FabSwingers.com forum: Why start a conversation when you’re 200+ miles away

By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago

Seaham

I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ?

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By *eastZMan
over a year ago

London

Because people travel and have fun in different setups. Ofc I understand some ladies want regular locals, but I also believe in building networks and friendships.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Because people can be very interesting people to get too know build up a lovely connection and might be a possibility for either to travel some time in the near future....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's nice to send someone a message if their profile is worthy of it or, possibly they just want to message someone they think might want to just message, not sex talk just a nice conversation. I do however think that a lot of people (guys) on here want to be crude for wank material and degrade a lady which I hope isn't the case here.

Peace and love.

John.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel plans, general awe, fantasy, good chat on cam, etc.?

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Because people travel and have fun in different setups. Ofc I understand some ladies want regular locals, but I also believe in building networks and friendships.

I’m glad someone said that think that’s a great point

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The million pound or dollar question

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't mind as much if its someome i've interacted with in the forum who wants to chat.

If they're absolutley miles away I find it a bit pointless,I prefer someone to at least be in the same half of the country as me.

I once had a bloke ask to meet me & he was in Dover!.

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

We've had visitors from Australia, New Zealand, and from the Midlands. We talk to everybody, you never know what is going to happen and let's face it on such a small country nobody is more than 15 hours away.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We won't play local all our meetings have been a fair distance away. She's more relaxed and comfortable knowing we won't bump into family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like talking to others and making friends.

Some who we have talked to we hope to see at the swingaton. Others we may meet or never meet but we can still be friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We speak to anyone from anywhere. When we originally met on here, there were 100 miles between us, we made it work (somehow).

We do however travel the country visiting all different places on our “us” weekends, so we like to make friends everywhere.

Mrs

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We like to travel so it's always good to strike up conversations with people further afield. Obviously not for a regular thing but we have made trips to see friends on here and they have come to us.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Because people like to chat and get to know people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because people like to chat and get to know people on here "

Exactly. I chat with lots of people who I'll never meet due to distance, dont see the problem.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes it's a good thing

Sometimes people don't think.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I chat to people from miles away we know we'll never meet because of the distance, but I like just chatting on here getting to know people.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some of my best meets were with people who live over 200 miles away (alas

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? "

I feel this, unless folks were already travelling to Dorset I wouldn't want them to travel all that way on our account

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Have to agree with the OP I don't really see the point chances of meeting are slim to zero

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Because people like to chat and get to know people on here

Exactly. I chat with lots of people who I'll never meet due to distance, dont see the problem."
if I didn't chat with people miles away from me id chat to nobody because trying to get a reply from people around me is like trying to find a needle in a hay barn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn! I’d be on the first train for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles

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By *mateur100Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

Some of us won't shit on our own doorstep

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witchery wish lane

Because its just nice to chat sometimes lol its a sex site but can still make friends lol I chat to people all over the country in fact I even chat in other countries, its not wasting time, its using your time and I've travelled to meet someone that I thought was worth it

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles "
maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods.

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By *thello37Man
over a year ago

London

I personally like travelling as I find people more honest and upfront than I do people in London. I live in London but rarely meet in London.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods. "

Sure.

I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

Sure.

I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message."
your loss

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Distance has never put me off starting a conversation with someone or travelling to meet them

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very occasionally you see an outstanding profile and it can happen

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

Sure.

I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message."

I’d delete it too, not something I could enjoy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why not?

You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.

Sure.

I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message.your loss "

My choice

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I will reply to any message to be polite even if they are not what I’m looking for in my profile and the last thing I look at is their location… distance shouldn’t matter and if you make a friend all the better…. And you never know you might be in the vicinity one day….

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes.

I have no idea why I'm constantly winked by people in Scotland or Northern Ireland.

Yeah, chat certainly but show your interest with a wink? Why?

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yes.

I have no idea why I'm constantly winked by people in Scotland or Northern Ireland.

Yeah, chat certainly but show your interest with a wink? Why?maybe they may not know what to say in a message and they just want to break the ice

Quiet you...

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Yes.

I have no idea why I'm constantly winked by people in Scotland or Northern Ireland.

Yeah, chat certainly but show your interest with a wink? Why?maybe they may not know what to say in a message and they just want to break the ice

Quiet you...

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never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same question new thread! Reap what you sow.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol"

Good comment i do the exact same as yous x

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol

Good comment i do the exact same as yous x

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I'm more than happy to travel distance to meet people.. some of my best meets were miles away...a lot of people are happy to travel 200 miles +

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Radcliffe

It's never gonna happen so just ignore x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message asking if I could pop over for a spontaneous play session.... They were 250 miles away

like yeah sure, I'll be there in 3 hours

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol"

Yep. I make trips to visit people I really like. Hundreds of miles are no big deal. I live next to an airport.

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I drove over 4 hours to my last meet and then home the next day. Next week I’ll be driving to London again this time for a week and I have 2 meets planned. Yes I understood that not all will travel but some do and will and yes I cover the hotel, it’s my week away that I share with others.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol

Yep. I make trips to visit people I really like. Hundreds of miles are no big deal. I live next to an airport."

Ooh very handy

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By *rooMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

What's wrong with chatting,making acquaintances, there's always something to learn from talking to other people?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Some people are happy to travel that far.

Mrs

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By *holelotofrosieCouple
over a year ago

newtown

If you live in the middle of nowhere like us , travelling is the only option !

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I once had a woman travel to Dubai to spend a long weekend with me. We'd previously met on a ski holiday and had a bit of a kiss on the last night. We wanted to take it further but I was living in central Asia.

The Dubai weekend was the start of something great for over a year.

I'm hoping a new friend is going to join me in Switzerland for a few days next month.

Both of these women live (or lived) in different countries to me, but boy, am I glad we chatted.

Gbat

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Because they could be planning ahead, for a time they are visiting your area with work, family get together, sports event etc? I set up local searches for an area I’m going to be in on a future date, as you just never know who might be looking for a cheeky hotel meet while I’m there…..

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

"Because people travel and have fun in different setups. Ofc I understand some ladies want regular locals, but I also believe in building networks and friendships.

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correct and clear xx Anne

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By *thello37Man
over a year ago

London

In my time I have travelled to Athens and Sydney and combined with a holiday.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

At that distance I just add the person to my hotlist so I can perve from a far

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I returned a message from a guy 100 miles away. As the conversation went along, he wondered if I would drive to him and bring him back to my place ??

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