FabSwingers.com forum: Unplanned bareback

By *actilenorfolkgent OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Any guy ever had girl hop on and pop it in bare when playing, and how did you respond

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes a few times, I just stop them say just incase I don't want to get you pregnant or just have any give anything else.

They have always been ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use to see one lady who liked sex with my husband without a condom. She didn't just hop on though, she asked nicely first

was fine by us all

Mrs C

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By *ornyHunk80Man
over a year ago

Watford

Bareback is never accidental

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A guy we met had this happen, he was horrified and stopped her. If a man did this (it isn't accidental, ever) he'd be hung out to dry. It's never ok

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Not ok .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd lose my mind if someone did this to me, and men deserve to consent in exactly the same way women do.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

“Unplanned” and “bareback” don’t belong in the same sentence together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealthing then yeah? No, not cool. Not cool AT ALL.

This site makes me cringe at times.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"A guy we met had this happen, he was horrified and stopped her. If a man did this (it isn't accidental, ever) he'd be hung out to dry. It's never ok"

Sometimes its just forgotten to be spoken about that is what to me, but I just stop them and it's always been OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't something I would do. Ever.

Consent is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unplanned bareback and unplanned cum inside...

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

"Any guy ever had girl hop on and pop it in bare when playing, and how did you respond"

Yes last week with this law student. Big game no glove no love but after a hot 69 session you said I don't care anymore.

I want it inside me no condom and just rode me raw but still.said don't cum inside me..I'm not on birth control and we just met.

You gotta at least buy me dinner first with a smile. Then the bed started squeaking. Student rooms are shit.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Any guy ever had girl hop on and pop it in bare when playing, and how did you respond"

Most of the men I meet quite enjoy bareback (as do I)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've had men ask & its a no from me,I'd freak if they just tried bare & they'd be leaving.

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By *thello37Man
over a year ago

London

Call me old fashioned but I could not do the bareback gang bangs. The guy that goes in second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback is never accidental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't something I would do. Ever.

Consent is key. "

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By *alocheziaMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Second wouldn't be the worst I'd reckon. Number 54 would be a poorer figure.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

respect is total - ask, enquire and / or never presume x

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By *M_darksideCouple
over a year ago

Worksop

The Mrs has had a few guys slip in accidentally without a condom on

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Almost!

Other F was straddling and about to hop on. Mrs WW hand come flying and across and grabbed my cock!

In my defence she beat me by milli seconds.

We have rules about full swap and definitely about bare back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unplanned? How do you get to the point of being naked without having a the conversation about your STI risk acceptance levels. Unless it's at a club/event we usually have that conversation before the first social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never accidental.

It's assault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Mrs has had a few guys slip in accidentally without a condom on"

Did she carry on or....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time it's been accidental was recently when the condom came off inside me. Definitely not a stealth move as I was on top

Both fine about it afterwards as we'd already had a pre play chat about safe sex/sti tests recently

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Consent doesn’t have to be some big song and dance, or a bloody formal conversation beforehand, or something to virtue signal about.

On odd occasion the guy I’m with and myself have got carried away. We’ve paused, and either agreed that it’s okay to continue, or got protection.

We’re adults, and are capable of making that call mutually on a case by case basis. I’d expect to be called out if I got caught up and overstepped, and if a guy didn’t respect my boundaries a swift knee would suffice.

I don’t need other people telling me how my meets should and shouldn’t go

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Any guy ever had girl hop on and pop it in bare when playing, and how did you respond"

Yes Tony had it once, he had to stop her as hadn't been agreed with Cherry !

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

Happens all the time, gotta just go with it and enjoy the warm velvet. Funny when you say your going to cum and they push harder ??

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

Course she did ??

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

On the odd occasion I have pulled the condom off but that was my choice. He didn't complain.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

A girl in the room next to mine in magaluf climbed over to my balcony from hers .. to this day I don't know why she did that instead of walking in the room .. but yeah completely unplanned smashed her and she left the next day

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By *oyandJulieMan
over a year ago

blackburn

She asked me just to rub my bare cock on her pussy lips, which I did. No sooner had I started than she told me to fuck her so in it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not accidental and it’s not ok! Whatever happened to consent

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd break the thing if it was ever attempted.

