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Have you become desensitised to fab content?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ll admit, before fab I was vanilla city. Came to fab and was constantly blushing at photos, statues and update feeds.

Now I’m like “oh, fisting, dvp, anal, dogging” meh part and parcel of daily viewing.

This becomes apparent when chatting to friends. I casually talk about sex in my new eyes and they tell me I’m too much.

So, being in here, have we become blind to what is normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah for sure this has happened to me. I open my phone (this site and others) and it's just all sex, pussy, dick and all the full on stuff and I don't bat an eye anymore.

Makes it hard if I ever want to watch some porn, because the "normal" stuff is just part of my daily scrolling these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a party playing a silly card game and sexual kinks topics came up .... at the point I was examining golden shower and bukkake to a very innocent friend I realised perhaps I am on a different level to some. Definitely not easily shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was like that when I first joined another fetish website. Here it was the message content that got me, but even now. Nothing shocks anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here...completely desensitized to it all.

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By *ussyslave4youMan
over a year ago

corby

I think all of us on here are without inhibtions, which is good and what enjoyment can be away from vanilla

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not at all, I've been in the kink community since I was 18/19 so for me, fab is vanilla... or pineapple might be more appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably have been

My friends reactions to things often confirm it.

I do still have some moments though

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By *am_LincolnMan
over a year ago

Prestatyn

Yeah it's all fairly meh. You've seen one thing you've seen it all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I have. I think I've seen more genitals than a urologist since we joined here

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Interestingly to me I found fab has resensitised me to what a normal body looks like for both men and women.

Any wall of thumbnails on a porn streaming is way beyond anything I've seen on fab.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have gotten so used to openly talking about sex here i have to really watch what I say when I go on normal dating sites!

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

i take breaks.

i now limit my posting on the forum as i felt i was wasting to much time.

started spending time doing simple things like gardening and helping elderly with stuff they find hard to do.

sort of redemption for my past sins.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

For me, I find it pretty much a turn off with outright chat about sex to strangers and display of too many dick pics. I prefer sophisticated distreet approach to sex. Lure me in with normal chat with abit of flirtation.i get one end of the spectrum where all they want to talk about non sex stuff or full blown explicit chat right from the beginning

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"For me, I find it pretty much a turn off with outright chat about sex to strangers and display of too many dick pics. I prefer sophisticated distreet approach to sex. Lure me in with normal chat with abit of flirtation.i get one end of the spectrum where all they want to talk about non sex stuff or full blown explicit chat right from the beginning "

you have a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short yes. I remember a few years ago saying to a good friend of mine, (who was living the swinging life through me and the medium of my tales of debauchery and filth) "Can you imagine getting to a point where group sex doesn't excite you anymore? Well that's where I am"

He couldn't believe what I'd just said.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley

I find it all very boring tbh

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By *annydevonMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I was definitely naive before I started this adventure. Went to a club on my own, having been monogamous all my life. My eyes were opened to just how vanilla I was.

Now, I have to watch what I say in day to day life. Some friends want stories. Others are shocked and disgusted at things I consider de rigeur

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

I think that’s the lifestyle in general, however we do still get a shit of nerves when we do something new or a bit kinky, so maybe it just moves tge threshold.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Absolutely agree. Takes a lot to get us both horney now on this site

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Similar to other posters above, I was a kinkster for years before I ventured onto Fab, so I've always found it pretty tame. Nothing wrong with that, though.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

The photo’s and videos on Fab are posted by people who to me look ‘normal’ (like people we would or could meet and get on with).

Since joining Fab I (Austin) have noticed is my body confidence has improved. I have always worked out and tried to stay fit but… we all have doubts. I am a little bit careful as to what I say

Cammy now works out daily. She enjoys it and her body confidence has also grown.

Cammy’s family all know we are into swinging and she has a few long term female work friends who are intrigued and ask lots of questions.

I would say for us it still depends on who we are with and what the comfort level is

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