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Why is it so hard to find a third?

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By *ayco04 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

So me and my new partner have decided that we want to push our boundaries a bit more. Specifically, with a third joining us.

We would love a unicorn to have some fun with, but as we all know they are rare so we'll just keep our eyes peeled for now haha. But a guy to join us? Man, that's been a challenge.

Personally, I would jump at the chance to join a couple and be the third to add a bit of spice to their sex life, but so far it's been really hard to find a guy willing to enjoy my partner how he wishes. Seriously, she wants to be used, fucked, deep throated, spanked. But any takers? None.

Where are all the horny guys willing to make the commitment and let me watch my girl get fucked? I'm holding out hope here ha xx

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By *assagemanCHMan
over a year ago

near Chester

You have guys blocked, maybe why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have guys blocked, maybe why? "

I haven't looked at their profile, but that makes sense as when we had men on ours we were overrun by them!

J

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"So me and my new partner have decided that we want to push our boundaries a bit more. Specifically, with a third joining us.

We would love a unicorn to have some fun with, but as we all know they are rare so we'll just keep our eyes peeled for now haha. But a guy to join us? Man, that's been a challenge.

Personally, I would jump at the chance to join a couple and be the third to add a bit of spice to their sex life, but so far it's been really hard to find a guy willing to enjoy my partner how he wishes. Seriously, she wants to be used, fucked, deep throated, spanked. But any takers? None.

Where are all the horny guys willing to make the commitment and let me watch my girl get fucked? I'm holding out hope here ha xx"
do you have a couples profile your using?

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By *ayco04 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Well that makes sense haha xx

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By *ayco04 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx

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By *ayco04 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Yeah, and it's usually guys looking for some sexy chat but not following through. Kind of disappointing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, and it's usually guys looking for some sexy chat but not following through. Kind of disappointing xx"

I would say make a couple's profile on here too. I'm guessing you know what kind of guy she'd be interested in? As for unicorns? Good luck with that even if you do make a couple profile! Hope you both find what you're looking for though x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx"

Why not set up a couples profile and you manage it? Bottom line is a lot of people will see you as a single guy with this profile.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Your joking right..? Well im gob smacked..ive had a couple of mmf nights and loved them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s that smell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx

Why not set up a couples profile and you manage it? Bottom line is a lot of people will see you as a single guy with this profile."

Absolutely! I know we'd think twice about it being a couple

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You could both go to a club when single guys are there and hook up easy, you don't even need a couples profile.

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

As others have said already, I’d recommend a cpl’s profile or link to your FL profile. I have a FMM today so we are out there

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee


"As others have said already, I’d recommend a cpl’s profile or link to your FL profile. I have a FMM today so we are out there "

Lucky bastard. No need to rub it in

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

To be honest I'd never meet a "couple" from a single man's profile.

There's enough single men pretending to be couples as it is.

Can't you both make a couples profile and just you admin it if she doesn't want another?

Mrs

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"To be honest I'd never meet a "couple" from a single man's profile.

There's enough single men pretending to be couples as it is.

Can't you both make a couples profile and just you admin it if she doesn't want another?

Mrs "

This,

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yeah, and it's usually guys looking for some sexy chat but not following through. Kind of disappointing xx"

Speaking as a bloke who has used Fab for over 10 years, and met several couples for hotwife/threesome fun, and varying degrees of cuckolding, I really cannot believe you’re struggling to find a guy to join you both. It’s basically the easiest option in Fab!

Get yourselves to a swingers club. There’s always plenty of single guys available, and never enough ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this just a pipe dream of yours?

Does your partner know that you are here masquerading as a Single Male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So me and my new partner have decided that we want to push our boundaries a bit more. Specifically, with a third joining us.

We would love a unicorn to have some fun with, but as we all know they are rare so we'll just keep our eyes peeled for now haha. But a guy to join us? Man, that's been a challenge.

Personally, I would jump at the chance to join a couple and be the third to add a bit of spice to their sex life, but so far it's been really hard to find a guy willing to enjoy my partner how he wishes. Seriously, she wants to be used, fucked, deep throated, spanked. But any takers? None.

Where are all the horny guys willing to make the commitment and let me watch my girl get fucked? I'm holding out hope here ha xx"

You aren't looking for men on profile, period

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"As others have said already, I’d recommend a cpl’s profile or link to your FL profile. I have a FMM today so we are out there

Lucky bastard. No need to rub it in "

I’m the other M !! Sorry mate

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By *ayco04 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Well very straightforward and obvious advice for moving forward. I wasn't accepting messages from single males (understandably) and a couples profile is definitely going to get the best response. Thanks all who commented haha xx

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
over a year ago

Silverdale

We've found it tough too to find a male to join us for a 3some! Clubs aren't for us & we are quite fussy. So when we've spoken to someone Mrs likes, they either let us down or its just too challenging to find a time when we are all free. I thought it would be really easy but it's actually really difficult lol!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally we find the most illusive thing in this lifestyle is finding the right guy for a MFM. Couples, single ladies OK but the right guy for that amazing MFM is near impossible.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We don't find it at all surprising that guys are not keen to hook up for a threesome via a single guy's profile.

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

Shameeee. I am here as a third for cuckold couples

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"As others have said already, I’d recommend a cpl’s profile or link to your FL profile. I have a FMM today so we are out there

Lucky bastard. No need to rub it in

I’m the other M !! Sorry mate "

House! I was the very lucky F! Since being on here I have had a number of MFMs with 2 single guys. It may be easier if she approaches the other M or F first - even if she then steps back from the chat. That way the other person has more confidence that you are legit

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx"

Many will assume that the lady is fictional if there's no couples profile... the easiest option is to go to a club, then you can just chat with guys and invite someone she likes to join you in a private room.

Cal

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx"

I have met three couples from an initial single guy profile in here, and I completely understand the shyness from your other half, just make sure you have photos of the two of you together to share with anyone you’re hoping to meet

I’ve never used Feeld, but FL I found a total waste of time as far as meeting anyone is concerned. It’s basically just a platform for women in Antarctica to advertise their OF……

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