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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

My wife and me were talking about sexy stuff the other night( she doesn’t know about my CD side)

She admired she would go down on a woman in the right circumstances. She then asked if I would suck a cock. A bit embarrassingly I said maybe a transvestite in the right circumstances (if only she knew how kinky I really am!)

Got me think what other ‘straight males’ would have said and what other ‘straight females ‘ would have thought of the answer?

My wife hasn’t looked at me the same since!!

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By *owdenguyMan
over a year ago

howden


"My wife and me were talking about sexy stuff the other night( she doesn’t know about my CD side)

She admired she would go down on a woman in the right circumstances. She then asked if I would suck a cock. A bit embarrassingly I said maybe a transvestite in the right circumstances (if only she knew how kinky I really am!)

Got me think what other ‘straight males’ would have said and what other ‘straight females ‘ would have thought of the answer?

My wife hasn’t looked at me the same since!!"

Maybe you should tell her who you really are and wait for the reaction

It might turn her on.

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

It did cross my mind, should have asked to borrow a pair of her knickers!

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Whatever you do don't ask to borrow anything and keep your secret as long as you can

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

That’s sounds like advise from experience, I think your probably right!

Good job I have my own attire these days

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Even though f they say they like it, they don't. They like to wear the heels and they like to suck the cocks.

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Can certainly see why they like both!!

There are some women who are into it, shame more aren’t though. My previous wife quite liked it, just underwear though. I think the sex is much better and passionate when both are wearing lingerie.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"My wife and me were talking about sexy stuff the other night( she doesn’t know about my CD side)

She admired she would go down on a woman in the right circumstances. She then asked if I would suck a cock. A bit embarrassingly I said maybe a transvestite in the right circumstances (if only she knew how kinky I really am!)

Got me think what other ‘straight males’ would have said and what other ‘straight females ‘ would have thought of the answer?

My wife hasn’t looked at me the same since!!

Maybe you should tell her who you really are and wait for the reaction

It might turn her on.

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this exactly. In this day and age people should be allowed to be who they want and more open and not having hide away. Not good/healthy in any relationship for either party It’s all just sex at the end of the day, doesn’t matter who it’s with as long as everyone enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s such a shame that you don’t respect your wife and that you don’t have a good enough relationship where you could be honest and open with each other.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"It’s such a shame that you don’t respect your wife and that you don’t have a good enough relationship where you could be honest and open with each other."

All too common sadly

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Yes we’ll put, I think society is definitely changing. A guy should be able to wear some sexy lingerie and heels with out the hair and make up etc, it’s all just fun after all! X

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe the wife suspects and that's why she brought up the topic. It's an opportunity to have an adult conversation about your likes and desires.

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

It does depend on why you do enjoy dressing, but you could bring up idea of what were those right circumstance’s for both her and you and if she wanted to explore together?

You could then suggest the scenario where you would want to be dressed to feel ‘sexy’ or ‘slutty’ or whatever reason you do feel and gauge her reaction. If positive slowly introduce more of your lifestyle as if you were just exploring. With clear communication; again if she likes it and open then fully ‘explore’ to the extent you are now without hiding it.

Along side that she’s exploring maybe her scenarios.

In relation to dressing the irony is stockings etc were designed for men!! Back in horse riding and ancient history. But trousers replaced and more modern times made stockings ‘female’ which is silly as clothes should be neutral.

But social society typically is towards most women not liking any guy in ‘women’s’ clothing. Bar the exceptions but I think that’s changing…

Enjoy and good luck, but don’t push or go too quickly as if she isn’t a fan it could go very badly

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Admiral Ackbar said it best.

^^ That’s cryptic btw ^^

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Yes, you could be right, I was pretty surprised when she asked if I would ever do it.

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey

She does know I wear knickers sometimes so it wouldn’t be a total shock.

Perhaps I need to be braver and push it a bit, maybe suggest a 3some with another guy would be fun for her(and me;)

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"She does know I wear knickers sometimes so it wouldn’t be a total shock.

Perhaps I need to be braver and push it a bit, maybe suggest a 3some with another guy would be fun for her(and me;)"

go for it you may be pleasantly surprised

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By *inkyfox99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey


"She does know I wear knickers sometimes so it wouldn’t be a total shock.

