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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

4days till my silver membership ends. I won't be back. Sick of sending polite - tailored - to profile messages only to be either ignored or deleted without even been read. Too many excuses that women have it tough with single males. Takes nothing to say a polite 'no thanks' . the chat rooms are closed - if your face don't fit no-one will speak to you. Couples looking down their noses at single males in the forums - can't wait to see all the jumped up messages I get now. How dare I rock their boats? Glad I woke up.

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Apart from that though you enjoy the site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile"

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile"

Embarrassing to who? Politeness costs nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

+1 "

Hmmm..... Hidden profile?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

+1

Hmmm..... Hidden profile?"

because I no longer have a car to meet. Simple as, plenty of people hide profiles. Still doesn't stop me enjoying the site. I'll unhide it if you dont believe I'm genuine.

Also have a couples profile too with a lovely gent I met off this site.

Best site ever is Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

Embarrassing to who? Politeness costs nothing. "

only showing urself as impatient Mr...

politeness costs nothing as does patience

havent u heard of the other successful ways to get meets?- maybe u should have asked for guidance a little instead of a dummy spit

and remember...its only sex ffs- to get in such a tizzy over such a short period is going to do u no favors...and ur lucky the forums are only a small reflection of fab...so many wont see.Of course...if they come accross ur profile right now...they will instantly bypass it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't suppose you have read the bit where admin say its not rude not to reply to all messages then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are only seeing it from your perspective op - when we advertise a meet we get up to fifty messages in an hour and we wouldn't reply to all of them !

It's just what it is - you are messaging in the same way as folk cold call - it's up to the folk you message to ' be polite ' as you put it , but it really isn't that they are rude - just not interested at the time you write to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

+1

Hmmm..... Hidden profile?

because I no longer have a car to meet. Simple as, plenty of people hide profiles. Still doesn't stop me enjoying the site. I'll unhide it if you dont believe I'm genuine.

Also have a couples profile too with a lovely gent I met off this site.

Best site ever is Fab "

I've no doubt you are genuine. It's just that no one ever replied or said anything to me on here till I ranted on this post

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I always send a polite no thanks, but luckily for me I dont get hundreds of mail like other ladies on here.

Profile up....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

Embarrassing to who? Politeness costs nothing.

only showing urself as impatient Mr...

politeness costs nothing as does patience

havent u heard of the other successful ways to get meets?- maybe u should have asked for guidance a little instead of a dummy spit

and remember...its only sex ffs- to get in such a tizzy over such a short period is going to do u no favors...and ur lucky the forums are only a small reflection of fab...so many wont see.Of course...if they come accross ur profile right now...they will instantly bypass it.

"

I have asked for guidance. Only to receive the same stock answers from people like yourself who seem to be answering from a script.

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By *tra vidaCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

+1

Hmmm..... Hidden profile?

because I no longer have a car to meet. Simple as, plenty of people hide profiles. Still doesn't stop me enjoying the site. I'll unhide it if you dont believe I'm genuine.

Also have a couples profile too with a lovely gent I met off this site.

Best site ever is Fab

I've no doubt you are genuine. It's just that no one ever replied or said anything to me on here till I ranted on this post"

You should have joined one of the cliques!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as in all walks of life,there are good and bad,yes a lot on here can be rude to say the least,but there are also some lovely members too,who are worth searching out,but i still say,manners cost nowteeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

+1

Hmmm..... Hidden profile?

because I no longer have a car to meet. Simple as, plenty of people hide profiles. Still doesn't stop me enjoying the site. I'll unhide it if you dont believe I'm genuine.

Also have a couples profile too with a lovely gent I met off this site.

Best site ever is Fab

I've no doubt you are genuine. It's just that no one ever replied or said anything to me on here till I ranted on this post

You should have joined one of the cliques!"

No thanks. I pride myself on my ability to be myself. Not a sheep.

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By *irty RascalMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Been here much longer and its tough on single males, but have had a couple of meets, good and and not so good.

No rush to leave for me and happy to bide my time.

Good luck whatever you choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

Embarrassing to who? Politeness costs nothing.

only showing urself as impatient Mr...

politeness costs nothing as does patience

havent u heard of the other successful ways to get meets?- maybe u should have asked for guidance a little instead of a dummy spit

and remember...its only sex ffs- to get in such a tizzy over such a short period is going to do u no favors...and ur lucky the forums are only a small reflection of fab...so many wont see.Of course...if they come accross ur profile right now...they will instantly bypass it.

