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One extrem to the other !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One extrem to the other !!!!!

Give us examples of people (no names etc); that you have met off FAB who the opposite to your expectations

Example;

A couple say they are shy and reserved; but when you meet they are agoobing in your face couple lol

or (one im sure some of us had)

You meet someone who has duped you and in the crudest of terms turns out is a right minger with the personality of a dead wet fish

Happy Fabbing

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Spoke to a charming man. Exchanged pics, his face matched his prose: charming.

Arranged a meet. He walked in front of me into the pub and didn't hold the door open. He strode to the bar and ordered himself a drink. When I pulled him up his response was "it's not a date!"

I left. He phoned me asking what did he do wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and where back in the room !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had guys use false pics for example one used a pic commonly found on google and it was definately not him.

My fav though i a guy who walked past me into the bar after looking straight at me. I waited to see if he had recognised me. Then i sat in coffee shop opposite and watched as he text me saying he had been jumped had his phone knicked and was very sorry he couldnt make it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have had guys use false pics for example one used a pic commonly found on google and it was definately not him.

My fav though i a guy who walked past me into the bar after looking straight at me. I waited to see if he had recognised me. Then i sat in coffee shop opposite and watched as he text me saying he had been jumped had his phone knicked and was very sorry he couldnt make it. "

what an arse he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had guys use false pics for example one used a pic commonly found on google and it was definately not him.

My fav though i a guy who walked past me into the bar after looking straight at me. I waited to see if he had recognised me. Then i sat in coffee shop opposite and watched as he text me saying he had been jumped had his phone knicked and was very sorry he couldnt make it. "

did you tell him you knew he was lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh i text back saying i could see him he never replied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yh i text back saying i could see him he never replied lol"

Haha good on ya! Like ya style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yh i text back saying i could see him he never replied lol"

That's proably because he was abducted by aliens at that very moment and was replaced by a replica droid.

The shite that people come out with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yh i text back saying i could see him he never replied lol

That's proably because he was abducted by aliens at that very moment and was replaced by a replica droid.

The shite that people come out with..."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had guys use false pics for example one used a pic commonly found on google and it was definately not him.

My fav though i a guy who walked past me into the bar after looking straight at me. I waited to see if he had recognised me. Then i sat in coffee shop opposite and watched as he text me saying he had been jumped had his phone knicked and was very sorry he couldnt make it. "

He texted you to say he'd had his phone nicked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lady peachy bum

Having viewed you it is hard to see how he could mistake you even in crowded room - i think he just got plain scred or his wife rang him telling his dinner was on

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I once got chatting to a woman who claimed she was divorced (on a different site to this), we chatted on cam, on phone, there were no restrictions on times I could chat etc - all seemed fine.

We arranged to meet at a coffee shop in Manchester and 10 mins after sitting down, an irate man walked in heading for our table - it was her HUSBAND!! Thankfully, he knew I had been duped because she had done it before and gave her a mouthful before dragging her out. I sat sheepishly for a minute before casually walking out, feeling the eyes all glaring at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a girl off here a couple of weeks back. Had a social meet, so we chatted lots, and had a few giggles and laughs, seemed really nice. We then back to hers had some fun & I left in the morning, arranging to meet again. But then she decided to leave fab due to 'all the grief she was getting off guys' who were giving her 'verbal abuse' etc, and how the whole experience made her feel 'YUCK!', anyway we stayed in touch, and I listened to her telling me about the aggro still, and I tried to offer her advice on how to deal with it.

Then last night she messages to say that she has had a terrible weekend because an old flame from a year ago has been in touch and 'battered her head'. So I advised her to block him, her response was 'Oh no I couldn't ever do that, he's got me wrapped around my little finger'.

So I suggested that maybe she needed to get that situation sorted primarily, as well as deciding if the whole 'yuck' thing is for her. I don't think she took too kindly to my advice cos she then burst into a rant, telling me how I didn't understand, and what I said 'felt like a kick in the teeth'???? She also back tracked and said Fab was brilliant and she loved it haha.

Basically she did exactly what she said she hated, and gave out grief!

Anyway, I deleted & blocked her on kik, and email, but before I managed to block her on my phone, she sent me an apology lol, wasn't interested though........

BYE BYE, BYE BYE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had guys use false pics for example one used a pic commonly found on google and it was definately not him.

My fav though i a guy who walked past me into the bar after looking straight at me. I waited to see if he had recognised me. Then i sat in coffee shop opposite and watched as he text me saying he had been jumped had his phone knicked and was very sorry he couldnt make it.

He texted you to say he'd had his phone nicked? "

i thought it was just me who was wondering that.

we've had a couple of meets with couples where the fem was mysteriously ill and the bloke turned up on his own. first time we made our excuses and left. the second time i fancied a beer so we kept him in the pub til 11 and then tra produced a spontaneous migraine and we fucked him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that made me smile especially as i watched him do the text. he was definately caught red handed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jon Pete thanks i get recognised straight away at parties particularly if they see me from behind lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jon Pete thanks i get recognised straight away at parties particularly if they see me from behind lol

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oi stop putting yourself down huni you have pretty face to ok

and just befor some jump on me; no thats not a chat up line - just a old fashioned compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the ones that are cocky in emails but nervous wrecks when they turn up

Not had too many bad experiences - just the one guy that was 'clever' with his pics and then omitted to tell me that he had a stark resemblance to the Child Catcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thankyou Jon Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spoke to a charming man. Exchanged pics, his face matched his prose: charming.