Mrs!

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By *M_darksideCouple
over a year ago

Worksop

"The Mrs has had a few guys slip in accidentally without a condom on

Did she carry on or....?"

After a brief moments of awkwardness, she did. I think there was only 1 guy who then got rubbered up to continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Mrs has had a few guys slip in accidentally without a condom on

Did she carry on or....?

After a brief moments of awkwardness, she did. I think there was only 1 guy who then got rubbered up to continue."

How many were there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

undoubtedly the feeling of bareback is more enjoyable than gloved up. but unplanned is an absolute no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Mrs has had a few guys slip in accidentally without a condom on

Did she carry on or....?

After a brief moments of awkwardness, she did. I think there was only 1 guy who then got rubbered up to continue."

A lovely story to tell the kids how they were created.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bareback is never accidental

Not true, I was with the female half of a couple once who fucked the condom off me. It ended up inside her and I had to retrieve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's been a few times where I have sex with a woman with a condom on but she takes it off during a session

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
over a year ago

"“Unplanned” and “bareback” don’t belong in the same sentence together. "

This

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Bareback is never accidental

Not true, I was with the female half of a couple once who fucked the condom off me. It ended up inside her and I had to retrieve it

This happened to us too. Don’t know how it happened but was mortified in case the girl thought it was deliberate.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Bareback is never accidental

Not true, I was with the female half of a couple once who fucked the condom off me. It ended up inside her and I had to retrieve it

I've had this happen and play stops immediately.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Only time I could think it was accidental is if the condom split or came off.

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By *ucypherMan
over a year ago

Taunton

We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"The Mrs has had a few guys slip in accidentally without a condom on"

How can anyone slip in accidentally? Oh sorry is that a pussy I didn't realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating. "

If you already fucked bare, why put a condom on?

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By *ucypherMan
over a year ago

Taunton

I hadn't cum yet so it was relatively safe. Its more about the intensity of the taboo before sense kicks back in.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Happens to me all the time

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating.

If you already fucked bare, why put a condom on?"

When condoms have come off by mistake, I and/ or my partner have always operated on the basis of risk reduction - some exposure is better than more exposure, even if the ideal level of exposure is zero.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

It’s never accidental with us. We only play bareback when meeting a single guy or a couple. Sean will play safe if solo meet and it is what the lady wants

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By *oodymonsterMan
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury

There has been a few occasions when I have taken condoms as instructed but as things develop in the bedroom and I go to put one on they just stop me and climb on.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Absolutely not ok.

Conversations are always had prior to this though. Open communication is the most important part of non monogamous relationships of any kind I feel.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

On a first meet , being teased and grind'd on...knowing how close everything was I stayed absolutely stock still ( making no movements whatsoever) as had previously spoken about not without a condom and that was OK...

Eventually , law of averages means it goes in...and a quick talk of 'well , we're both adults ' ....and we carried on from there,...although I damn near had to throw her off me before i came ...

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By *ustsnowMan
over a year ago

London

It's never ok to do that.

I had a close call once when a lady from here nearly went through with it.

Just as she was about to proceed with guiding my bare cock inside her, I intervened, and she swiftly turned around, confidently stating, "I'm clear." Without hesitation, I challenged her by saying, "Prove it."

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

I have had this happen to me,I was confused really as to how to respond but my cock soon told me that this was a game he wasn't playing!

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

I like a game of Russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a game of Russian roulette

Is it really?

Someone going bareback has a 1 in 6 chance of dying instantly?

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"Consent doesn’t have to be some big song and dance, or a bloody formal conversation beforehand, or something to virtue signal about.

On odd occasion the guy I’m with and myself have got carried away. We’ve paused, and either agreed that it’s okay to continue, or got protection.

