FabSwingers.com forum: Dominant or submissive or switch

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For those of you that are even D or s or a switch do you find that you can be that for anyone or does it need to be someone specific?

For me the most important thing is the mental connection. I say that for me it’s 90% in the head and 10% in the bedroom (or wherever).

It takes a special type of person to bring out my Dominant side and if not I’m actually quite vanilla.

It takes time to build a connection for me to truly feel Dominant with someone and that may not actually happen at all.

So for all of us who are in or dip our toes into the lifestyle what do you need or want to be able to dominate or submit to or switch with a person and could you have a happy sexual life if you never found that connection again?