FabSwingers.com forum: Trust Issues!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's so difficult to trust anyone with being discreet these days!

I've had people tell friends about my profile on here, 'light' bl@ckmail attempts, and just brazen attempts to find out who i am and gossip.

Anyone else had these problems? What are your tales of caution?!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not something i've ever encountered op ,so don't know what tp tell you sorry.

To be honest & blunt I don't get why anyone would be so interested in a profile that has no public pics etc.Maybe they think you have something to lose/hide & that's why you're a shadow etc & thats why they have tried these tactics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This was a while ago on a different profile, part of the reason why i had to delete an old profile and go incognito on this one!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some people are just idiots with nothing better to do .

You cant have pics on fab & be totally sure someone won't share them/screenshot etc.

Some good advice on a similar thread about keeping identity secret,was to make sure you dont have face pics and rude bits in any pics together.Then if anyone does share a facepic you can deny any knowledege of fab and say its been taken from elsewhere.

Use a general face pic thats not on any other social media ,in case they search it & link to fb etc.

Make your location different to where you are slightly & be careful what details you do give out to anyone.

Or try clubs op & meet people face to face in a safe environment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good advice!

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

lancs

I dont care if people find out who i am or try to find out to be honest, il tell them and show them who i am. No shame here. And they can also share my profile because the more people that see it the better. Think of it as advertisment hahah :D

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Pretty straightforward really… while I don’t go shouting it from the rooftops, I also only put on what I’m comfortable with being shared

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

You can trust Sydney University but not the rest of the world! Anything on your profile can potentially be abused. I've had female friends find their pictures on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile along with pics and veris were sent to my friends and family on Facebook by a guy I (politely) turned down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile along with pics and veris were sent to my friends and family on Facebook by a guy I (politely) turned down.

Exactly this kind of behaviour! I don't get why people can be so vindictive (get a life springs to mind!)

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