

I only do sensual massage and soft swing and I have not yet had any o e complain its not sensual and satisfying, providing you have accepted the boundaries before hand but I always allow the couple to finish off in the way they want with each other and it works well for couples who want to spice up there sex life and not just replace their partners for someone else.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We're soft swap only and really enjoy this dynamic, so no we wouldn't be put off at all with soft only meets x

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By *he massage manMan
over a year ago

filey

"We're soft swap only and really enjoy this dynamic, so no we wouldn't be put off at all with soft only meets x"

Sweet spice I find it vrings a completely different dynamic to the meet and takes any pressure away so you can all be relaxed ??

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By *ilthydan69Man
over a year ago

abingdon

Soft swing huge fan here which is a little unusual for a single man’s profile

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Not in the slightest. We are generally soft swap (bar a couple of occasions when things have naturally progressed futher). We have had plenty of amazing times with people soft swap. For us the fun and excitement comes purly from sharing a hot experience with the people we vibe with and isn't dictated by a particular check list of acts. And from experience not doing full swap has never seemed to be a barrier us or others. You'll be fine

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

wouldn't put us off, nope.

If it's your preference we would totally respect that if we were going to meet.

Pushing people passed their comfort zones isn't cool unless they ask for that specifically.

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We would do soft swap with another couple for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off at all. I like soft play just as much as I do full swap

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Would not put us off at all ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not put of lot of fun to be had in a soft swing x

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

No, I meet couples who do this. We have great fun as the focus is on really sensuous foreplay rather than fucking. You can take the time to enjoy each others bodies.

Do what makes you comfortable and happy.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

Some will be but that’s their preference. Others won’t mind and will play to the ‘minimum limit’ for want if a better phrase!

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

No we would also happily do soft swap x

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

Certainly not put off by this... Some of our most fun meets have been soft swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were looking for soft swap too to start us on our swapping adventure before deciding if we want to proceed to full swaps etc.

while there are other couples looking for soft swap too it does reduce your options as a lot do want full swap. then theres other factors to consider. taking myself and my lady for example the things that reduce the pool for us are:

soft swap

no ff play

we both smoke

when you factor in just those 3 things before you try finding a 4 way attraction with meeting another couple then it all adds to reducing the pool for prospective soft swapping fun.

weve been on here over 3 months and still looking for our first soft swap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swapping is our thing!

Yes many go cold once mentioned that that’s how we play

Each to their own plenty only soft swap so not a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're the same so definitely not put off by it. Also quite new to the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap for me due to erection problems.

Still had some great times.

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

When it comes to couple meets were soft swap with guy on girl and no boundaries with girl on girl.. we have had some incredibly hot and sexually charged soft swap sessions, i think people can be quick to judge it but it can be extremely sexy. We havent ruled out full swap with a couple but we just havent found the couple we're both completely comfortable with... yet.

Always looking for great couples to connect with though xx just keep looking there are some great couples out there who love exactly this and who knows what it might lead to!!

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

We too only do soft. Plenty of offers from single guys, not many from couples

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"

It's your preference so nothing to do with anyone else. We don't do soft swap ourselves but again that is our preference. There is no right or wrong answer here as it's what you chose as part of your boundries. Enjoy fab both. Joanne x

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Soft swaps can be lots of fun don’t worry about upsetting anyone xx

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"were looking for soft swap too to start us on our swapping adventure before deciding if we want to proceed to full swaps etc.

soft swap

no ff play

we both smoke

when you factor in just those 3 things before you try finding a 4 way attraction with meeting another couple then it all adds to reducing the pool for prospective soft swapping fun.

weve been on here over 3 months and still looking for our first soft swap!!"

If you're a fully bisexual cpl believe me that reduces it even more. But we have had some outstanding meets so far to be fair. Peeps are put off due to john being bi but me being bi does not put them off. You will find loads of double standards in this lifestyle so just take what you can and hopefully make some increadable friend off here like we have up to now. Good luck on your adventure on fab both. Xx joanne.

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