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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how come weve seen single me who have obvo shagged tvs/ts but say there straight. you would call a virgin whos only shagged animals weird but hes still a virgin. i dont know anyone who shags animals by the way lol ....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL I wonder...

Some must have done it to satisfy curiosity and decided they prefer women and then others just don't want the label or the lifestyle that goes with the stereotype?!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i just wondered AND thought id get better ansers an here then google lol dont get me wrong people can do wat they like. thats why were all here as we dont like the norm whoever made them normal rules up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

"

Perfect answer but it doesn't explain calling yourself straight if you actively seek and have sex with the same gender. I don't label either. I think being called straight implies being stuck up hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes but say a cpl want a straight man but endup with something it doesnt say on the tin so to speak

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

If a couple want a straight man, then the guy would be straight while with them. Im sure he isnt going to pounce on the husband in the hope of getting lucky on the night

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

Perfect answer but it doesn't explain calling yourself straight if you actively seek and have sex with the same gender. I don't label either. I think being called straight implies being stuck up hahaha"

I think a lot of guys describe themselves as straight if they dont have penetrative sex, (eg if they are only orally bi).... Its all a case of how you describe yourself and how you percieve the word 'bi' i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

"

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be straight 8 and shagging same sex ... I am bi i know i am .

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

The thing is, if I want to describe myself as an orange alien with both sex organs who enjoys sex in the dark with cardboard boxes........ I can.

Wont get many admirers (but who knows)

Its all about personal perception.

How someone else sees themselves is their perogative.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport


"yes but say a cpl want a straight man but endup with something it doesnt say on the tin so to speak"

What people don't know won't hurt them.

It's called the mushroom effect...Keep them in the dark and feed them a load of shit.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"yes but say a cpl want a straight man but endup with something it doesnt say on the tin so to speak

What people don't know won't hurt them.

It's called the mushroom effect...Keep them in the dark and feed them a load of shit.

sometimes I just want to copy and keep a post....... to paste and paste ...... love it.

"

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Most things are left to the reader or writers interpretation. Theres lots of grey areas. Some might class themselves as straight but in a situation they try something theyve not tried before whether this is giving receiving touching or oral. In an experimental way but dont like it so wouldnt do it again the best way to describe this if Ive not already done so is.......

If I tried one drag of a fag or had an whole fag at some point in my life... Would it make me a smoker?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I was told that if a person doesnt kiss the other male or touch his willy he is still straight..even tho he gives anal sex !

Sorry to me it makes him bi .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ate a veggie burger once, does that make me a vegetarian for the rest of my life?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I was told that if a person doesnt kiss the other male or touch his willy he is still straight..even tho he gives anal sex !

Sorry to me it makes him bi ."

Thats the whole point..... 'to you he is bi'.

But what he sees himself as is up to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

"

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality"

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!"

so right, and the occassional wannabee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

so right, and the occassional wannabee "

You wanna see the Rylan wannabes around here... oh wait... no you dont lol

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

so right, and the occassional wannabee

You wanna see the Rylan wannabes around here... oh wait... no you dont lol"

Oh i do, I want to be Rylans aunty, love him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

so right, and the occassional wannabee

You wanna see the Rylan wannabes around here... oh wait... no you dont lol

Oh i do, I want to be Rylans aunty, love him lol"

If we make you his aunty somehow will you keep him off the television? :p

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

so right, and the occassional wannabee

You wanna see the Rylan wannabes around here... oh wait... no you dont lol

Oh i do, I want to be Rylans aunty, love him lol

If we make you his aunty somehow will you keep him off the television? :p"

If our Rylan wants to hump the TV its his choice..... ( wonder what label he would get for that one? )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

so right, and the occassional wannabee

You wanna see the Rylan wannabes around here... oh wait... no you dont lol

Oh i do, I want to be Rylans aunty, love him lol

If we make you his aunty somehow will you keep him off the television? :p

If our Rylan wants to hump the TV its his choice..... ( wonder what label he would get for that one? )"

