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"Is it easy to get fake verifications then? X " I think so, how hard can it be?? | |||
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"Fake pics, either on their profile or sent attached to a message. Its easy to search any image on google or other sites. Some even deny it and go on cam hoping you won't notice! Checking people out on cam is the highest level of pre-meet verification they are real. I've reported 3 profiles this week alone with fake pics. Shame, they were all very attractive photo's!!" They always are, I havnt noticed to many ugly fakes | |||
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"Is it easy to get fake verifications then? X " A guy I saw on cam today who had fake pics said that he had met people and none of his veri's so far had cared the pic wasn't him! In my mind these people are almost as bad. Fab is built on trust and the veri system is a big part of that. So they were real veri's...based on a fundamental lie. | |||
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"The best one was when Harry Connick jnr joined the site " Haha, I knew he was a crooner, not a swinger though | |||
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"Hmm, define fake, is this the normal posing as something you are not fake or the fab definition of not desperate enough to want to meet every single guy who can squeeze out a how you doin grl?" The first part, the second part is a cock teaser ( joking btw) | |||
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"The best one was when Harry Connick jnr joined the site " I will always remember the day that Peter Griffin joined the site lol how he got that pic even approved is beyond me lol | |||
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"I'm always suspicious of those that show union jack style underwear. " puts my special *meet* undies back in the drawer and hides his 'playing out' towel too Wolf | |||
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"I got accused of being fake because of my b&w pics.. So took some on my phone too " I like your new pics. I think I fabbed one. | |||
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"I'm always suspicious of those that show union jack style underwear. puts my special *meet* undies back in the drawer and hides his 'playing out' towel too Wolf" As long as it's a proper manly towel and not a girly blankey. | |||
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"Never really experienced fakes. I tend to take my time and get to know people. By the time we actually meet it's like we already know each other. Fakes are pretty easy to spot. " We do the same thing. | |||
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"As long as it's a proper manly towel and not a girly blankey. " But of course! I like the way it comes undone by accident when my tail pops out Wolf | |||
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"There is no perfect system for verifying someone is genuine and people will try to cheat the system if they can. All you can do is be safe and sensible, get them on cam, on the phone, dont meet at the drop of a hat, organise a social meet first, or just get along to a club which is the easiest way of finding real people in this community without any bullshit I actually think the level of "fakes" has gotten better, or maybe we have got better at spotting them and dealing with them. " But how on earth do you spot them ? | |||
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"Never really experienced fakes. I tend to take my time and get to know people. By the time we actually meet it's like we already know each other. Fakes are pretty easy to spot. " | |||
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"There is no perfect system for verifying someone is genuine and people will try to cheat the system if they can. All you can do is be safe and sensible, get them on cam, on the phone, dont meet at the drop of a hat, organise a social meet first, or just get along to a club which is the easiest way of finding real people in this community without any bullshit I actually think the level of "fakes" has gotten better, or maybe we have got better at spotting them and dealing with them. False beards and sunglasses............ But how on earth do you spot them ? " | |||
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"As long as it's a proper manly towel and not a girly blankey. But of course! I like the way it comes undone by accident when my tail pops out Wolf" Sometimes all my clothes fall off accidentally and people point and shriek "fake!" | |||
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" But how on earth do you spot them ? " First thing if the pics look "professional" we will tineye them, this a program that looks up the picture if it appears on loads of sites, porn sites etc then 99% of the time its a fake. Second thing is ability to talk, you will find a lot of fakes will be after some quick online "endpoint" picture begging, cam begging, video begging these quickly mark someone out as not being all that real. If you get any of the "hmm this isnt right" warning signs, you simply ask them to go on cam if they wont/cant/dog died/cam died/need to get a new one then thats a big red flag. If you really truly believe the above you ask them to take a picture with a personalised written message to you, if they cant come through on that then 100% fake. Honestly for women and couples your better off getting into one of the chat rooms and looking at those that go on cam or getting to a club. | |||
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"Checking to see if they are a mid 90's porn star from Hollywood s a few fakes out. Of course, it is always possible that Wendy Whoppers had got fed up of California and moved to Preston and hadn't aged a day in 20 years, but it seems a bit implausible....." | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though" I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions " What if its just to perve pics ? | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions What if its just to perve pics ? " Then perve away , it's not my opinion | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions What if its just to perve pics ? Then perve away , it's not my opinion " I didn't mean moi | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions What if its just to perve pics ? Then perve away , it's not my opinion I didn't mean moi " Aww shucks | |||
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"Should have added that google reverse images is a fantastic thing to use when you think something looks far too good to be true " Tineye is a little bit better and you can get a plugin for chrome so you can right click any picture and do a lookup | |||