Perhaps I need to be braver and push it a bit, maybe suggest a 3some with another guy would be fun for her(and me;)

go for it you may be pleasantly surprised "

Well I guess if she not up for it then the fun continues on here, looks like people are quite hot and more open minded in the Ashford area x

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By *urabriteMan
over a year ago

stafford

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales


"Maybe the wife suspects and that's why she brought up the topic. It's an opportunity to have an adult conversation about your likes and desires."

This

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By *9funboyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"It’s such a shame that you don’t respect your wife and that you don’t have a good enough relationship where you could be honest and open with each other."

What a massive assumption.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I have always been very open with mrs N and although she accepts my bi sexuality, dressing up is not her thing at all. Shame but as they say you can lead a horse to water but cannot always make it drink.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I casually mentioned some of the lads had said one of their mates had come out to his misses as bi and his misses had stayed with him and embraced it. Her reaction wasn't one of reassuring me she'd go for it

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

The most likely reaction is they leave. Next most likely is they demand it ends immediately.

Coming out with being a TV is a road to ruin but if you think she will be fine......... She won't!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire


"Admiral Ackbar said it best.

^^ That’s cryptic btw ^^"

It's a trap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I love sex in lingerie and she buys most of mine for me.

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By *ayleePhoenixTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Seems you two need to have a further open and honest conversation about desires.

But seems a bit unfair if she thinks it is OK for her to be bisexual but not for you.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I always tell my partner about my dressing and if it leads to a break up then too bad. The caveat is, she doesn’t need to be involved at all or with whatever she is comfortable with.

To be honest I think if your dressing is something you have a compulsion to do (like mine) then this was something you should’ve brought up sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most likely reaction is they leave. Next most likely is they demand it ends immediately.

Coming out with being a TV is a road to ruin but if you think she will be fine......... She won't! "

I feel bad for you, you must have had some terrible experiences xx I'm really lucky, my wife has always known about my feminine side. Where it became more of a challenge is when I told her I had gender issues rather than being a CD but we're there now and are stronger because of it.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"It’s such a shame that you don’t respect your wife and that you don’t have a good enough relationship where you could be honest and open with each other.

What a massive assumption."

Not really.

The op is on here as a single man when married. He's lying on a regular basis to his wife. Not just on this one time where she asked him... On the regular...

That's not love or respect.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"My wife and me were talking about sexy stuff the other night( she doesn’t know about my CD side)

She admired she would go down on a woman in the right circumstances. She then asked if I would suck a cock. A bit embarrassingly I said maybe a transvestite in the right circumstances (if only she knew how kinky I really am!)

Got me think what other ‘straight males’ would have said and what other ‘straight females ‘ would have thought of the answer?

My wife hasn’t looked at me the same since!!"

could be more the looks are the maybe sucking a transvestite part and not admitting you might suck a mans cock after all you said she under the right circumstances would go down on a woman.

She might view a transvestite same as you saying you wanted to be with another woman where if just another man as not competition and just something you wanted to explore.

If you do decide to discuss it further i would suggest keep it more vanilla and if she is open to the idea bring up the more kinky side of things gradually over time once you know what she would and would not be comfortable with.

Not quite the same but i had a regular guy wanted to start cross dressing its never been anything i was interested in had he gone full out with it i would have said no would have been a complete turn off for me .

over a 6 month period he gradually added more items of clothing once i got used and comfortable at each stage.

what ever you decide good luck and hope it works out for you.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"My wife and me were talking about sexy stuff the other night( she doesn’t know about my CD side)

She admired she would go down on a woman in the right circumstances. She then asked if I would suck a cock. A bit embarrassingly I said maybe a transvestite in the right circumstances (if only she knew how kinky I really am!)

Got me think what other ‘straight males’ would have said and what other ‘straight females ‘ would have thought of the answer?

My wife hasn’t looked at me the same since!!"

It’s just shocking to me how some guys are wasting their chances to come clean. You should have initiated this talk first place. Ok. You haven’t got the right moment and time but WHY lie on direct question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps let her know that you are on here masquerading as a single male?

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