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Protection on a first meet

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By *damjamie00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

I am curious to see how many are happy with bare back fun on the first meet if everyone is safe?

I am happy either way, just like to see if this is something with trust being built up first?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I will wear protection and for extra protection have snipers on the roof of each building in the area.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Define safe in this scenario.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Absolutely not.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Not on the first, not on the seventeenth, never. No way.

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By *damjamie00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Using a condom for the man, even if both are safe

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If both or all parties have a recent clean test, the condom goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms all the way.

Wether you use condoms or go bb, getting tested regularly, if you're ‘active’, is recommended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say they are safe then I chuck the condoms away. I trust strangers completely.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Using a condom for the man, even if both are safe"

So... who's happy with bareback fun, as long as the man wears a condom?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, there's absolutely no way of knowing if it's safe.

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Using a condom for the man, even if both are safe

So... who's happy with bareback fun, as long as the man wears a condom?"

That does not compute

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By *damjamie00 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslemere

Thank you all, condoms are definitely recommended

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Thank you all, condoms are definitely recommended"
Was this a test?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using a condom for the man, even if both are safe

So... who's happy with bareback fun, as long as the man wears a condom?"

If he wears it over his head then I'm in!

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Usually only play bare with hubby or the odd regular I’ve met, but very occasionally I’ve got carried away with a new playmate. It’s amazing at the time but then having to go pay £30 for a pill and then get tested kind of kills the mood after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought like a body guard or a couple of bro's for backup if things get gnarly.

What's a Durex?

I think he means a rubber Jonny!

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Astonishing the amount of people who don’t test and don’t use protection against sti’s

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Safe definitely, especially at a first encounter.

Just yesterday I was supposed to meet someone. I brought up condoms and he confessed he’s married so doesn’t have any. (he had quite a few verifications so not fake). Cancelled.

Imagine fucking behind someone’s back and not even protecting yourself or oblivious spouse. It’s mind boggling.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Safe definitely, especially at a first encounter.

Just yesterday I was supposed to meet someone. I brought up condoms and he confessed he’s married so doesn’t have any. (he had quite a few verifications so not fake). Cancelled.

Imagine fucking behind someone’s back and not even protecting yourself or oblivious spouse. It’s mind boggling."

People really don’t get the ethical in ethical non monogamy!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Maby I'm just paranoid, but apart from the obvoious health risks involved in unprotected sex, there is also the risk of pregnancy to be considered. I wouldn't want someone I barely know raising my child, and then being in a a lifelong parental partnership with them.....

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It’s not just the man’s responsibility to have protection. I always have it available, in multiple sizes, and non-latex too.

If it’s really that important to you I don’t know why they’d get all the way to your door without having had the conversation beforehand.

And there is nothing ‘unethical’ about unprotected sex if it’s consensual, even with multiple partners. Unsurprisingly, people have been having it for millennia. Nobody has the right to tell me what I can and can’t do with my own body, as long as I’m not misleading others in any way.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"It’s not just the man’s responsibility to have protection. I always have it available, in multiple sizes, and non-latex too.

If it’s really that important to you I don’t know why they’d get all the way to your door without having had the conversation beforehand.

And there is nothing ‘unethical’ about unprotected sex if it’s consensual, even with multiple partners. Unsurprisingly, people have been having it for millennia. Nobody has the right to tell me what I can and can’t do with my own body, as long as I’m not misleading others in any way.

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Oh exactly, the unethical part is not testing, not asking about protection before Meeting and cheating on an unknowing partner

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It’s not unethical to not test either. Irresponsible maybe, but not unethical - not everyone shares the same values. misleading somebody about being tested would be unethical.

And cheating is wrong irrespective of whether it’s protected or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious to see how many are happy with bare back fun on the first meet if everyone is safe?

I am happy either way, just like to see if this is something with trust being built up first? "

First meet or first fuck? Some of us have socials first and not fuck on first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel happier when there's a couple of big bouncers

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

no such thing as safe sex only safer sex

everyone should test if you play safer or not just because someone is wearing a condom dont mean you cant catch anything sex involes hands n mouth too as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

It isn't worth the risk for 30 seconds of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no such thing as safe sex only safer sex

everyone should test if you play safer or not just because someone is wearing a condom dont mean you cant catch anything sex involes hands n mouth too as well

"

And toys

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