Tellysexual???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a gay friend of mine once joked :

"The difference been a straight guy and a bisexual one is simply a matter of beer"

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"In the words of a song, 'I am what I am'

no labels, no explanations. Why worry.

never understood why labels are so important to some when it comes to sexuality

Because there are haters and then there are rebels?!

so right, and the occassional wannabee

You wanna see the Rylan wannabes around here... oh wait... no you dont lol

Oh i do, I want to be Rylans aunty, love him lol

If we make you his aunty somehow will you keep him off the television? :p

If our Rylan wants to hump the TV its his choice..... ( wonder what label he would get for that one? )

Tellysexual??? "

Im having bad visions now. Stop

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Fuck I struggle to understand the labels on clothes, let alone the sexuality labels!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Fuck I struggle to understand the labels on clothes, let alone the sexuality labels! "

Just make sure your label is behind you , you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you be straight 8 and shagging same sex ... I am bi i know i am ."

If they can't admit being bi to themselves, they're not likely to admit it to anyone else.

We'd say anyone who's had sex once with the same gender is at least curious.

More than once is bi, whether it's oral, anal or whatever.

XXXX

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

The Turkish women dont have sex before marriage (theyre not supposed to anyway) So the men fuck each other Ive heard them say theyre not gay/bi.

When I say anyone that has sex with someone of the same sex is gay or bi

The arguer then says hes NOT gay or bi because hes a giver NOT receiver...

I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of men say STRAIGHT on their profile but are verified by MEN maybe a social veri but if you actually look at the profile of the person doing the veri it shows that the STRAIGHT profiler made a verification that no ways is he straight lol. They just aint honest enough to come out and say I like sucking and fucking and being fucked by men. Daft innit in this year why hide whether a giver or receiver they bi

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By *andydavidsonTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Here's my take on it...

I define myself as 'Lesbian', ie i see myself as a female attracted to other females.

My dad (who hates the fact i am Transsexual) would identify me as 'straight' because he doesnt want to imagine me as anything other than my birth gender.

To any outsider they would likely also label me as lesbian if they saw me out with my girlfriend because to an outsider i am female.

If i chose to go with a guy then i would feel straight.

But to my dad, this would make me gay.

I like the analogy of 'one bite of a veggie burger doesnt make you vegatarian for life'.

Labels... We all use them but the only one that matters is the one you give yourself.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"yes but say a cpl want a straight man but endup with something it doesnt say on the tin so to speak

What people don't know won't hurt them.

It's called the mushroom effect...Keep them in the dark and feed them a load of shit.

"

And thats whats wrong with the site or should i say alot of people on it. this is an adult site for adult nsa and the least you should be able to expect is a bit of mutual respect which entails not telling a loud of shit just to get a shag..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some lippy and a lace trim round the undergarment....

Hetro magnet.... Close your eyes and you won't see the cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some lippy and a lace trim round the undergarment....

Hetro magnet.... Close your eyes and you won't see the cock."

LOOOOOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"[Removed by poster at 23/01/13 23:54:54]"

Lots of straight people have had sex with the same gender. Doesn't mean a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes but say a cpl want a straight man but endup with something it doesnt say on the tin so to speak

What people don't know won't hurt them.

It's called the mushroom effect...Keep them in the dark and feed them a load of shit.

And thats whats wrong with the site or should i say alot of people on it. this is an adult site for adult nsa and the least you should be able to expect is a bit of mutual respect which entails not telling a loud of shit just to get a shag.. "

To do that shows a complete lack of respect for the other persons/peoples wishes. Sadly, there seems to be a large number of people on here who don't give a shit about the wishes of other members. Just as long as they get what they want......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are people and will do and say what they want or what they want to be heard. Life is too short to worry about who shagged who when and where or even how many times. When a person decides to do something that is not what they would call normal behaviour it tends to be covered by lies.