Arranged a meet. He walked in front of me into the pub and didn't hold the door open. He strode to the bar and ordered himself a drink. When I pulled him up his response was "it's not a date!"

I left. He phoned me asking what did he do wrong! "

Some men are beyond rude!!! Lee is an absolute gentlemen at all times, whether swinging or not. He holds not only the building doors open, but also the car door; carries all the shopping; always walks on the outside of the pavement etc etc......of course he does swear like he has Tourette's but no-one is perfect I was joking on the last bit

Can't believe he had to ask what he'd done wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy very charming via messages,spoke on the phone had exchanged pics he looked quite nice,said he was not pushy and was just a drink n a social meet.

Met him in a bar i had walked past him not realising...he was at LEAST 10 years older then his pics had no teeth and just after we sat down hu thrust his hand up my skirt and wanted to know when we were fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i dont understand is. Just because your swinging, why does that mean your manners are out the window and the normal 'gentlemanly' behaviour has to come to an end?

It doesnt make sense to me..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One guy O spoke to local to me seemed very nice, polite, and was happy with a social meet first as I was very definitely not playing that night (time of the month).

We met for a drink and he did not stop asking me back to his. I had to say 'sorry but no' 4 times, then in the end I told him that if he couldn't take no for an answer in the pub he probably wouldn't take no for an answer in bed. He didn't like that! Blocked him as soon as I got home. Creepy!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"One guy O spoke to local to me seemed very nice, polite, and was happy with a social meet first as I was very definitely not playing that night (time of the month).

We met for a drink and he did not stop asking me back to his. I had to say 'sorry but no' 4 times, then in the end I told him that if he couldn't take no for an answer in the pub he probably wouldn't take no for an answer in bed. He didn't like that! Blocked him as soon as I got home. Creepy!"

One guy I spoke to. Damn fat fingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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One extrem to the other !!!!!

Give us examples of people (no names etc); that you have met off FAB who the opposite to your expectations

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There is no-one who I have met off Fab who was opposite to my expectations. That is because I am a adult woman, and I take responsibility for my own choices! I screen guys carefully, I meet in a public place first, and I have never been 'duped'!

OK, there was one guy who wasn't quite as handsome as his profile pic suggested (although he was a very nice guy) ... from that I learnt - don't meet guys who you haven't seen on cam first.

Other than that, my meets have always been lovely guys, and I hope they share my own good memories of our meets.

If you're regularly meeting people who don't live up to your expectations..... have you really done your 'screening' first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I've had several times now is that single guys will turn up for a social meet, barely be able to make eye contact with me, they then spend the whole evening bonding with my boyfriend about cars and sports etc.

I usually text after to say my bf would love to meet you again but I won't be bothering to show up!

Also had guys text my bf with chauvinistic remarks and jokes which is crazy as we have a cuck relationship and I'm the domme . Do they think we don't talk to each other? When I tell them to bugger off I'm apparently a crazy feminist!

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

We met a couple once. They were a single guy. Do I win?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

glad this topic was of interest to some ....

swinging lifestyle is our choice and we all have come across those who disappoint for various reasons; this and other similar topics i raise are to question - challenge and dare i say speak out about those occasions

Happy Fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady on the other hand messages were very short not so chatty,quite a random meet but she turned out to be lovely and bubbly and we got on like house on fire.

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

We didn't meet a couple,I guess they didn't show?

We didn't meet some guys,how we're we to know ?

We thought we were swingers ? We always show.

Now we are cautious, and now not so slow ?

But if you find us attractive ,give us a go ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a lady on the other hand messages were very short not so chatty,quite a random meet but she turned out to be lovely and bubbly and we got on like house on fire."

thats great; but i think you have to admit its a rare thing on here to go as easy as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We didn't meet a couple,I guess they didn't show?

We didn't meet some guys,how we're we to know ?

We thought we were swingers ? We always show.

Now we are cautious, and now not so slow ?

But if you find us attractive ,give us a go ? "

poets and they didnt know it lol

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

I met a woman from another site, we'd chatted for weeks on the phone and MSN and I got quite excited about seeing her.

We arranged to meet at a local pub, and it was clear she was distracted. Her phone rang and she took the call, it was her ex boyfriend. I sat there like a lemon as she implored him to take her back, her end piece was telling him she was in the Shaggers Arms with her new boyfriend...I made my excuses and left!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"My libido is high my testosterone flows

the more excited i get the bigger it grows"

"The pleasure it brings and smiles on the faces

the fun i have had in so many places"

"Hot and steamy warm or cold my heart thumps when i do things so bold"

"Who ever thought id ever go looking, to see how much fun id have doing the cooking"

What !!!!!! oh you thought it was a febble attempt at sex poem lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a woman from another site, we'd chatted for weeks on the phone and MSN and I got quite excited about seeing her.

We arranged to meet at a local pub, and it was clear she was distracted. Her phone rang and she took the call, it was her ex boyfriend. I sat there like a lemon as she implored him to take her back, her end piece was telling him she was in the Shaggers Arms with her new boyfriend...I made my excuses and left!"

lucky escape i think

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