FabSwingers.com forum: Outfitd for socials

By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Had a social yesterday and the lady wore jeans is that normal?. Previous socials it never happened.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

What did you wear?

I always wear jeans for socials, they should be very chilled for everyone in my opinion. Casual chat to see if we get on, plus there is a chance of being stood up, so personally, I don't make much effort bar the basics.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

What were you expecting her to wear,boiler suit and a sombrero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you wear?

If a woman is more comfortable in jeans then let her be.

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Did you turn up in a full gimp suit and feel a little over dressed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a social yesterday and the lady wore jeans is that normal?. Previous socials it never happened."
not sure where the issue is here?

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By *rgyll_LadMan
over a year ago

Around

"What were you expecting her to wear,boiler suit and a sombrero

I'm sure I've seen that outfit in Mexican Plumber porn before...

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

How dare she not turn up in strappy lingerie, suspenders and heels, the very horror. Does she not know she should cater to your likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you expect her to wear, a ballgown? Maids outfit? I mean jeans are pretty standard attire.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends where the social is tbh, if it was a coffee then yeah I'd wear jeans, to the pub/bar I'd probably wear a dress.

Mrs

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I had trousers and a shirt on.

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I thought a dress or skirt would more appropriate maybe I'm just been oldfashioned though.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What were you expecting her to wear,boiler suit and a sombrero

OMG!!!! If anyone would happily meet me for a social wearing that, preferably somewhere classy rather than Greg's or wetherspoons.....then I'm buying!

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

It was a pub then restaurant

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes ,she probably wore what was comfortable for her..

A social is just to see if theres attraction & you hit it off,well it is for me anyway.

I've worn jeans for a day social before & dresses too.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

two zones: casual/easy wear or elegant/sensual wear ... x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a social yesterday and the lady wore jeans is that normal?. Previous socials it never happened."

I wear what I'm comfortable and confident in...that's often a dress because I like wearing them but has been jeans and boots before because I know I look fab in them...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's a social so I don't see why a woman wearing jeans would be an issue ? I think I've worn jeans and a nice top to some before. I'm meeting just to see if we get on well or not in person. I'm not going to get dressed up in sexy lingerie etc for a social and if someone had an issue with that or expected more it wouldn't go beyond a social either.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Nothing wrong with that at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I thought a dress or skirt would more appropriate maybe I'm just been oldfashioned though."

What made you feel that was more appropriate? Did you go to smart venues where jeans were out of place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought a dress or skirt would more appropriate maybe I'm just been oldfashioned though."

Why did you not tell her what to wear before you met?

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I dint think that was the done thing.

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Well jeans are not the most easy access are they.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

Social is a social, easy access isn't required.

Mrs

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Most women i had a social ith usually wear a dress or skirt with stockings and suspenders

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By *eamed stocking fan OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

It is the first time anyone wore Jeans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear jeans to a social. A social is a casual thing, it's not a job interview that requires a skirt or dress

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

If you use reply+quote we know who you're talking to

Why do you need easy access for a social or had you agreed that your social was going to be followed by sex?

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

This is a weird initial post OP. Not sure you’re doing yourself a great deal of good

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

She wore whatever she was comfortable in, that's what matters. And a social isnt a guarantee you'll take things further, her clothes don't have to be easy access.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Most women i had a social ith usually wear a dress or skirt with stockings and suspenders "

Define 'most' ?

I'll skip the 'easy access' comment for now, but I've never in 15 years on here known women to generally wear stockings and suspenders to a social meet where you'll just be chatting.

What difference does what someone wears make when you're just talking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

If you require 'access' on a social you should tell her in advance so she can meet your demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would expect them to wear a white leather mini, fishnets and a pink crop top.

Oh and knee high boots.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"It is the first time anyone wore Jeans."

It's rare that I wear jeans but if I wore a dress/skirt I'd be wearing leggings under it. I certainly wouldn't be expecting me to need easy access if it was just a social

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

Which is exactly why I purposefully wear jeans for a social, it’s a social.

If you’re complaining about lack of ‘easy access’ you’re clearly wanting more than a social

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they.

If you require 'access' on a social you should tell her in advance so she can meet your demands. "

Or have the opportunity to say no if she’s not wanting the same too

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"Had a social yesterday and the lady wore jeans is that normal?. Previous socials it never happened."

For me it's perfectly normal as I like to dress comfortably if someone I'm meeting has a problem with that then it's their problem

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

And that's maybe why she wore them...

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"Personally I would expect them to wear a white leather mini, fishnets and a pink crop top.

Oh and knee high boots."

Is this the Frog that's never been kissed?

..Hahahaha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a disappointment!

I'd wear to a social whatever I liked and felt confident in. If that was jeans then I'd wear jeans.

If someone suggested to me or asked me to wear something for a social (especially someone I'd never met before) I'd probably strongly suggest that we're wholly incompatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they.

If you require 'access' on a social you should tell her in advance so she can meet your demands.

Or have the opportunity to say no if she’s not wanting the same too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I would expect them to wear a white leather mini, fishnets and a pink crop top.

Oh and knee high boots.

Is this the Frog that's never been kissed?

..Hahahaha..

Sadly the opposite.

And still a frog.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hope she isn't on here.... though sounds like she had a lucky escape!

"easy access" wtf

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

To be honest op if a woman turned up for a first social in a dress and stockings there wouldn't be a second meeting because I'd get the impression she was trying too hard and wasn't relaxed enough to be herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women i had a social ith usually wear a dress or skirt with stockings and suspenders "

Given the single meet veri on your profile and the others are cam, how many socials have you had?

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"Personally I would expect them to wear a white leather mini, fishnets and a pink crop top.

Oh and knee high boots.

Is this the Frog that's never been kissed?

..Hahahaha..

Sadly the opposite.

And still a frog."

I'm sure your not but from another planet...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."

It was a social.There is no need for easy access and someone expecting it to mean that they can should get easy access is exactly one the reason I would wear jeans to a social. To me and most of the men I've met off here understand that before we met.

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