FabSwingers.com forum: too picky?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do you find that your too picky, or maybe that your kink is narrow a field that no one is interested, your age range been too closed.

do you change what your looking for, tone down your kinks, make exceptions to your age ranges,

do you accept that you wont meet people and just have socials and a good natter.

interested to know what exceptions you may of made or refused to make to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people on here are more interested in the attention as opposed to actually wanting to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never be too picky, especially on fab!

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m very picky , I’m here for what I want and I would never change that . If I miss out on something good then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why single men can't get meets on fab people's expectations are you have to be a supermodel and a 20" nob or you can fuck off. That's the impression I get

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

We are picky with single guys, more hubby finding what he likes

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Surly every body has standards they stick by

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

"This is why single men can't get meets on fab people's expectations are you have to be a supermodel and a 20" nob or you can fuck off. That's the impression I get"

Not true at all, I like chunky guys, beer guzzling manly men, men that aren't into spending hours at the gym, and huge willies aren't my thing either (they hurt

). If they seem lovely and I lile their face then i'm up for a meet. Everyone has a type and they are all completely different.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep picky here & I've got pickier as I've got older.

I rarely find someone who ticks all my boxes so I rarely meet.

I'd rather not bother than meet for the sake of it.

I have age filters on ,so I don't tend to go for men out of that range.

It's the same on my couple profile,my poor other half will often fancy the lady of a couple & I won't find the man attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why single men can't get meets on fab people's expectations are you have to be a supermodel and a 20" nob or you can fuck off. That's the impression I get"

That’s definitely not true. Not everyone is looking for that type of person. For me it’s more about how someone comes across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep picky here & I've got pickier as I've got older.

I rarely find someone who ticks all my boxes so I rarely meet.

I'd rather not bother than meet for the sake of it.

I have age filters on ,so I don't tend to go for men out of that range.

It's the same on my couple profile,my poor other half will often fancy the lady of a couple & I won't find the man attractive."

I am agree with this. I tend to find good looking couples, but he doesn’t like the male. Or other way around.

Alice

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

"This is why single men can't get meets on fab people's expectations are you have to be a supermodel and a 20" nob or you can fuck off. That's the impression I get

That’s definitely not true. Not everyone is looking for that type of person. For me it’s more about how someone comes across "

Agree! A great personality can do wonders

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"This is why single men can't get meets on fab people's expectations are you have to be a supermodel and a 20" nob or you can fuck off. That's the impression I get"

Not at all ,a good personality & profile goes a long way on here.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Great to have standards / requirements/ desires etc. as ultimately makes it easier to narrow down and get what you want and what you enjoy.

Good to chat to similarly minded people and even better to go a step further with like minded.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

from our couples profile, we know we are been very very picky. But this is her first time dipping her toe and she wants it to be at a pace and with a person(s) she likes. We will not lower that standard or change our kinks just to get a meet, we like what we like, if we don't find that we would rather go without than lower or change our expectations and we would hope the other person would have the same outlook.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

While it is good to have standards and not compromise sexually I think some do miss out on fun because looking for the ideal......to quote Voltaire "don't let the perfect be enemy of the good"

Sometimes "the good" is bloody brilliant.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

I posted a pic last night (granted its the first new pic i've posted in a while) and theres since been 43 people message us, 41 of them were single men, so due to the ratio of men to women forever being in my favour we can afford to be abit picky

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