FabSwingers.com forum: planning a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can any one give any help or advice about planning a meet

so we know the right pearson for us will turn up

and we will not be stood up let down or disapionted

sue & scarlet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no magic formula to ensure that someone will turn up and even less so that they will be the right person for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a coffee meet first. Seems to help. I sometimes get turned down after coffee, or decide they aren't for me. Trial and error. Keep smiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have a coffee meet first. Seems to help. I sometimes get turned down after coffee, or decide they aren't for me. Trial and error. Keep smiling. "

Have to agree always have a social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have a coffee meet first. Seems to help. I sometimes get turned down after coffee, or decide they aren't for me. Trial and error. Keep smiling. "

I insist on a coffee meet first. Has always worked for me. Find it help the nerves if there happens to a second non coffee meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat - exchange email addy - talk on phone - ask for very recent face pics - meet socially- arrange follow up afterwards

If you lay out how you want to proceed and they follow; its a pretty good assumption they are genuine

Happy Fabbing

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Always try and get a phone number and have a chat with then its more instant and intimate than messaging on here. If you can ring at any time it could prove the persons single not attatched (if its a single your after) Then if you still get on/click arrange a social meet. Check veris to see if theyre walkers not just talkers. Then fingers crossed they turn up either play on the first meet or arrange another meet for fun.

I hope it works out for you and you find what youre looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can any one give any help or advice about planning a meet

so we know the right pearson for us will turn up

and we will not be stood up let down or disapionted

sue & scarlet"

Clear communication if possible by phone so you can discuss with a potential meet what suits everyone and what doesn't is always a good idea and helps make things go better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't leave it too long , if they are local by all means have a coffee first , but even then be prepared to play if possible.

Too much faffing about and there is more chance it will fall through.

We have yet to have a failure as we tend to meet on the day or next day , and normally at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you've already had one meet...what did you do then to ensure it went smoothly and worked out well for you?

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I was going to say that maybe they just want more or theyve had some letdowns

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