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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"
I think people use it to try new things and meet people that they would normally go for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"

I just think they're saying it to get a shag. I don't see myself as sexy or gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?I think people use it to try new things and meet people that they would normally go for "
missed the word *not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same standards apply on or off FAB, and I am very fussy.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Cant see the wood for the trees

Id say some of its just patter somes lies and some will be genuine and sincere.

Yes Id meet some ppl outside of fab. But fabs got that extra touch,you can see pix likes and dislikes on fab which can be a bonus

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

To be honest, i wont tell a lady she is look great, fab, sexy or whatever it is just to have a meet here. Reallity will kick in when you meet even if it is just for one off.

TO like someone to the point of want to meet, there should be an attraction

There is no need to play the desperado here chaising any lady that just log on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't approach people in regular bars as it is so talking on here's easier for me. I just look at someone and think "No chance will she give me a second look"

At least if you don't get a response you're not gonna be embarrassed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Im going to get my tin hat and fill some sandbags now.....

I normally or in the past Ive only been attracted to size 6-12..... But Ive now realised and been with bigger women from fab. Bigger women can be sexy

You wunt hit someone with glasses would you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im going to get my tin hat and fill some sandbags now.....

I normally or in the past Ive only been attracted to size 6-12..... But Ive now realised and been with bigger women from fab. Bigger women can be sexy

You wunt hit someone with glasses would you "
not for being honest but when you met those women did you find them attractive before you met them or give them all the chat just to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told to my face that they'd be happy to shag me, but wouldn't go on a date with me cos I'm too fat. They didn't get the shag!

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By *umsumMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Bigger women are so so sexy and sensual. I've met two on here that I am friends with and they are so filthy, everything a man could wish for??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not only aiming the post at bigger women but more men or women that you dont really fancy whether big, small, tall or short, i would never meet just anyone no matter how horny i was. i wonder how many do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bigger women are so so sexy and sensual. I've met two on here that I am friends with and they are so filthy, everything a man could wish for??"

Lucky bugger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply, If I see a profile and think oh yes, then message.

The same as in a club or on a street. If I like what I am looking at I will say so. (Or wink, or smile etc)

I dont use fabs as a 'well I cant get anything else, elsewhere, so will take whats left'

I also ignore, 'hey sexy' 'great pics' and all the other lines, as they are just lines.

(Except viccie, I know he means it)

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Of cors I found them attractive or I wouldnt have met them. Im not just here for a fuck on that score Ive kinda given up lol. Online its NOT just about looks is it..... Personality plays a big part ...... Well it does for me JMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is sometimes having the confidence to walk up to someone in the street and chatting them up. It makes it easier to start via the Web somewhere like here.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I disagree theyre not just lines to some.

If I say you look great or words to that effect. I mean it and having once owned a modelling school Ive seen my share of gorgeous women and pix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"

check out the chatrooms almost anytime if your not sure if they mean it or not ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not much different to real world. guys feed girls bullshit to get what they want all the time

as far as standards go, i`d love to browse and find a list of my ideal fcuk mates every time i do. but its not like that and you can only go by what is available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I just think they're saying it to get a shag. I don't see myself as sexy or gorgeous."

Sadly i believe this ckicks hit the nail a belter...

But then again, its not really for us to judge what others feel or think...but it does make me uncomfortable when folk say it, like I should feel greatful they don't think i'm a dog??

I think self confidence is the one thing that makes a person really SEXY!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm more fussy on here than in real life!!

In the pub/club etc my beer goggles are usual slightly influential when I'm chatting someone up or being chatted up. But on here the lines people come out with i think oh dear, and some of the reasons I think 'I wouldn't meet that person because...' are awful. Fab has made me incredibly choosy. To be honest I'm shocked I've had a meet at all pmsl x.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I agree confidence is foremost in attracting someone and the abiility to make someone laugh and hold down a conversation. I personally dont rely on chat up lines..... Actions speak louder than words..... Some women just assume the guys full of bs. Maybe because theyve heard it all before.

