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By *urious married40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We got a friend who’s got wind that we’ve dabbled in this alternative lifestyle , who’s making it quite clear that she would like to have a night with us . However it’s a good friend and the risks to damage a long term friendship are there .

What have people done on here ?

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

We’ve not had that but it is a tricky situation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting...why do you think it can damage your friend ship?

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By *art1968Man
over a year ago

stafford

This came up with some friends of ours who we have shared naked nights in their hot tub, our view is a bit close to home just in case things go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

similar situations have arisen for me.. not just with friends, but with the likes of my dentist too!

just have an open and honest conversation, and see what happens!

it's absolutely worked out in alllll of the best ways for me. no reason why it won't for you too. may end up improving your friendship, or its just one of those things you laugh about later while regailing tales of the lifestyle! Px

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

It’s a hard decision to make and one I think you will choose wisely.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally my fab friends and vanilla friends are kept totally separate, yes it could be great for me it's not worth the risk of a good friendship, hard no for me.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just one night? What happens after that?

If you think you can all continue as before after this one night,none of you will want more/have regrets/feel awkward, go ahead.

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By *urious married40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There’s suspicions that the friend is quite into one of us and not in the best of places in their personal life , so honestly I think it’s a no , but thanks for the replies . As much as it could be an awesome night think it’s not worth the risk right now

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

If the person is having issues then be supportive but we would steer well clear of anything else

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We keep this part of our life very private and therefore keep our Fab friends and vanilla friends completely separate...

There are one or two of our vanilla friends we’d love to play with but unlikely it would ever happen and certainly not something we’d actively raise.

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By *atgirlknobinCouple
over a year ago

ish

Just do it ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This won’t be a problem, but it will more then likely happen again

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By *eastZMan
over a year ago

London

Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My one non negotiable…… I never mix this life with real life.

I’ve heard some horror stories of things souring pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally we'd avoid, but maybe direct them to fab so they can find what there looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a threesome with my bear mate and his wife, she’s always been on the kinky side and he went along with it due to the amount of booze we’d consumed…. He wasn’t my best mate for about a year after that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't go there. Plenty of others, where you can have a cleaner separation and to develop the foundations of the relationship differently

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