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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " Talk openly and earnestly about what excites you. But if she needs "convincing" it's probably not a good thing. Gbat | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " Take her to a swingers club amd tell her to enjoy herself. | |||
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"Show her your profile, great ice breaker!" ^^^^ This | |||
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"Show her your profile, great ice breaker!" Exactly what I was thinking. Show her how much fun you're having without her. She'll soon be up for shagging others, though I doubt she'll ever let you touch her again | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious " On reflection, what does she think about that gorgeous woman you are fucking in your pics? She could ask her what she thought about her MFM and you could take it from there? Gbat | |||
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"Beg and badger her about it when she doesn't want to. Ruin relationship, get divorced. She will soon be having sex with another guy. Sorted." Love this one. | |||
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"Beg and badger her about it when she doesn't want to. Ruin relationship, get divorced. She will soon be having sex with another guy. Sorted." | |||
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"Beg and badger her about it when she doesn't want to. Ruin relationship, get divorced. She will soon be having sex with another guy. Sorted." Add I show her your profile if she doesn't know about it and jibs a goodun OP you can't convince or persuade ahe has to give her willing and enthusiastic consent with no pressure. And if you don't already look at porn together then tread carefully. Most porn is for male consumption so choose wisely what you show her if you do that. | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious On reflection, what does she think about that gorgeous woman you are fucking in your pics? She could ask her what she thought about her MFM and you could take it from there? Gbat " ................................. Unfortunately a reverse image search reveals some of the OPs pictures have been clipped from the Internet! | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " You can't. And even if you could, you shouldn't. If she ever shows an interest, you could suggest she reads 'How to be a Swinger.' | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " You don't convince her you have a conversation, a open and honest one, show her your profile, give her a fab tour explain your reasons why. Mrs | |||
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"Maybe she should be allowed to have her opinion on this? S" .. this | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? You don't convince her you have a conversation, a open and honest one, show her your profile, give her a fab tour explain your reasons why. Mrs " Exactly this. Talk to each other, don’t hide things from her. It hurts like hell finding out a partner has been lying and seeing other people behind your back but being honest is a big step at making things work if you truly want them to. Don’t hide fantasy’s no matter what they are, straight, bi or anything in between, you never know she may be more open than you think she is but all the time you keep hiding, lying and cheating making her feel worthless and unwanted your just pushing her away | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " She's right to be suspicious given that you've been on here over a year and have had at least 3 in person non social meets In my opinion you don't have the sort of relationship that is suitable for swinging. Honesty is key. Nita | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " How did you convince her to let you fuck other women? | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " You can't, she has to convince herself. If she doesn't tuff shit! | |||
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"Show her your profile, great ice breaker!" And you will die slowly and painfully | |||
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"How do u know she isn't already fucking other men/couples? She was round ours last week and been used by most of the guys on here over the years" Not me. Have I missed out again? | |||
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"Beg and badger her about it when she doesn't want to. Ruin relationship, get divorced. She will soon be having sex with another guy. Sorted." Short and sweet of it all lmao Try approaching visiting a club that way there's no pressure to play but just having a good night out You'll probably find she'll end up playing if someone catches her eye but the choice has to be hers even if you are married x | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? How did you convince her to let you fuck other women?" That's the easy part,we all know how easy it is to get her to let you do it, it will happen.....NEVER!! | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " Maybe being on Fab with a single profile isn't the best place to start | |||
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"Why would anyone want to coerce their partner into doing something they don't want to do? Also, the OP is a single guy profile with no mention of his wife. I don't believe in monogamy, but for those that do, isn't this a bit....dodgy? Where's the consent from your wife for any of this?" Absolutely well said | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " You don't convince people, stop pressuring her. | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " You don't. If someone isn't comfortable with the idea of swinging then it isn't swinging. | |||
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"You don't convince her. You talk to her about why you like the idea as a fantasy and ask her if she likes the idea" This is what we done too, after bringing it up for a while we finally talked about the idea and what I like etc, she agreed to go along with it and see how she felt, we created an account on here and have just been browsing for a few months now. We haven't progressed and probably wont to be honest. As much as I want to get involved in these type of things you cant make the other person do it if they dont want to. If they dont enjoy these type of things, even after the suggestions people have made above then realistically its not going to happen. I am sure your wife would have give you some indication by now if she enjoyed this type of thing? | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? How did you convince her to let you fuck other women?" | |||
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"Show her your profile, great ice breaker! And you will die slowly and painfully " | |||
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"If you have to convince her it’s never gonna work " This! | |||
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"Wish my Indian wife would fuck others she is so hot a slut in bed for me " Mine too! | |||
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"Can't say I had to convince mine. However a lot of reassurance that it was OK. And then we built up. From some soft play to full play. Now we have just started on a adventure with a friend. We're she is a shared wife between me and him. Most of this is all about reassurance and Comunication." Are you not afraid she will go off with him? | |||
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"Been trying for years to explore this she's now wanting to try I wanna see her sucking a monster Cock thick I love watching her on mine it's only average " It’s a pretty decent average! | |||
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"Going for a drink tonight with the lady probably bedworth any couples want to have a drink see where it goes or vwe guys " I predict she's going to be ill and not make it | |||
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"Guess nobody wants me to be with their hotwifes alone? Its fine lol" I’m sure you can be trusted to keep the wife entertained | |||
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"My Indian wife is hot and loves a good fuck but I feel it’s time to see her with others just need help convincing her " Don't be disgusting. Coercive behaviour is abuse. | |||
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"Hi we’ve spoken about this in the past, but she has always been suspicious as to why I’d want this. How do I convince her to do it? " It really depends on whether she actually wants to or not. For example, my wife always felt guilty at the thought of it (she felt like it would be cheating) but actually wanted to try it, so after some talking she was comfortable with the fact I didn't look at it as cheating. If however, she doesn't really want to, I'd just leave it there to be honest. Things can get really messy and ruin a good relationship unless you're both completely on the same page. | |||
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