Psychology at its finest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 23/01/13 23:54:54]

Lots of straight people have had sex with the same gender. Doesn't mean a thing."

How can they be straight if they desire sex with the same gender??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 23/01/13 23:54:54]

Lots of straight people have had sex with the same gender. Doesn't mean a thing.

How can they be straight if they desire sex with the same gender?????? "

Basically they are not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but also the fact of hiv is more common in gay men so the fact someone who you think isnt shagging men and is maybe against wat u are looking for each to there own. i say but also you want wat ur asking for aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but also the fact of hiv is more common in gay men so the fact someone who you think isnt shagging men and is maybe against wat u are looking for each to there own. i say but also you want wat ur asking for aswell "

its best to stop swinging/casual sex encounters if anyone is worried who has shagged who before them, regardless of their sexuality

thats more a fact than any fact about people having HIV

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"The thing is, if I want to describe myself as an orange alien with both sex organs who enjoys sex in the dark with cardboard boxes........ I can.

Wont get many admirers (but who knows)

Its all about personal perception.

How someone else sees themselves is their perogative.

"

But it does make them delusional lmao

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I ate a veggie burger once, does that make me a vegetarian for the rest of my life? "

It does mean you are not 100% carnivore

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"I ate a veggie burger once, does that make me a vegetarian for the rest of my life?

It does mean you are not 100% carnivore"
that's utterly ridiculous! My sister is a veggie, but about 20 years ago she ate a bacon buttie - does that one thing she did back then negate the rest of the way she's lived since?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"that's utterly ridiculous!"

And comparing fucking someone up the arse to a veggie burger isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many guys on here put 'straight' in their profiles but are looking for other guys or TV's, makes me laugh and I just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confused dot com here lol !!!!

So was question why do men say they are straight yet have sex with men (forget all the animal stuff- confused me to hell)

My answer would be that a vast majority of "straight men" on here are Bi - why do i say that; because i get more Straight men contacting me for sex than Bi people and thier reasons each time is

"im Bi but dont want fems to be scared off" etc etc

Grrrrrrrrr double Grrrrrrrrrrrr

Your Bi just say so; your curious just say so; its not a death sentence and its certainly will not stop you having fun with both sexes - well its not stopped lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps;

Moan over

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By *TR8HUNTERMan
over a year ago

London

i love str8 men lol

but when i msg they say sorry im str8

weird thing is they say they like cd/tv

which still have a cock

mmmmmmm not 100 percent str8 then boys x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I had a so called cpl contact me she was bi he was str8.... I asked if he had any more pix of the fem. He said Ive got a video of her do you want to see it. Thatd be great I said. Come and watch it with me Im actually bi but she doesnt know. I said why not tell her mate be honest with your partner. I darent he said come and watch her on video. I said if she can have both then why cant you...... I was born at night but it wasnt last night...... Good luck with your story with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a so called cpl contact me she was bi he was str8.... I asked if he had any more pix of the fem. He said Ive got a video of her do you want to see it. Thatd be great I said. Come and watch it with me Im actually bi but she doesnt know. I said why not tell her mate be honest with your partner. I darent he said come and watch her on video. I said if she can have both then why cant you...... I was born at night but it wasnt last night...... Good luck with your story with someone else "

excellent example

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

As with ALL my stories its 100% true mate. It takes allsorts

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"The thing is, if I want to describe myself as an orange alien with both sex organs who enjoys sex in the dark with cardboard boxes........ I can.

Wont get many admirers (but who knows)

Its all about personal perception.

How someone else sees themselves is their perogative.

"

Good job you didn't say blue... Funky would have been all over you

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Sexual orientation is a spectrum not a row of neatly labelled boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual orientation is a spectrum not a row of neatly labelled boxes. "

Bagsy I call 'Captain Pink'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Lots of straight people have had sex with the same gender. Doesn't mean a thing."

errr yes it does,it means their not straight

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