Id rather walk away like the night when Miss Turkey was trying to chat me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same don't see myself as anything special...yet get all the compliments from men/women...I sometimes do think its them trying to charm me into the bedroom or wherever...But every now and again i do believe them to be genuine.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder whats sexy to some isnt to others.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Beauty is sometimes in the eye of the beer holder

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I wouldnt approach anyone outwith the scene purely because I am happily married ...but theoretically yes the women I have met over the years from the scene I would have been interested outwith ....never met anyone here just for the sake of a shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So on the whole most are genuine when they say those things, i just find it difficult to believe. especially when you click on the most fabbed page and see who else is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each day i get mail saying lovely things and i never let it go to my head as i don't see myself like it .... In the vinilla world i get offers too .. But i really have to like ...I am picky and i like good sex and not into just a leg over .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a girl from fab one evening she told me that i was very lucky to get meet at such short notice, we ended up drinking wine and chatting for a long time and unfortunately time ran out and i had to go... We had a quick snog and i left.... My point is there is no thrill like just meeting someone you have never seen before and both of you know why you are there because of fab...It is mistly about sex and expanding your horizons with like minded people and If something "deeper" develops.... bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a friend of mine about this when I told her I'm on fab. She said she would sooner just meet men face to face in the pub and not online. The difference to me is that being on here you can get to know each others likes and dislikes and really get to know someone first.

The sexual tension and excitement before a meet is a plus too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree theyre not just lines to some.

If I say you look great or words to that effect. I mean it and having once owned a modelling school Ive seen my share of gorgeous women and pix "

What's a modelling school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?

Hi... Well first let me tell you that even though you don't meet couples we think you are really really sexy. We would meet you in a heart beat. You look fun, sexy, playful and a wee bit naughty lol. You are right in that some Folkes will say anything but we are not all like that. Believe me when I say this. You look really fab. Your else's tell a lot. WE wish you lots of fun and should you ever want to meet a couple let us know. We love fun people and the bigger the better. Take care xxxx"

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"

The *problem* with fab vs real life is the problem all internet dating vs real life has...

...photographs.....

Nothing quite so deceiving as a photo, even before it is edited... I've seen photos of breasts that look quite large and juicy, get them in real life naked and it is a slightly saggy B cup, and yes before you ask, same tit, same tattoo etc.

This is before you get to the sexual / horny aspect with explicit photos, which are a million miles away from what you get in real life...I don't walk around tesco with my cock hanging out... nor do you have the opportunity when you meet me at a bus stop to read my profile and know I like cute fluffy animals and find walks on the beach romantic and cried when bambi died...

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"So on the whole most are genuine when they say those things, i just find it difficult to believe. especially when you click on the most fabbed page and see who else is on here."

I totally get where you are coming from with this. Since I have been on here the comments have been really nice but I can't take them seriously because no one says anything like it to me in the real world.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Honestly I find that people are too bothered what their friends think outside of fab. They may fancy you but their friends may not. It takes a strong person to stand out from the crowd.

I am a big girl and have lost 4 stone recently, whilst I was at my biggest I would get men chatting me up but they were far and few between. Now it's not an issue at all. But I go out to have fun with friends, finding a man is the last thing I am looking for.

Also I think confidence is incredibly attractive. If you go out and think that you are not attractive you are setting yourself up to fail.

I think you look confident and sexy in your pics and would be surprised if you thought any different.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?

The *problem* with fab vs real life is the problem all internet dating vs real life has...

...photographs.....

Nothing quite so deceiving as a photo, even before it is edited... I've seen photos of breasts that look quite large and juicy, get them in real life naked and it is a slightly saggy B cup, and yes before you ask, same tit, same tattoo etc.

This is before you get to the sexual / horny aspect with explicit photos, which are a million miles away from what you get in real life...I don't walk around tesco with my cock hanging out... nor do you have the opportunity when you meet me at a bus stop to read my profile and know I like cute fluffy animals and find walks on the beach romantic and cried when bambi died... "

Bambi died?

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?

The *problem* with fab vs real life is the problem all internet dating vs real life has...

...photographs.....

Nothing quite so deceiving as a photo, even before it is edited... I've seen photos of breasts that look quite large and juicy, get them in real life naked and it is a slightly saggy B cup, and yes before you ask, same tit, same tattoo etc.

This is before you get to the sexual / horny aspect with explicit photos, which are a million miles away from what you get in real life...I don't walk around tesco with my cock hanging out... nor do you have the opportunity when you meet me at a bus stop to read my profile and know I like cute fluffy animals and find walks on the beach romantic and cried when bambi died... "

I don't believe you watched Bambi cos it was his Mum that died!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"I disagree theyre not just lines to some.

If I say you look great or words to that effect. I mean it and having once owned a modelling school Ive seen my share of gorgeous women and pix

What's a modelling school "

We used to teach or show mostly women what to do on a catwalk how to apply make up etc etc. Some just came to increase their confidence others wanted to become models. We got their portfolios done by a well known photographer and put them in touch with modelling agencies once we'd honed what they had etc etc

Hope this helps you to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be wary of the compliments that end in "now suck my dick"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the best example it's when you go out to bars and clubs.

at tge start of the night, guys approach women they genuinly find attractive and equally women respond to guys they are attracted to. As the night goes on and time runs short standards on both sides can dwindle with the result being people "pulling" those that they may not have entertained at the start of the night.