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"We all know there are fake profiles, and this is not a moan or whinge as I think some of them are hilarious , however I think it's getting more difficult to spot them due to fake verifications etc. What warning signs do you look for? Some obvious, others less so, for the record one if mine is people constantly in the chat rooms but not saying anything " Just recently had one. The pictures gave it away - very very professionally posed and didn't all quite match - as if they had tried to get a series of photos of people and put them together. Had a verification tick but did not display veris. Also a 4 word frofile and had been on for a while. I mentioned the pics being rather too good to be true but the person just changed the subject and avoided all talk of the pics. Definite fake but hard to prove. | |||
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"Should have added that google reverse images is a fantastic thing to use when you think something looks far too good to be true " I've heard that mentioned before by a few people | |||
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"Should have added that google reverse images is a fantastic thing to use when you think something looks far too good to be true Tineye is a little bit better and you can get a plugin for chrome so you can right click any picture and do a lookup" Why don't admin use it when approving pics?? | |||
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" Why don't admin use it when approving pics?? " I honestly don't know the in's and outs of the approval process so I can't really say but it would be common sense to tineye most pictures. | |||
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"Haha i no for a fact there is a fake profile on here that has about 100 verifications and the reason is the pictures are of a really fit bird so guys dont mind lettin her do a fake veri cos it makes them look good but i think at the route of it the person must be pretty sad and boring to continue to this level of realism " So have you reported it? | |||
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" Why don't admin use it when approving pics?? I honestly don't know the in's and outs of the approval process so I can't really say but it would be common sense to tineye most pictures. " There are also certain cock pics and the white calvin klein pants with a hard cock up and to the right that appear on soooo many profiles! Surely admin spot that too? Easy to do by eye let alone simple search program. | |||
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"Haha i no for a fact there is a fake profile on here that has about 100 verifications and the reason is the pictures are of a really fit bird so guys dont mind lettin her do a fake veri cos it makes them look good but i think at the route of it the person must be pretty sad and boring to continue to this level of realism " Is that really dodgy account that appears in the "top fabbed" pics all the time ? | |||
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" Why don't admin use it when approving pics?? I honestly don't know the in's and outs of the approval process so I can't really say but it would be common sense to tineye most pictures. There are also certain cock pics and the white calvin klein pants with a hard cock up and to the right that appear on soooo many profiles! Surely admin spot that too? Easy to do by eye let alone simple search program." Having said that!....it actually does make life easier in the selection process for me at least! Guys who will put a fake pic are simply liars and effectively deselect themselves. | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions " It's only 'wasting' their time ... so what's the harm? | |||
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"didnt think u could get a fake veri cos same computer most fakers are" I'm sure many have a mobile phone as well as a computer... Or access to a friends, family members, internet cafe or work computer... Plus as we've heard some people will readily give out veri's when requested. | |||
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"People throw the word fake and timewaster around really freely on here Don't reply to a message.....fake Say no.....fake ive been here 4 years and never ever ben duped by anyone that I did'nt have suspicions about in the first place,its not difficult to use your instinct when getting to know someone,any sort of alarm bells that ring then I stop contact you can chat on the phone,go on cam,so many things you can do to make it easier on yourself If you really believe a profile to be fake then report it and let admin have a look at it If you believe that verifications/pics are fake then do the same just remember just bevause you think someone may be fake it does'nt actually mean that they are though I think my fav interpretation of a timewaster is someone who looks at profiles lots of times but don't send a message. Still we are all entitled to our own opinions It's only 'wasting' their time ... so what's the harm?" None at all , I didn't say it was my interpretation | |||
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"Fake verifications arepretty easy apparently Get 1 profile verified then set up another the first verifies number 2 and so on til you end up with a profile with multiple verifications none of them are real and yet look and sound like some sort of sex god xx" Beats me why anyone would bother! But I agree with many above that they're usually very easy to spot. The pic search ( google/tineye ) facilities are free, there's the option of camming / talking via phone - but I've still always felt gut instinct is the best tool for spotting fraudsters. If in doubt - move on! | |||
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"Well said" If loads of people copy your picture though won't you be shown as a "fake" too? Or have I got the wrong idea ? We had a picture rejected because it " it was from another site " but the original is definitely ours ! | |||
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"Fake pics, either on their profile or sent attached to a message. Its easy to search any image on google or other sites. Some even deny it and go on cam hoping you won't notice! Checking people out on cam is the highest level of pre-meet verification they are real. I've reported 3 profiles this week alone with fake pics. Shame, they were all very attractive photo's!!" Anyone googling mine will just end up with boring stories about me and floods! | |||
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"mine is people constantly in the chat rooms but not saying anything " That freaks me out a bit lol. I don't know how I first noticed it but a woman comes into chat who never speaks. No matter how busy or quiet the room is. She also never repsonds if people try to chat to her. Up to her if she joins in or not I know but I just sort of get a bit freaked by her never saying anything. I do know she is definitely a she as she has a few verifications. | |||
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