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meeting your partner on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

I was just thinking if anyone has meet there current or previous partners on the site? Was it good to have a partner that swang or the worst thing imaginable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never dated someone off the internet, tho its tempting, ive always just found it a bit odd, no idea why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 in 4 people now meet via the net

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i meant has anyone met their current partner on this site or another swinging site?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"i meant has anyone met their current partner on this site or another swinging site?"

loads have... some worked, some not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know to extremmly happy "couples" who met off here and they both love swinging scene thats what brought them together and in both cases they have moved in together etc

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

It happens a lot on here , I personally know of two couples who met on the site and both are still going strong , good luck to them, doesnt matter what your looking for , if love comes it comes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my fella on a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way we all have such crazy lives it makes sense to meet your partners on the internet now I think. easiest way to find the right person really. and if this is what you are into, then surely this is the best place to meet the right person for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the way we all have such crazy lives it makes sense to meet your partners on the internet now I think. easiest way to find the right person really. and if this is what you are into, then surely this is the best place to meet the right person for you"

spot on! its not easy converting someone to swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my current partner on here and although neither of us were looking for love it found us. Yes its working really well. I know a few couples that have met on here.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive met quite a few partners off the net Ive only met one off this site that I moved in with. I wouldnt say it was love,we had a few good times. The sex and exploration was great. We never swung together I dont know if she was active behind my back. It didnt last but plenty more fish in the sea as they say.

Id rather have repeat meets than one offs because things get better or should with time. Good luck to all the succesful peeps that have met off here or anywhere and future meets/relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've pretty much had all my success through the net. Busy lifestyle means it's a lot easier.

If you're out in public you don't know who's already attached and just happens to be out with their mates. (Therefore you'd be making unwanted advances etc).

Online in the profile you have their sexual preference, what they're looking for and a little bit about them. Most of the time you are able to make a more sober choice before speaking to someone instead of garbling out a load of crap after a few pints.

Shyness comes on both sides and the online part allows people to get the opening lines/icebreaker part out the way quite quickly. If you find a couple of things in common arrange a drink in a neutral place and go from there unless you both notice an obvious click, in which case you can suggest other things quicker.

Online also opens up a world of people that you may not meet in town due to financial/personal issues. You might meet someone you like that you'd never see in town because they either can't get the child care that easily, or don't have the money, or when they do they pick the one night that you choose not to go. Etc.

As for fab imparticular. I don't think it would matter too much where you meet them. At least on here you know a little more about who they've met and what they've done via verification though people who don't use fab and just use PoF etc could still be sleeping with a similar number of people, except it's obviously more private in that sense.

Most of the people i've met have been repeat meets also so i've not been too unlucky in that sense. Sometimes it can be too time consuming looking for someone new so to do that every week would kill a lot of time. Not to mention first meets are always a little different so sometimes it can be a refreshing change to go and see someone you get on well with as a friend also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner on a swinging site (not this site thou), we have been together for 6 years and are getting married in a few days it's wonderful neither of us set out to meet a life partner thou, in fact i definetly didn't want that but once i met him i fell in love and that was that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we meet on here and getting married this summer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone special through fab, though neither of us are ready for a full on relationship, we have genuine feelings for each other and really care about each other, we are keeping it as friends for now.

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By *almh5Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I met my partner on a different swinging site and its been 5 years. Occasionally I wish I hadnt met him on here as I know who he's fucked and quite frankly I wouldnt have gone near them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My (now) husband was my first ever meet! long story but it sure saves having to explain what you like to get up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in the chat rooms on this site texts became night long phone calls then a few dates and next love. We have been together over a year now and love that we both understand and accept each other's choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not looking to find "the one" on here but if it happens the so be it and go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my partner on a swinging site (not this site thou), we have been together for 6 years and are getting married in a few days it's wonderful neither of us set out to meet a life partner thou, in fact i definetly didn't want that but once i met him i fell in love and that was that "

We met on another site 5 years ago and coming up our second wedding anniversary. Hope all goes well for the wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on another site 8 years ago and havnt looked back. Since then we have a house, 2 sons, a successful business and a sex life that neither of us thought would've happened with our previous partners.

Funny really as we only arranged to meet up for sex, but hey, thats life, and its great.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We met on here just under a year ago. Neither looking for a relationship, just some NSA fun. Fell in love and haven't looked back. Both open to helping the other realise some of their fantasies. Congratulations to those who've been lucky and have a great day to those planning nuptials. Saucy & Mike x

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope, I abducted mine from a bar (Literally. Pirate fancy dress and everything!).

It'd be a pretty interesting way to meet though. It's a shared interest and a shortcut into talking about personal things comfortably in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both had single profiles on Fabs but we met in a club by chance. The same scenario with most other posters, not looking for love but found it. We're both very happy and still enjoying this wonderful lifestyle

I know other people who have met the same way and it hasn't worked out (such is life) but there seems to be a common denominator. When they met they stopped swinging. Ultimately one of the two would want to carry on swinging and that caused the rift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also depends if the 2 people are ready for a relationship.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

we met on another site in a mfmf, with other partners. The fact that we are together owes much to the inability of our former partners to diferentiate between swinging and a relationship. Having both seen and experienced this, our relationship is about total respect, love and trust. We really are each others lobster in our hearts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted:Single lady

NSA

Single guy seeks single fem for a life time of fun and frollix .....inbox me please from potential fems and I will get back to you.

[checking my inbox]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met my current partner on here. Also met my hubby (now divorced) 12 years ago on the net.

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By *ewbiecouplerusCouple
over a year ago

southport

I met my current partner on fabs,we both had single profiles,we hit it off straight away,,its great we have no reason to lie or cheat,never a dull moment in the bedroom,,we've been together nearly 3 years and are getting married next year,,it worked for us,,sam

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I wouldn't expect to meet a partner on this or any other site merely as I am not looking for a relationship.

The moment I feel a guy is getting too 'close' he's gone. I have no desire to hurt anyone.

Although I do have an fb I have been seeing regularly for the past 18months we both know what it is all about. We have fun, are good friends and sometimes socialise - but we are both single and free to do what we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP meant have you stumbled across your current/ EX on here or another site? Not you met them on here, or has anyone met up with an ex after seeing them on a site like this

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I think the OP meant have you stumbled across your current/ EX on here or another site? Not you met them on here, or has anyone met up with an ex after seeing them on a site like this "

Well, in that case - no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O I stumbled across and ex"s best mate ...

and now Im blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my partner on a swinging site (not this site thou), we have been together for 6 years and are getting married in a few days it's wonderful neither of us set out to meet a life partner thou, in fact i definetly didn't want that but once i met him i fell in love and that was that

We met on another site 5 years ago and coming up our second wedding anniversary. Hope all goes well for the wedding "

Thank you

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Debs and I met on Mingingheaven

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By *T_LEECouple (MM)
over a year ago

near you

I met my wife on here. Was quite akward as she thought I was busy at work and I thought she was at home looking after the kids.

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

I'd love to but no one can cope or keep up with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fruit & I met on here...so far so very good

Fusion

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"I met my wife on here. Was quite akward as she thought I was busy at work and I thought she was at home looking after the kids. "

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