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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you meet just for sex with no social or drinks at the pub after you have chatted and swapped some photos on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not something we would do. For us, there needs to be a connection and you can not see if that's there from a social, even if its only 30 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would and have , pretty much same as meeting someone in a club and going back for a bit of hows your father

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a build up imo. Too mechanical otherwise .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need a build up imo. Too mechanical otherwise . "

I understand and believe some people looking for this only.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We have played with people at the club without a word being spoken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once met someone to play without having a social first. Needless to say it was not a great experience and turned out she was nothing like she acted in messages personality wise. Cut the meet short and said goodbye.

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By *lotjockeyMan
over a year ago

Wellington

just occasionally there is an initial spark when chatting, a commonality that just leads straight to it, so yes!

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Yeah, has happened.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

All depends on the people, the situation and the mood. As others have said, it’s no different to fucking someone you’ve only just met in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it once on here and once on Tinder. Both times were actually brilliant, lots of fun and led to a few more times. Still in touch with them both and absolutely would see them again.

I think that was luck though and I'm not sure I'd do it again.

Both times it's was a situational thing that probably made them work out well.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We have played with people at the club without a word being spoken."

We did once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes it is what is asked for now and then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have played with people at the club without a word being spoken.

We did once "

There was a couple with their rules looking meet and rule was not to speak. It was weird, I didn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially on here you normally have to chat for ages just to get to meet so if both willing have sex why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a feel for the girl or couple is all part of the fun, a cheeky build up before the playfulness,.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I have met people for quick fucks before yes on same day , no real chat chat

Quite rare though to find that outside of a club / sex site venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you meet just for sex with no social or drinks at the pub after you have chatted and swapped some photos on fab?"

we have before now, was just down a layby having sex, this guy came up, got his cock out, he looked ok so passed him a condom before he fucked my lady, not a word was said, after he left fucked her again myself, was kinda hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best sex I’ve ever had was with the women I randomly ended up fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we have.

Though not until we've chatted over the phone to find we're like minded and to set boundaries.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes, because I enjoy fucking guys who are strangers.

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes , that’s the only way I like to meet . I fine socials actually boring and awkward

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By *tmostakiss1Man
over a year ago

DC

I have yes

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not really. If we are out in vanilla Clubs or in Swing Clubs and we see someone we fancy then possibly yes, but we have to have some visual or aural attraction first.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Would you meet just for sex with no social or drinks at the pub after you have chatted and swapped some photos on fab?"
i did it few times in past...was shit

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By *K herts mMan
over a year ago

Fleetwood

I've done that before

. connection is nice but sometimes the less you know is fun.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Most of our meets have been meet quick chat and start to play. Longest to get down to action was probably 30 mins after meeting them. Quickest was Sean meeting a lady on his own at her place. Walked in the door started kissing her and within a few minutes we are in bed

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, and I have done. It was fun, but not something I'd do regularly.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No I wouldn't.

A social gives me chance to see if there's real attraction and meet in a neutral place with no pressure if either of us aren't feeling it.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

No.

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By *azylivingMan
over a year ago

random location


"Would you meet just for sex with no social or drinks at the pub after you have chatted and swapped some photos on fab?"

Many times

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By *smithukMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes, sometimes all you want is a zipless fuck.

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

The social side and flirting can be very exciting,thee build up helps make the meeting more memorable

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"No I wouldn't.

A social gives me chance to see if there's real attraction and meet in a neutral place with no pressure if either of us aren't feeling it."

This

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We had a meet with a couple at fairly short notice that involved only about 5-10 mins of chat before moving on.

It felt a bit awkward to us, no spark or build up. All felt a bit transactional.

I wouldn't totally rule it out if we were really turned on at a hotel after a club meet, or at home and wanted some last min fun. But in general, all our best/most enjoyable meets have been with people we can chat and get along with before the clothes come off, so it's what we are mainly looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once meet a couple years ago that wanted me to wait outside there apartment for them to start playing before walking in to join them , I didn’t like that was no social side to it so made my excuses and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I find it sleazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more you know someone usually leads to better sex

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the conversation had on here, we have done in the past but do prefer to have a social.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only done this a few times with impromptu meets after nights out when it's already late and we are feeling the right buzz

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yep have done many times ... as long as i fancy them and we've had a decent chat via fab then its no different than playing in a club ... and you get no let downs or messing around ...some of my best meets have been this way and made some real good friends with benefits too

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"The more you know someone usually leads to better sex "

or boring sex ... some of the best sex ive ever had have been spur of the moment stuff ... if sex gets better the more you know then why do so many swinger never go back for seconds even tho they had a great time ?? ... it a rubbish quote really unless your in a relationship ... you find out fast on this scene that second meets often fall flat (apart from the few you make regular)

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

It's a case of no social no meet with me as I want it to be an enjoyable experience and if I'm not relaxed with who I'm with I won't able to enjoy it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No.

First meet is always a social. If play were to happen it would be on any meet afterwards x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do socials , I am only interested in meeting up for sex.

I couldn't care less where he works or being on holiday.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I’ve had a few impromptu ‘meet us now’ where I’ve been seen online and nearby on Fab and thankfully they’ve all been fine; one I consider to be the best meet I’ve ever had and one was a ‘the front door is unlocked, come in, come upstairs to our bedroom, get naked and join in’, they were an awesome couple and admitted the complete stranger thing was what they had always fantasised about but had never done, I just happened to be the guy with the right profile. I don’t think I’d do it again though, it was terrifying, exciting, exhilarating and a bit kinky in equal measure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do socials , I am only interested in meeting up for sex.

I couldn't care less where he works or being on holiday. "

this.

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Probably not. Had people try and jump me in the past, don't wanna get murdered just yet

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