I don’t need other people telling me how my meets should and shouldn’t go "

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By *lud4you2Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Any guy ever had girl hop on and pop it in bare when playing, and how did you respond"

Iv put a condom on had her doggy after about 5-10 mins pulled out and the condom was split all the way god knows how or why it happened just said that god it sometimes takes an hr or two to cum lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I get sometimes there are miscommunications or false assumptions. Things often flow naturally with a level of implied or assumed consent. Rarely do people enter into sex after going though a 10 page booklet of each others do's and don'ts.

However establishing clear consent over the use of a condom before penetration of vagina or anus I always understood as standard requirement? I thought that was a clear duty of everyone? Doesn't have to be a big deal. She could have simply said something like I won't to ride you bare, is that ok? Then waited for the guys consent or refusal to the prospect.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I hadn't cum yet so it was relatively safe. Its more about the intensity of the taboo before sense kicks back in."

You can still catch something

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating. "

And you know women can get pregnant from precum?

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"A girl in the room next to mine in magaluf climbed over to my balcony from hers .. to this day I don't know why she did that instead of walking in the room .. but yeah completely unplanned smashed her and she left the next day "

The mills and boon rose, is the rose of romance

I’m showing my age !

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating.

And you know women can get pregnant from precum?"

Think he needs to go back to school.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating.

And you know women can get pregnant from precum?

Think he needs to go back to school.

It's incredibly scary how ignorant some people are

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating.

And you know women can get pregnant from precum?

Think he needs to go back to school.

It's incredibly scary how ignorant some people are

If I may play devil's advocate here this may not be an act of blind ignorance? Sex, especially in a promiscuous context caries risk and we choose the level of risk that is acceptable to us with the other/s involved. For example this isn't a risk I would take however like the vast majority on here I will accept an unprotected blow job. That is an example of the level of a genuine risk I'm willing to take in this lifestyle style based on risk v reward. Granted what is being said is true although the risks of a couple of strokes is a fair bit less than a hard thrusting until completion especially with regards pregnancy.

So my point is this may be a shared calculated risk vs enjoyment rather than blind ignorance. As is many things in this lifestyle. Personally I believe a risk too far but who am I to dictate the level of risk to two consenting adults?

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"I hadn't cum yet so it was relatively safe. Its more about the intensity of the taboo before sense kicks back in.

You can still catch something

and still get pregnant!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"We both just enjoyed the pleasure for a moment and then put a condom on.. the intensity of those moments are intoxicating.

And you know women can get pregnant from precum?

Think he needs to go back to school.

It's incredibly scary how ignorant some people are

I mean the not knowing women can get pregnant, without the man actually cumming inside them.

Obviously everyone knows there is always some risk, of something, with you are intimate with people.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

I don't mind as long as I can go in second and clean up

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

... Yes and no. Depends how you define it.

We had one meet, first time of actually playing with this particular couple. It was their first time in a club environment. The ladies are upright on their knees kissing and exploring each other with their hands. The males are behind them.

We all acknowledged beforehand it was safe sex.

I'm behind the wife of the other couple and kissing her neck, caressing, all that stuff and as I get hard it starts just touching her pussy. When it's rock hard naturally it's kind of pushing against a tiny bit.

And she keeps grinding back, little bit more each time. Never acknowledging what she was doing, just doing it. Before I changed position I wasn't necessarily fully balls deep in, but I most certainly wasn't fully out either.

I shifted positions and put on a rubber.

Can't deny, it was an insane turn on.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

We had a regular guy who we would invite over for mmf he always used a condom then one time it broke and my ex got an accidental creampie. From then on we let him fuck her bareback. I used to love guiding his bare cock into her knowing he was going to spunk inside her

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By *rsecreteyesMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Yes it’s really hot.

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over a year ago

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I’ve had the occasional condom split or come off in use but always stop and replace.

Was at VA in a group session and stopped fucking, pulled the condom off and then a minute or two later the girl tried to climb back on my cock whilst my face was being sat on. Luckily someone gave her the “woah there, woah!” because my awareness of surroundings was limited to a pair of great thighs and a delicious pussy.

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