This does not cover all people as they may not be out for anything other than to socialise, drink and have fun.

I believe this happens a lot on here as a lot of guys find the amount of women willing to at the least converse with them limited.

I believe the best thing to do is chat with them and try and get a feel for their sincerity.

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter


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I don't believe you watched Bambi cos it was his Mum that died!"

Curses! My cunning plan to appear all cute and fluffy failed...

Pinky, are you pondering what I'm pondering?

I think so, Brain, but this time, you put the trousers on the chimp.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


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I don't believe you watched Bambi cos it was his Mum that died!

Curses! My cunning plan to appear all cute and fluffy failed...

Pinky, are you pondering what I'm pondering?

I think so, Brain, but this time, you put the trousers on the chimp.

"

Oh yeah! I'm on to you!

On the other hand you quote Pinky and The Brain so you must have some redeeming qualities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just be wary of the compliments that end in "now suck my dick" "
you right most looking for fast lane sex here .. will say what ever it takes to get leg over at times ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that out at a bar I probably wouldn't get a second look but here I'm getting loads of attention.

I do think that some men are lying and will just say it for a shag. I have never had much self confidence though

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter


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Oh yeah! I'm on to you!

On the other hand you quote Pinky and The Brain so you must have some redeeming qualities."

On to me? you wish.. lol

P&B is one of those things you keep going back to and finding double and treble meanings, usually kinky...

"I think so Brain, but what if the chicken won't wear the nylons" for example, and the classic "I think so Brain, but we're already naked"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just so much easier in person to get a feel for something

too much room for BS onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that out at a bar I probably wouldn't get a second look but here I'm getting loads of attention.

I do think that some men are lying and will just say it for a shag. I have never had much self confidence though "

I an being honest when I say I think you have a great figure. I can't see your face so won't comment on that, but if your figures anything to go by then I have high hopes.

ps I'm prety i'll at the minute so not looking for a shag ;p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's certainly done alot for my confidence i lost 11st in the last 18 months, and came on here and have had lots of fun with some really nice men, but i have and only will meet men that i fancy and that i have been able to have laugh with through chat.

I think i will stick with my gut instinct on people that i chat to and if they are willing to wait as long as i make them wait then i suppose they must like me.

It's the same old story, it's the odd one on here that puts doubt about other men in my mind.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"

Oh yeah! I'm on to you!

On the other hand you quote Pinky and The Brain so you must have some redeeming qualities.

On to me? you wish.. lol

P&B is one of those things you keep going back to and finding double and treble meanings, usually kinky...

"I think so Brain, but what if the chicken won't wear the nylons" for example, and the classic "I think so Brain, but we're already naked"

"

I haven't seen it for years. Now I am going to have to spend hours trawling the net for it!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I find that out at a bar I probably wouldn't get a second look but here I'm getting loads of attention.

I do think that some men are lying and will just say it for a shag. I have never had much self confidence though "

I find that hard to believe, you look lovely...and I'm not just saying that cos I'm trying to get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly done alot for my confidence i lost 11st in the last 18 months, and came on here and have had lots of fun with some really nice men, but i have and only will meet men that i fancy and that i have been able to have laugh with through chat.

I think i will stick with my gut instinct on people that i chat to and if they are willing to wait as long as i make them wait then i suppose they must like me.

It's the same old story, it's the odd one on here that puts doubt about other men in my mind."
your right go with what you like and whats right for you... only once have i been had here , lol biggest liyer i meet in my life hurt me as thinking i could read men was a lifs lesson .

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter


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I haven't seen it for years. Now I am going to have to spend hours trawling the net for it!"

hxxp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlXEC8kcbqc&playnext=1&list=PLD86DD3032398BE6D

note the xx instead of tt in the url, hopefully this keeps things within fab policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apply my real world logic on here due to the level of attention some people get on here they start getting a bit carried away with themselves.

Expecting people to jump through hoops like its crufts some of the status updates I read are hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apply my real world logic on here due to the level of attention some people get on here they start getting a bit carried away with themselves.

Expecting people to jump through hoops like its crufts some of the status updates I read are hilarious.

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By *luespartanMan
over a year ago

crawley


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"

I cant agree, we are all different and we like alsorts of ladies so with all the guys on here some if not a lot will genuinely fancy you. But there are those that will butter you up in the hope of that shag

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


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I haven't seen it for years. Now I am going to have to spend hours trawling the net for it!

hxxp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlXEC8kcbqc&playnext=1&list=PLD86DD3032398BE6D

note the xx instead of tt in the url, hopefully this keeps things within fab policy."