I have asked for guidance. Only to receive the same stock answers from people like yourself who seem to be answering from a script. "

I'm answering from my experience...if u cant accept that...then why should i bother really????

Ive swung since 2008(on fab)...I think I know what I'm talking about cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very hard for single males just have to be patient, I've had some good meets and meet some nice people. It's been quite few weeks but that's going to happen just hang In there and you never know what's around the corner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been here much longer and its tough on single males, but have had a couple of meets, good and and not so good.

No rush to leave for me and happy to bide my time.

Good luck whatever you choose "

Cheers fella. Enjoy

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By *tra vidaCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"It's very hard for single males just have to be patient, I've had some good meets and meet some nice people. It's been quite few weeks but that's going to happen just hang In there and you never know what's around the corner "

There maybe sunshine ahead...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

Embarrassing to who? Politeness costs nothing.

only showing urself as impatient Mr...

politeness costs nothing as does patience

havent u heard of the other successful ways to get meets?- maybe u should have asked for guidance a little instead of a dummy spit

and remember...its only sex ffs- to get in such a tizzy over such a short period is going to do u no favors...and ur lucky the forums are only a small reflection of fab...so many wont see.Of course...if they come accross ur profile right now...they will instantly bypass it.

I have asked for guidance. Only to receive the same stock answers from people like yourself who seem to be answering from a script.

I'm answering from my experience...if u cant accept that...then why should i bother really????

Ive swung since 2008(on fab)...I think I know what I'm talking about cheers"

Well enjoy fella. Not sure I asked for your acceptance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's very hard for single males just have to be patient, I've had some good meets and meet some nice people. It's been quite few weeks but that's going to happen just hang In there and you never know what's around the corner

There maybe sunshine ahead..."

Yeah I wish.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There maybe sunshine ahead..." Now your just teasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honestly?

9 weeks uve been here..u had a meet recently

never expected the attitude coming from a gent ur age

embarrassing that uve put this as ur profile

+1

Hmmm..... Hidden profile?

because I no longer have a car to meet. Simple as, plenty of people hide profiles. Still doesn't stop me enjoying the site. I'll unhide it if you dont believe I'm genuine.

Also have a couples profile too with a lovely gent I met off this site.

Best site ever is Fab

I've no doubt you are genuine. It's just that no one ever replied or said anything to me on here till I ranted on this post"

No one ever replied? Presumably apart from the meet that verified you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have asked for guidance. Only to receive the same stock answers from people like yourself who seem to be answering from a script. "

You got answers on your other threads - did you listen to any of the advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey chill your beans!!

You have been in the site for 9 weeks and you have had at least one meet! That's pretty good going for a single guy!

Ranting on here isn't going to help your cause though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive suggested u mellow out

why not check out clubs/social events

gain some extra exposure

change ur avatar pic to not a cockshot

have some other pics(cocks fine just not really as ur avatar)

uve taken my advice as some kind of script...thats cos mine appears to have been working for years

apologize if u think Ive condescended u...I'm just surprised that u wouldnt be so mellow given ur age

and lose that profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from that though you enjoy the site ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate all the comments/advice/comments. Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I can't sleep, read the posts!!! Great entertainment....I love Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from that though you enjoy the site ? "

Lol thanks Louise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the original post and subsequent in my opinion childish behaviour from the op to comments by others.

I have cheese on my fridge thats more mature than the op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just read the original post and subsequent in my opinion childish behaviour from the op to comments by others.

I have cheese on my fridge thats more mature than the op."

And I care because?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read the original post and subsequent in my opinion childish behaviour from the op to comments by others.

I have cheese on my fridge thats more mature than the op.

And I care because?"

Well if you are leaving you probably don't and arguably don't need to. The green arrow suggests that this is just another moan, so you probably won't go, in which case you should care because to be honest with the attitude and maturity you are displaying it is not hard to see why you are struggling and you will coninue to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just read the original post and subsequent in my opinion childish behaviour from the op to comments by others.

I have cheese on my fridge thats more mature than the op.

And I care because?

Well if you are leaving you probably don't and arguably don't need to. The green arrow suggests that this is just another moan, so you probably won't go, in which case you should care because to be honest with the attitude and maturity you are displaying it is not hard to see why you are struggling and you will coninue to. "

Not like you to be so opinionated

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