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Couples without the husband

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Husband's (or male partners), do you prefer to be in the room or is it hornier for you to NOT be present when your lady half is playing with someone else?

I've been in both situations but it seemed to be a much hotter experience for all concerned with the male partner being elsewhere completely. (Though we all did chat over the phone just before she got down to business with me)

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Much better if hubby's not around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a women’s perspective just mine personally. I much prefer when my hubby is involved. Much more of a turn on

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

For me, was always much better with the husband/partner in the room. Be it stag or cuck meets. You always had the extra cock to make sure she was fully satisfied and had the time of her life with a man who knew her inside and out, or to be able to humiliate him if they wished.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

north

When I was with my ex I mostly preferred being there but I also enjoyed hearing about her being naughty afterwards too

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We can go to clubs alone. But 95% we go to clubs together because things are best when we are together. Neither of us are particularly turned on about not seeing what each other is doing. Although it is hot hear what each others been upto if its something we both couldn't be there for. It's also hot sometimes to watch each other with someone else. But most of the time neither of us are the sort who want to not be actively involved. If somethings going down we both want to be actively participating and sharing it together. That's the hottest thing for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've tried and enjoyed both, and we both preferred being there.

Especially being involved also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done both, and prefer the excitement of her being alone with her playmates.

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

If he isn’t in the room it takes performance pressure of the other man, however it feels safer for her is hubby is around , specially with new contacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a fair bit of experience with Couples and I will only meet the lady 1:1 these days. Partner can FaceTime have as much video as he wants, but the only way the lady can fully relax and be herself is if she is solo . In my opinion of course. Many will differ

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By *eastZMan
over a year ago

London

It depends on the couple's relationship and dynamic. There is no one size fits all.

Meeting the lady solo has its pros and cons and same things for meeting the couple together.

I would assess every engagement on case-by-case basis, and make an informed decision

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I don't personally mind.

It's great to be invited along to get involved or even just to watch but I'm happy to hear about how good it was later on.

Something naughty about solo play.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Watching with interest

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By *ros and PsycheCouple
over a year ago

London

I would definitely prefer to be there for at least some of the fun. Walking in to see my wife thoroughly enjoying herself is a massive turn on, and it’s lovely to join in after watching for a bit….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely have to be there to see her pleasure

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Surely you would be better meeting single women if the husband is a problem for you?

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you would be better meeting single women if the husband is a problem for you?

T"

That’s what I was thinking too?

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By *ipplesdelightCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

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By *ipplesdelightCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I like my wife to have some fun without me, it turns me on when she has played by herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife enjoyed the security of knowing I was in the house.

For example, welcoming her Man Friend with Benefits, into our home and being the host to our guest.

However once he informed me he was taking my wife to bed. She preferred me to stay out of the bedroom. She felt less inhibited that way.

He would text me when they had finished so I could bring them refreshments into the bedroom, as they relaxed in the afterglow.

Everyone will have their own preferences.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Always watched her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There till she comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going to try this next weekend for the first time but I will just be in the next room.

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By *eckingHornedMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *eckingHornedMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it happens, I wanna be there

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By *e13guyMan
over a year ago

Lewisham

Much better if hubby is around. I get to cum with him too hopefully

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we start off as 3 sum but then i let them have some one one one time before rejoining back in

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

It depends on who is joining if its a lady there is a good chance that hubby will be happy to let us go upstairs without him but a male no way

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
over a year ago

near you

We always play together.

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
over a year ago

near you

It's a couples fun so we both should be involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer the hubby to be about and get stuck in too, all the better if he also enjoys playing with guys too

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"It depends on the couple's relationship and dynamic. There is no one size fits all.

Meeting the lady solo has its pros and cons and same things for meeting the couple together.

I would assess every engagement on case-by-case basis, and make an informed decision "

This is pretty much how we approach it, either way works for us so we just judge each situation as we go

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

He has to there! Much more intense

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Mrs prefers me there she feels safer

Also i love the voyeur elementof it

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By *lutwife7784Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We like both really. Usually hubby there first. But we both get a kick out of him leaving the room.

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By *inkyAddamsCouple
over a year ago

dereham

We prefer all involved, had a crap experience when hubby was away

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

No interest in playing without hubby being major part of fun xx

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