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Real life vs ‘this life’ advice please..

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By *apperleyman OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good morning..

I have noticed a certain someone who I know (not well but enough to say hi) and I’ve always fancied in real life is on Fab.. some cracking photos too..

So.. do I

A) message her on facebook, messenger etc and say ‘fancy a shag’

B) message on Fab and say ‘hi.. it’s Kris, you’re on here wow.. fancy a shag?’

Or

C) Continue to ‘enjoy’ her pics..

Any advice is appreciated.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

C, let her find you and see what happens.

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By *apperleyman OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"C, let her find you and see what happens."

On here? Crikey as a single bloke she’d really need to do an intensive search..

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I don't think A is the right option. People want to draw a line between real life and fab. It's important that we respect that.

Between, B and C, it's up to you. How brave are you?

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By *apperleyman OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I don't think A is the right option. People want to draw a line between real life and fab. It's important that we respect that.

Between, B and C, it's up to you. How brave are you? "

I think you’re dead right - I’m fairly brave - been in the naked room at the attic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me before and I chose to go Facebook first, linked up in Fab life, and just as before we never hooked up in either life. Since then we continued to maintain distance in both.

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By *aps1Man
over a year ago

North Wales / Chester

Haha yeah I found an old friend on here and reached out to chat on messenger first. Built up the connection again before talking about fab. Nothing ever happened it was great to get her prospective on things. Still friends lol

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

If you message and literally say fancy a shag I’d like to guess her response will look like this

Her

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By *apperleyman OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If you message and literally say fancy a shag I’d like to guess her response will look like this

Her "

Well I may add a few extra words in there… fortune favours the brave etc.. lol

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I’d message he and see if you strike up a convo, this platform is for meeting for sex and Facebook isn’t so I’d say this way is less creepy

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I’d message he and see if you strike up a convo, this platform is for meeting for sex and Facebook isn’t so I’d say this way is less creepy "
concur x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning..

I have noticed a certain someone who I know (not well but enough to say hi) and I’ve always fancied in real life is on Fab.. some cracking photos too..

So.. do I

A) message her on facebook, messenger etc and say ‘fancy a shag’

B) message on Fab and say ‘hi.. it’s Kris, you’re on here wow.. fancy a shag?’

Or

C) Continue to ‘enjoy’ her pics..

Any advice is appreciated. "

what about b) part 2:

message on Fab and say ‘hi.. it’s Kris, you’re on here wow.. spotted you the other day at ...not to worry were all here for similar reasons ... fancy a chat/grab a drink'

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By *isterE ManMan
over a year ago

Taunton

If you go B.

Make it crystal clear that it all stays on FAB. Dont make her run for the shotgun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a complete idiot would do A

Option B is fine but do not ask for a shag like an idiot. So with that, I can’t say B is fine either

Option C is acceptable but youl always want to reach out.

Consider option D, send her a wink and fab her photos. If she comes to you for a chat that’s good, if she doesn’t then back to option C

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Contact her on fab, say who you are and that if she chooses not to meet you that's the end of the story you will maintain discretion.

Being contacted away from fab can come across as creepy. At least here you're laying your cards on the table

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By *apperleyman OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

All sound advice - thanks guys.

I have messaged her on here - not asking for a shag but a nice opening message also saying complete discretion etc..

Fingers crossed however she probably gets hundreds of messages.. we will see..

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