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Room Play: Door open or closed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you play in a club, do you close the door or have it open? ....and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closed. We prefer privacy and no disturbance as people can spoil the fun sometimes.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d have it open, I’m an exhibitionist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually open.. i like being watched, and having others join in.

unless it's spoken about beforehand, in which case if my partner/s prefer a private room, im more than happy to play to that. Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Closed. We prefer privacy and no disturbance as people can spoil the fun sometimes. "

No knocking on the door either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d have it open, I’m an exhibitionist. "

Are you talking about the door?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"usually open.. i like being watched, and having others join in.

unless it's spoken about beforehand, in which case if my partner/s prefer a private room, im more than happy to play to that. Px "

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

We prefer the big open rooms with lots of other people in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Door closed and locked we don’t like people watching or disturbing us

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"I’d have it open, I’m an exhibitionist. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have it open as it's gets far too hot when it's shut

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

If we want others to watch to watch & join in we play in the open play rooms.If we want to get private we get a room with door that locks.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Always open door. We love an audience.

On occasion things have become so heated that people have been invited to join in.

It’s not for everyone but we definitely get a buzz from guys standing watching and wanking as we fuck. Often I’ve seen my wife shift her body to give the voyeurs a better view of some particularly lurid moment.

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

Where possible, top half open (stable door type) so we can be watched without random people joining in - but we can invite others in too.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Closed x

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

If I am playing in a private room, I will have the door closed. Or I'd choose a room with stable door if I don't mind being watched but don't want anyone coming in. Too many people see open door as an invitation to come in and help themselves without even asking.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Closed and locked so no unwanted visitors appear. However we'll often play in a room with windows so people can watch.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Depends on the mood, but certainly don’t mind people watching.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Depends for us, we tend to go on a public bed if we want to be watched!

Also please ask to play even if the door is open. It should never be treated as an open invitation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the mood takes us

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It purely depends on our feeling at the time and/or the preference of others with us (if applicable). Sometimes we want to be watched and maybe extend the invite to anyone who takes our fancy. We like to be watched and its hot. But sometimes we want something that is just for us to share or share with the people we're with only.

We are more likely to have sex in public than get our kink on in public. We generally like to get our Kink on in private. It's mainly something very personal to us and we don't want to share it with the wrong people or people who we are not at ease with. Unfortunately most clubs dungeon areas are very public spaces so we rarely use the facilities for fear of inappropriate interruption. However when we are in the mood and getting really good vibes from the people present Mr Misfit does love a bit of an audience and some crowd participation. He get a sadistic frill from everyone watching a helpless Mrs Misfit and giving the crowd a say in the direction and measure of Mrs Misfits undoing. Its a lot of fun but rare because rarely do we find the space and people we're comfortable with.

It's also fair to say the people around in the club may have some impact on if the door is open or not. I we think people will be respectful that's great but sometimes there's certain people around who you know will be annoying or you just find a creepy.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"If I am playing in a private room, I will have the door closed. Or I'd choose a room with stable door if I don't mind being watched but don't want anyone coming in. Too many people see open door as an invitation to come in and help themselves without even asking. "

I never understand why they don't make every room door a stable door? It just gives each a room so much options for use.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Closed but after we've had our own play we always end up in the open room where anyone can watch or play next to you

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If we want others to watch to watch & join in we play in the open play rooms.If we want to get private we get a room with door that locks."

This is how we like it as well. Happy to be in a room with a two way mirror, no issue about being exhibitionist

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"When you play in a club, do you close the door or have it open? ....and why?"
mostly open for me. Unless its a rare 121 or with certain people x

I prefer to be an exhibitionist x

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

Always open!

How can anyone see with it closed?!

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

We had a foursome with another couple at Libs on Friday and chose to have the door closed, but we have played with the door open in the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some lovely replies here guys and dolls.

I hear you with the "open door not being an open invitation". Respect always!

Seems like many like the privacy but more like to watch and be seen.

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
over a year ago

Waterloo, Liverpool

I prefer open play but understand if partner/s want more privacy.

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