Thank you!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I'm always at 'half mast' just in case! lol

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I apply my real world logic on here due to the level of attention some people get on here they start getting a bit carried away with themselves.

Expecting people to jump through hoops like its crufts some of the status updates I read are hilarious.

"

"like it's Crufts" ...that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have standards, and I am fussy. If I tell someone I find them attractive its because I do.

I dont expect to be thought of as a liar, or that I am being devisive just to get a shag.

I pity you if that's what you want to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"

I won't drop my standards even if it means I never get a meet I wouldn't;t feel good about myself afters if I did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have standards, and I am fussy. If I tell someone I find them attractive its because I do.

I dont expect to be thought of as a liar, or that I am being devisive just to get a shag.

I pity you if that's what you want to think. "

i didnt say i think that about everyone and i was asking a question do any of you drop your standards? not actually saying that everyone does or that everyone is lying when they pass compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here on fab its fast lane sex ........ we cant get away from that .. its not a dating site but a sex site ... and you find lots are on both sites .. just more up front about there needs for sex here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones i really dont take serious are the ones off people who havnt even seen me yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have standards, and I am fussy. If I tell someone I find them attractive its because I do.

I dont expect to be thought of as a liar, or that I am being devisive just to get a shag.

I pity you if that's what you want to think. "

One wonders how long it would take the code breakers at Bletchley Park to unravel the real truth out of that mumbo jumbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not too many people who think they are sexy and gorgeous. Personally I would only meet people on here that I would actually approach on a night out.

What's the point in having sex with someone that don't actually turn you on!!!

Remember also that there is someone for everyone, know one will get left out and be pleasant to everyone regardless of whether they tickle your fancy.... Enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have standards, and I am fussy. If I tell someone I find them attractive its because I do.

I dont expect to be thought of as a liar, or that I am being devisive just to get a shag.

I pity you if that's what you want to think.

One wonders how long it would take the code breakers at Bletchley Park to unravel the real truth out of that mumbo jumbo"

quite some time I would imagine, being as they are no longer there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have standards, and I am fussy. If I tell someone I find them attractive its because I do.

I dont expect to be thought of as a liar, or that I am being devisive just to get a shag.

I pity you if that's what you want to think.

One wonders how long it would take the code breakers at Bletchley Park to unravel the real truth out of that mumbo jumbo"

I've no idea, though those at GCSE HQ in the English department have never had a problem!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Isn't it about being with like minded people...?.I have a lot of respect for all the sharers and excitement hunters on here..I think what we do takes a fair bit of bottle....so it isn't all about looks for,us.... It's a state of mind.....respect to you all...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones i really dont take serious are the ones off people who havnt even seen me yet! "

Lol yeah I sometimes get mail saying I'm gorgeous. How they heck they know that from my pic I'll never know!!! I could be a bloke in a dress for all they know.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"

some guys will do it just to get a shag....I got knocked back on a dating site months ago because he liked skinny girls....I left the site I was so disappointed...I joined here and he messaged me the other day and Oh I was just the sexiest thing on 2 legs...He has the same pic here he had on there and I pointed out he had knocked me back to date because I was too fat so he had one chance..No chance....

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?

some guys will do it just to get a shag....I got knocked back on a dating site months ago because he liked skinny girls....I left the site I was so disappointed...I joined here and he messaged me the other day and Oh I was just the sexiest thing on 2 legs...He has the same pic here he had on there and I pointed out he had knocked me back to date because I was too fat so he had one chance..No chance...."

Similar thing happened to me, it's quite funny as they claim to "forget" about it.

Mmmmm the things people will say when they think they are onto a promise.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some will say anything for a shag, equally as many will say they don't.

I know which I believe

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante


"I find that out at a bar I probably wouldn't get a second look but here I'm getting loads of attention.

I do think that some men are lying and will just say it for a shag. I have never had much self confidence though "
.well we looked at your profile and you shouldn't have any probs for fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of messages like most other women on here, saying how sexy and gorgeous i am, and while i don't have confidence issues, nor am i looking to be bigged up, i just don't see it, i wonder if men actually mean it, or just looking for that meet!

Do you or would you meet men/women on fab that you wouldn't approach in a pub/club or anywhere else? Do people drop their standards drastically on fab just to get a meet for sex?"
without probably doing myself a disservice I think you're dead right ! I think maybe you wouldn't look twice at some on here if you were in the pub ( present company excluded) x

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